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LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Title chosen from life or sexual preferences? (6/6/2006 8:56:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kirei We have our true selves which stay hidden to most of the world and then there is the mask of ourselves that most of the rest of the world sees. Not for me or many others I know. My dominant personality and strength isn't a mask I put on and then am relieved to take off once I enter the house and can be "truly free." I'm always being me. I don't feel repressed at work because I can't kneel. I know a lot of people turn to submission at home as a way to let go and relax and be comfortable with not being a responsible adult anymore. But really- the responsibilities and work continues inside the house. If I come home, get naked and kneel, I'm not taking off my mask, I'm simply expressing myself differently.

Quivver -> RE: Title chosen from life or sexual preferences? (6/6/2006 8:56:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kirei In astrology this is called taking on the qualities of your accendent sign....in Frudian its that mask term, but basically the same thing. You know Kirei, that is something I've given alot of thought too myself. It seems my Cancer rising is horribly masked by my Aries Sun... sigh..................

Quivver -> RE: Title chosen from life or sexual preferences? (6/6/2006 9:00:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Remember your friendly neighborhood auctioneer when it comes time to peddle admissions............. Ron LOL, and I thought you'd offer your services and Auction off the Seats!! It will be a benifit for the Clueless..................

KatyLied -> RE: Title chosen from life or sexual preferences? (6/6/2006 10:11:18 AM)
quote: Oh now that's IT, the Mudd Wrestling is ON!!! Um, I know where there is a secluded cabin with a muddy pond....a very muddy pond..... [&:]

Suleiman -> RE: Title chosen from life or sexual preferences? (6/6/2006 11:54:06 AM)
My Title is "Baal-Suleiman, overlord of the shortpants", but most folks just call me spiffy. What can I say? I'm bisexual and a switch. I'll do nearly anything with, for, or to someone if the chemistry is right. I just wish someone would call me by my proper title without snickering.

OedipusRexIt -> RE: Title chosen from life or sexual preferences? (6/6/2006 11:55:06 AM)
Interesting discussion, with most of the posts quite on target. I think the OP laid it out pretty completely, though. I can only add that while my sexual preference is to be Dominant, it is an important part my gestalt. It doesn't define me, but it does reflect me. I don't need to dominate everyone I meet, or even have sex with. But it is the only really good sex for me.

BrattyBottomRN -> RE: Title chosen from life or sexual preferences? (6/6/2006 11:58:23 AM)
Both really. My sexual preference most certainly, because I cannot orgasm without some sort of rough or edgy play. However, I'm SUCH a bitchy, independant, dominant woman in R/L, I just love letting lose to my Master... to just let go of all of the responsibility of my life, my job, my demanding world, and to truly give myself to Him as a gift.

juliaoceania -> RE: Title chosen from life or sexual preferences? (6/6/2006 12:05:14 PM)
My family would probably guess I have a submissive nature. Some of my friends would too. My peers and coworkers probably wouldnt guess this about me. I am opinionated at times, I am well researched when I really debate something on an academic level. I probably do not seem "submissive" to them. But I do not care if others view me this way because my self identification comes from my interactions with my mate both sexually and nonsexually. That is what I based this label I have applied to myself on.

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