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DemonofChains -> Somewhat overdue... (5/11/2012 11:50:31 PM)

Hello everyone.

After about a week of adjusting my profile and settings to my preferences, I've decided to finally post in the forums officially. Hopefully, I meet a slave or submissive who appreciates and is interested in what my profile specifically states. In the meantime, I just hope to enjoy the community and talk with people who enjoy this lifestyle.

Going back to my profile though, I highly encourage slaves and submissives to read it in it's entirety.




ashjor911 -> RE: Somewhat overdue... (5/12/2012 6:03:10 AM)

sorry ... not slave here.. so i am not allowed to read... ok good for me

Welcome




DarkSteven -> RE: Somewhat overdue... (5/12/2012 6:27:47 AM)

Hello there and welcome to collarme. You sound like a decent enough chap. But your profile is awful. Here are my thoughts.

1. Your first paragraph is a loud alarm that you have no experience. Remove it.
2. Your second paragraph is based upon the misapprehension that there are dozens of women for every Dom man. That's not true. Men outnumber women by a fair margin. If you don't message the desirable women, other men will, and will get them while you're waiting.
3. Your fourth paragraph says that you want a woman who will accept 24/7 TPE. The only women I know like that, have many years of slavery under their belts and are seeking very experienced Masters. You're much more likely to have success if you accept a woman who is a sub and ease into deeper levels of submission over time.
4. Your sixth paragraph says that not only will you not make the first move, you won't even allow women to contact you to explore compatibility - they must submit to you with the first message. Nobody sane will give themself over to you, a totally unknown and unproven quantity, right off the bat.

So write a profile that describes you. As a person, not your thoughts on Mastery and all that. Then describe the woman you want, and more than just her age. Finally, the relationship you envision, in general terms. But not so general as to say that she will serve you, with no specifics. If you have any experience, mention it.

Also, check to see if there are any TNG events in your area. Go out and meet people.

Welcome again to collarme.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Somewhat overdue... (5/12/2012 6:41:34 AM)

Welcome to the discussion side of CM, Demon.

I agree with DS about your profile. It's quite clear you are embroiled in online fantasy RP, not real time BDSM.

There is a huge difference.

If you want to make the transition to real time, please continue lurking and learning. As your education grows, I suspect you will realize your profile needs a complete make over.

Best, CP




OohAahMrs -> RE: Somewhat overdue... (5/12/2012 8:11:24 AM)

Welcome dem.




Delilya -> RE: Somewhat overdue... (5/12/2012 3:03:12 PM)

good luck




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