I'd like to be better

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

I'd like to be better

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Introductions] >> Introduce yourself >> I'd like to be better

Page: [1]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

I'd like to be better - 5/9/2012 12:09:56 PM

Savelle

Posts: 9
Joined: 4/22/2012
Status: offline

Hello everyone, I'm fairly new to the site and I'd just like to say- I'd like to be better.

A little about myself; I'm a young man who's approaching life with a new sense of purpose and putting things into perspective as I move forward. I love to read, enjoy boardgames (chess, backgammon, etc), and in general I like to keep busy. I love sex, movies that make you think, TEDtalks and working with my hands.

I've had two partners in a vanilla relationship with BDSM characteristics. The more those relationships progressed the more I found the lifestyle charming, personally rewarding and impossible to separate from my identity. That is pretty much how I ended up at CollarMe. Now, I know that I've got a number of steps to take further on the road to life before I'm able to accept the role I crave but for now I hope that sticking around will help me mature into the Dom that I'd like to be.

Profile

Post #: 1

RE: I'd like to be better - 5/9/2012 12:17:35 PM

Hillwilliam

Posts: 19394
Joined: 8/27/2008
Status: offline

Damn good profile for a beginner. No cock shot and you appear to put who you are and what you're looking for ahead of the kink aspect.

For a start, you might want to google "Akron BDSM Munch" or "Akron TNG group". TNG is groups of kinksters that are under 35.

Munches are just groups of people with a common interest meeting in a totally vanilla social setting. There, you can meet people who think like you do. A mentor is a great thing to have. You can also get invites to play parties where you can observe other folks in action.

Good luck and welcome.

_____________________________

Kinkier than a cheap garden hose.

Whoever said "Religion is the opiate of the masses" never heard Right Wing talk radio.

Don't blame me, I voted for Gary Johnson.

(in reply to Savelle)

Profile

Post #: 2

RE: I'd like to be better - 5/9/2012 12:27:28 PM

DomMeinCT

Posts: 2355
Joined: 5/5/2005
Status: offline

Welcome.

Nice work on the profile (hint....except for where you call yourself a "dominate" instead of "dominant").

Best in your search.

_____________________________

The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances:
if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
~ Carl Jung

(in reply to Savelle)

Profile

Post #: 3

RE: I'd like to be better - 5/9/2012 3:43:20 PM

SirLangsdorff

Posts: 289
Joined: 12/12/2010
Status: offline

Welcome!

_____________________________

And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, To love mercy, And to walk humbly with your God? Micah 6:8

I'm nice if you are.
http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/13559888/master-intro

(in reply to DomMeinCT)

Profile

Post #: 4

RE: I'd like to be better - 5/9/2012 4:26:46 PM

DarkSteven

Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to SirLangsdorff)

Profile

Post #: 5

RE: I'd like to be better - 5/9/2012 4:37:22 PM

TNDommeK

Posts: 7153
Joined: 3/13/2010
Status: offline

Hi there and welcome.

_____________________________

Goddess of Duck Lips and Luxurious Hair
The working Fin Domme
Professional con artist, swindler, trixster, extortionist

Our snark-nado needs more cowbell

(in reply to DarkSteven)

Profile

Post #: 6

RE: I'd like to be better - 5/9/2012 8:50:20 PM

MistressDarkArt

Posts: 5178
Status: offline

Howdy! Great intro! Best of luck, and enjoy the journey :-)

(in reply to Savelle)

Profile

Post #: 7

RE: I'd like to be better - 5/10/2012 5:00:22 AM

OohAahMrs

Posts: 7723
Joined: 7/14/2010
Status: offline

Welcome sav.

_____________________________

You may choc the choc.........Oh forget it......

(in reply to Savelle)

Profile

Post #: 8

RE: I'd like to be better - 5/10/2012 6:24:31 AM

ashjor911

Posts: 7793
Joined: 9/7/2010
From: balcony, having a Smoke
Status: offline

Welcome

_____________________________

"operative" working undercover for the federal government of bangladesh.

my name is : bonsh ... jamesh bonsh.
code name : 009.5
licensed to give formla

(in reply to Savelle)

Profile

Post #: 9

RE: I'd like to be better - 5/10/2012 10:45:08 AM

Savelle

Posts: 9
Joined: 4/22/2012
Status: offline

Thank you all for the warm welcome.

(in reply to ashjor911)

Profile

Post #: 10

RE: I'd like to be better - 5/10/2012 11:27:31 AM

kalikshama

Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline

Great profile! Are you sure your stated age of 24 isn't a typo?

(in reply to Savelle)

Profile

Post #: 11

RE: I'd like to be better - 5/10/2012 7:44:20 PM

Savelle

Posts: 9
Joined: 4/22/2012
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Great profile! Are you sure your stated age of 24 isn't a typo?

Positive. There are two sides to being as old as I actually am- I wish I were ten years older, wiser and greatly look forward to where I'll be and the person I'll be looking at in the mirror. But the person I am now has all that to look forward to.

(in reply to kalikshama)

Profile

Post #: 12