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So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/8/2012 11:02:47 PM

lemmony2

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Is this site a genuine site that really is occupied by those interested in alternative lifestyles and approaches to life?
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I just have to ask because 99.99% of the mail I receive from this site is genuine phonies seeking money for every story under the sun.

Is this just me or is anyone else noticing the same thing? Or is their even an anyone else that is not into some sort of scam or another?

By the way if their is anyone here interested in knowing my name is Levi and I am a 38 year old male very dominant in Michigan primarily interested in finding a long term relationship with a female who is really genuine about the life style and long term potential.. uhm with no diseases or major mental issues lol

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/8/2012 11:42:57 PM

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As with any free internet site you will find a good share of scammers and pretenders and people who are not what or who they say they are. This is quite normal for the internet.

Unless you are well known by being a regular poster on the forums, I would doubt that a male Dom would get much mail from real people around here. You are most likely to get mail from those who are trying to rape your wallet. You have to realize males outnumber females but a large percentage. Young females don't have to write to males Doms they don't know. They are already getting more mail than they can possibly answer.

Over 90% of those you meet online will not be what they say they are. Of the female submissives you write to you might get answers from about 5% to 10%. If you dislike those odds, then read the FAQs at the beginning of the forum. Search for munches and groups in your area. Go out and meet with real people. Your odds will increase quite a lot by doing so.

Welcome to Collarme. There are several couples who met here and actually got married. That means that it is possible to meet people by using Collarme exclusively. If you read in the forums you'll read many happy endings.

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/9/2012 12:56:05 AM

DarkSteven

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Hiya, Levi.

1. Whenever someone complains about all the fakes/scammers. I assume that their profile is not good enough to hold the attention of nonscammers. Your prose is way too flowery. Your pictures are very good, though.

2. You live in Michigan, which has a huge number of kinksters. Go out and meet people.

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/9/2012 5:23:52 AM

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Welcome

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/9/2012 5:27:56 AM

SinFix

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To answer your question, well I think you asked, yes some of us are real on here and not scammers... by the way welcome to the forum side...

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/9/2012 6:12:43 AM

DomMale46

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Welcome to the circus...

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/9/2012 8:44:55 AM

Delilya

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There are real people here. I have met several nice people from CM, found a mentor and collared a sub. It simply takes time and perseverance. Best of luck to you.

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/9/2012 12:09:46 PM

DomMeinCT

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Welcome.

There are many many *real* people here.

Just remember that you can't change the behavior of others you consider "fake", but you can:

- Block them
- Ignore them
- Don't open their emails, just hover your mouse over them to read them (open emails sometime encourages the sender)
- Improve your profile if it's not attracting respondents that meet who you seek.
- Get out and meet live people at events

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/9/2012 4:18:51 PM

kalikshama

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I recommend you remove the note to fakes - they won't read it and the rest could perceive it as whining. Clean up the spelling and grammar, and add a lot of vanilla stuff about you. Women generally like to get a sense of the whole man, not just his kinky side.

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/9/2012 4:39:32 PM

TNDommeK

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OP, send Me money. Just kidding, wait, no I'm not. Lol. But do enjoy your time here, and remember someone else's kink might not be yours.

Welcome.

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/9/2012 5:21:00 PM

Alecta

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You were doing well in your profile until the last paragraph... women don't like to see negativity from men.
Also, it's a bit of a numbers game. There are more men than women on these sites, so if you're a guy looking you have to be proactive about approaching women. The odds of you corresponding with an actual person (as opposed to a creditcard machine) increases when you take the active approach too, if we assume you're writing them based on your interest in things they've said in their profiles.
Personally I've found CM to be better than the others for actually meeting people who think with more than their genitals once you've set a few filters on your mail ;)

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/9/2012 5:24:31 PM

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Tomorrow is the Port Huron munch. Saturday there is a play party in Lincoln Park (sanguine dreams). Get a Fetlife account and check out the events calendar. There are many hundreds of very real people all over Michigan.

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RE: So uhm really now, I have to ask.. - 5/10/2012 5:11:56 AM

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Hey welcome lem, yes they are here, you just need to give it time and research, yes those money seekers everywhere, but there is a delete button.

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