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Killerangel -> RE: not happy (5/21/2012 3:29:25 AM)
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Hello and welcome to CM,
I'm sorry your experience isn't what you wanted it to be, what can you do to change that? You may want to keep in mind that you probably have to be proactive and view and write to others if you aren't doing that already in order to get that in return. If you are doing those things it may take a longer time to see results. This site is pretty much like life, you get what you put into it. One of your journal entries mentions that you usually have this same problem on other sites. It might help to approach being successful on CM like any other social situation, how do you get friends in real life?
That being said, I found it very good that you had life interests listed in your interest section on your profile along with kink since a lot of guys tend to just concentrate on what gets them off, and hey, your interests were varied and engaging. Try looking over the profile text to correct errors and hopefully with time you'll revamp things somewhat and become more positive. Women usually find an assured, upbeat attitude attractive- on a site where you are competing with lots of other men you may have to put forth a better side of you so they can see how attractive you are instead of how downtrodden.
Good luck with things.
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