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Bill41 -> RE: How Long (5/16/2012 11:17:13 AM)

Amaidiamond thank You for that information i know people may not always appear what they seem to be. my emails this Dom have been just business as far as i can tell. The only other mention was of my likes and dislikes per Her request.

LadyConstanze that is the course i plan on following. Have a 1 hour session and if the chemistry/session goes well set up another one. i imagine some first time sessions can be akward for some newbies.




RumpusParable -> RE: How Long (5/16/2012 1:24:27 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Bill41

i am a sub looking for advice from a Pro Dom so i hope this is the right spot. my question is how long should my first session be? i am emailing back and forth she has asked all my likes and there are many but i dont expect to do them all in a 1 hour session. She is reccomending a 3 hour session but that seems kind of long and expensive for my first time and we don't really know each other yet. i appreciate any advice you can give


As a pro I always wanted to keep my first session to the minimum of an hour. The first time he and I are testing the waters in a lot of ways.. it could always turn out that neither of us enjoy it, despite best attitude and effort on our parts. I don't want the client paying for longer than he wants to be there and I don't want to be stuck there longer than I want to be, minimum time excluded.

I'd save longer sessions until we know we like how the other one is.




Bill41 -> RE: How Long (5/16/2012 2:20:20 PM)

That makes perfect sense and that was what we originally agreed. Then when i gave her a list of all my likes (not necessarily what i wanted to do on a first visit) she next recommended a longer session. Waiting to hear Her reply back for the one hour session we discussed in our first email.




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