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ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 6:02:03 AM   
MsMoniquesboitoi


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Status: offline 		during Her female time? i been under Her for bout 8 months and really love it. but being a boi not really to sure how to help or if i should just chill and let time take its course. i just really love Her and want to be everything She needs me to be plus more. if any of YOU other Ladies out there could help it would be super cool. i try i be positive and tell HER everything will be all good, but i just dont want to be annoying! i realize all Woman are different and there is no one secret answer to this, but any suggestions would be helpful..... thanks
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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 6:27:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hon, if you actually were a "boi" you would already know this.  The term is usually associated with the LGBT community.  In other words, you'd have female parts and/or plumbing.

Since you recognize that women are different in regard to their menstrual cycle, the best person you can ask is her.  After eight months together, it's not a taboo subject.  She'll probably welcome the fact that you want to help.


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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 6:39:55 AM   
MsMoniquesboitoi


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Status: offline 		Lady Pact thanks for the advice and the lesson about the word boi. She give me that name and does say i act like a girl all the time! but Your right i should just ask HER. i just thought i could surprise Her with something nice to put a smile on Her face

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 8:41:49 AM   
Rochsub2009


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Status: offline 		As LadyPact said, you're a "boy", not a "boi".

But having said that, I'm curious about how you think you can help her while she's on her period. What did you have in mind? Or more importantly, has she ever given you any indication that she wants you do do anything for her while she's on her period? Perhaps, she just wants to be left alone during that time, and you're trying to force yourself upon her.

The best thing to do is simply to ask her. Nobody will know better than she will.

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 8:46:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		This is confusing me, too. Even before my endo was diagnosed and I was having thrilling times, it was just my period. I still went to work every day, it's not an *illness* as such. A hot watter bottle is nice, but not as nice as say, a valium, or a naprosyn.

So, ASK. Having a period is just another bit of pain and inconvenience, no matter how much the media might glamorize it.

Oh, and YAY menopause bwahhahaaa!

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 8:58:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		well i got some replies thanks for the opinions... i understand that i really can do nothing for Her, but i wasnt really talkin bout that i guess i meant psm. either way SHE KNOWS BEST. so thats that peace

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 9:04:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		Does she have PMS? Y'll know that's PRE menstrual syndrome, right? Once the bleeding starts those symptoms go away and the other stuff kicks in...

So, talk to her, and watch her behaviour, see if she has cravings. Her favorite salt or sugar at the righ time won't go amiss!

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 11:09:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Just bring her flowers. Works with women for all occasions and non-occasions.

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 11:28:27 AM   
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Just bring her flowers. Works with women for all occasions and non-occasions.

The only problem with that is then they wonder what you've done wrong.

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 11:42:00 AM   
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Just bring her flowers. Works with women for all occasions and non-occasions.

The only problem with that is then they wonder what you've done wrong.

Probably from past experience?

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 11:47:17 AM   
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Just bring her flowers. Works with women for all occasions and non-occasions.

The only problem with that is then they wonder what you've done wrong.

Probably from past experience?

I'm takin the 5th.

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 11:50:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		Actually I dont much care for flowers as a gift.

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 11:52:42 AM   
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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 11:58:42 AM   
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Actually I dont much care for flowers as a gift.

*laughs* Carol likes the occasional bouquet... but she'd probably like a new paintbrush or chisel more. Other guys shop for their women at Hallmark and See's Candies. I shop at Woodcraft.


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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 12:06:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		You know not all of us get PMS, right? And for those that do, it is what happens BEFORE you are in the red. During, some people get cramping and some, like me, never had it and never will. Despite it being labled as "the curse", for most of us it is just another few days in our lives. No big deal unless someone makes it one.

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well i got some replies thanks for the opinions... i understand that i really can do nothing for Her, but i wasnt really talkin bout that i guess i meant psm. either way SHE KNOWS BEST. so thats that peace



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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 1:29:19 PM   
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Despite it being labled as "the curse", for most of us it is just another few days in our lives. No big deal unless someone makes it one.
Mine has become absolutely, amazingly horrible. I'm lucky Himself is very understanding.


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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 1:35:05 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		It can vary so much, and can get worse late in life. My teens years were deadly, just crippling pain.

And yea, Hilly,dark chocolate is a fine offering.

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 1:47:16 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		Ugh, yeah, like being curled up in a ball or puking and fainting from the pain, luckily not every time but sometimes it gets me by surprise and it's not very pleasant... And joy of joys, think the next one is due when I'm spending about 20 hours on planes and airports, I shall be armed with bottles of midol and possibly wear a sign around my neck with a warning...

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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 5:07:11 PM   
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Ugh, yeah, like being curled up in a ball or puking and fainting from the pain, luckily not every time but sometimes it gets me by surprise and it's not very pleasant... And joy of joys, think the next one is due when I'm spending about 20 hours on planes and airports, I shall be armed with bottles of midol and possibly wear a sign around my neck with a warning...


I always find that just standing in front of a woman and pointing and laughing at her when she's on the blob is enough to get her to forget any pains. Never fails.




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RE: ways to help out my Miss.... - 5/15/2012 7:04:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		When I was still having periods, during my PMS time I really just wanted something to de-stress me and back massages worked really good. Not that I got a lot of them. I actually didn't. When I was miserable and crampy during my period, I liked to cuddle quietly. Also, during my PMS or the actual period, either one, belgian chocolates worked wonders. hehe BUT, every woman is different. After being with her for eight months, it's not an untouchable subject to talk about with her. Ask her what she wants.

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