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What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 3:02:07 PM   
Vikinglord41


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Status: offline 		And I seriously doubt that I am alone in this. Men who make that 1-1000 connection by finding a bondage mate, (almost always the sub female), and then make the female sub post "looking for another female playmate for my daddy\master", etc. First of all to the female, you must not be good enough where he needs another female. Yes, what male dom wouldn't want multiple submissive females, but there are still thousands of subs and doms that need to meet. In other words, stop trying to get more than you deserve, A-HOLES!!!

Let's hear it out there. I know I have seen others bitch about this as well!
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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 3:09:19 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Really?  You've seen other people complain because those of us who are poly have more than one person in our lives?

Well, sorry for the inconvenience, but bitching about it isn't going to make people choose monogamy just because you can't find someone.


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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 3:10:16 PM   
SoulAlloy


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Status: offline 		tbh I'd question why the sub was posting instead of the master, and i'd question if the sub exists...

But then I can be a suspicious bastard sometimes lol - at the end of the day even if it is genuine then they will likely attract others who want that kind of relationship, and would be happier in it than a monogomous one

Let It Be...

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 3:20:29 PM   
saltie


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Status: offline 		Want to know what we are really sick of? Males whining for whatever reason they can't meet a female.

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 3:51:17 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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quote:

ORIGINAL: saltie

Want to know what we are really sick of? Males whining for whatever reason they can't meet a female.


OMG, ^^this^^.

Kiss of death, dude, writing stuff like this. Women hit the 'read forum posts' button from here or your profile and it's all over.

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:05:27 PM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		Absolutely ... nothing worse than whining

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt


quote:

ORIGINAL: saltie

Want to know what we are really sick of? Males whining for whatever reason they can't meet a female.


OMG, ^^this^^.

Kiss of death, dude, writing stuff like this. Women hit the 'read forum posts' button from here or your profile and it's all over.




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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:11:08 PM   
SoulAlloy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt


quote:

ORIGINAL: saltie

Want to know what we are really sick of? Males whining for whatever reason they can't meet a female.


OMG, ^^this^^.

Kiss of death, dude, writing stuff like this. Women hit the 'read forum posts' button from here or your profile and it's all over.



Must admit I've never followed the link from a profile... How far back does it go and where does it start from? I've followed from the forum link before to find a thread I'd posted on

He can surely make amends simply by posting lots more over the next few weeks? It'd take a very determined sub to go through a few hundred posts...

Admittedly yeah there's a lot of threads like this and it could be a way of dissuading it, but I do wonder just how valid the 'kiss of death' theory is?

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:17:52 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:23:51 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		You have brought up a serious problem. When you figure out why a submissive would choose to be the second girl in a poly family instead of your first girl, then you will know why you are still looking.

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:26:40 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Hey, I wish I had one... but I don't begrudge someone having more than one just because I don't have one. Have fun! If I didn't have limitations, I might have a few too! The thing is, if we can't find one... there may be a reason for that. Find out what it is before you go blaming someone else for your single state. Sometimes there are good reasons to be single and it is genuinely hard to find a good fit, especially as you age or have requirements. However, if you think you are single because others are taking up more than their share... you have a bigger problem than I do and mine is pretty fucking big.

Mirror, mirror...

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:28:42 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: saltie

Want to know what we are really sick of? Males whining for whatever reason they can't meet a female.


Took the words right out of my mouth......


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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:29:48 PM   
stellauk


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Vikinglord41

but there are still thousands of subs and doms that need to meet



Er, speak for yourself.

I need oxygen to breathe, and frequent amounts of water and sleep for my health.

Everything I do that is connected with sub dom is done out of choice and preference, never out of necessity.

Same thing with meeting people. I meet people and share life with them out of choice and preference, never out of necessity.

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:38:03 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I need other humans in my life. Luckily I have friends and family. The bdsm? I can manage without.

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:43:06 PM   
Whiplashsmile4


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
quote:

ORIGINAL: saltie
Want to know what we are really sick of? Males whining for whatever reason they can't meet a female.

Took the words right out of my mouth......


Ditto....

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:48:33 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Dude, hardly any of the couples looking for a bi girl unicorn find them. In other words, you just posted a clueless rant about the wrong reason you cannot get a submissive. The Dom men get more of them than couples do.

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:51:46 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		"you must not be good enough where he needs another female"
Nope, she is so good, she likes having a sister to play with too.

"stop trying to get more than you deserve"
Now that I am in my 50s, I have slowed down a bit. Although I deserve 4 or 5, I only need about 3 these days. So by your measure, I am personally responsible for 2 extra slaves being available. You should thank me for taking less than I deserve.



I am truly sorry your monogamous women have left you bitter. Maybe one woman isn't enough for you if you have such a big chip on your shoulder you make foolish public pronouncements like this?

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:57:58 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

"you must not be good enough where he needs another female"
Nope, she is so good, she likes having a sister to play with too.


Yeah, really. I'm extremely bi. To the point where I'm geared more towards women than men. According to this asshat, I shouldn't get my wish of having a woman in our relationship.


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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:58:09 PM   
RemoteUser


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Status: offline 		I deserve a lot more than I have, simply because I accept the facts about the things I do, and the things I don't.

If that doesn't happen, I suppose I'm human.

That's ok.


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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 4:58:31 PM   
littlecherie


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Status: offline 		I'm okay with Master getting another person. he has no interest. It has nothing to do with me being 'good enough'.

Sorry for whatever happened. This is part of the grieving process. Hopefully the irritating bitchiness passes.

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RE: What I am really sick of - 5/21/2012 5:26:13 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Yeaaahhhh....sorry dude...no sympathy. The way I see it, if they can get more than one, more power to them! Kudos to them. They apparently have something that you're lacking. Why not see what is working for them and not for you?


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