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SilkBlossom -> Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 2:31:16 PM)

Hello I was wondering what the deal is with the new fat fetish I'm hearing about and if it would be worth it for me to start my own erotic photos/videos website since im a larger girl.
I mean I know most people think fat is disgusting but lately ive been seeing these specials on tv about how fat girls are making huge bucks on websites but I honestly don't want to go and degrade myself if this is not true or not many would be interested in it. If anyne has experience with this fetish, good or bad, id love to hear more about.

I think if there is a 'fat fetish community' I would be good in it, cause even though im bigger, im very feminine, clean, and pretty , always have my nails and toenails, hair done, makeup, jewelry, nice clothes etc
Please no rude or mean comments! I've had enough of those already, thank you, kindly for all your opinions and info. And if you could send me privatly any links you may have with more info that would be appreciated, thank you all




peppermint -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 3:22:42 PM)

Fat is not a new fetish. There have always been people who find it attractive. I can remember back 35 years when I knew a man who only dated overweight women. He did try a thin one for a short while but he just didn't find her sexually appealing.

I'm sure you could sell erotic videos and pictures of larger women. They would need to be well done if you expect it to be a money making business.

Now you just need to research how to start an online business. You also need to research those porn laws that came into being several years ago. Those laws will require you to keep very good detailed records and you need to plan on keeping them forever.




DarkSteven -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 3:40:06 PM)

35 years? Hell, back a few hundred years ago, women with a few extra pounds were prized. Look at the paintings from that era.




MissImmortalPain -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 3:45:44 PM)

As both the above posters pointed out...fat isn't new. There have always been bbw, chubby chasers, feeders. How much do you know about the adult entertainment industry? There are a lot of "communitys" that only deal with fat folk. Not all of them are overly feminine, though that does help with many.




ResidentSadist -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 4:41:30 PM)

First if all, you are cute and sexy at the same time. You should be able to fit into the chubby girl niche quite nicely.

Secondly, the chubby chasers have been around long before the word Romanesque was used to describe large sexy women. However, your observation that it is relatively new in the porn industry is correct. The niche market in porn is growing fast. The Score Group is right here in Florida (Miami) and they pay scale ($500+ per session) plus travel & lodging for photo/video shoots. You might want to check with them to see if they are interested. It is good way to break into the industry, they are good company.

Good luck.




peppermint -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 4:51:59 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

35 years? Hell, back a few hundred years ago, women with a few extra pounds were prized. Look at the paintings from that era.


I'm talking about what's happened in MY lifetime, Steven. I wouldn't make a guess about all that you have seen in your numerous years.




sincelo -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 6:10:38 PM)

Nice peppermint! Sorry Dark Steven but that was quality =p

OP if you want to become an online girl do it. I am sure you will make money.
You wont feel degraded if it is something that you are into. Make your boundaries clear.
Good luck






LookieNoNookie -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 7:30:23 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SilkBlossom

Hello I was wondering what the deal is with the new fat fetish I'm hearing about and if it would be worth it for me to start my own erotic photos/videos website since im a larger girl.
I mean I know most people think fat is disgusting but lately ive been seeing these specials on tv about how fat girls are making huge bucks on websites but I honestly don't want to go and degrade myself if this is not true or not many would be interested in it. If anyne has experience with this fetish, good or bad, id love to hear more about.

I think if there is a 'fat fetish community' I would be good in it, cause even though im bigger, im very feminine, clean, and pretty , always have my nails and toenails, hair done, makeup, jewelry, nice clothes etc
Please no rude or mean comments! I've had enough of those already, thank you, kindly for all your opinions and info. And if you could send me privatly any links you may have with more info that would be appreciated, thank you all



Honey....ain't nuttin new under the sun. Look back in history.

If you wanna sell photos of your fatness...go for it...lots of dudes are into it.

Anything you can dream of, view, imagine....it's been done before.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 7:57:59 PM)

OP, you're a big girl but not morbidly obese, so maybe for the ones with a fat fetish you wouldn't be appealing but the ones who like big curvy girls that got some shape would definitely love you!




subpig610 -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 8:00:20 PM)

I am looking for a male dominant who is into chubby subserviant guys.




asiansubmissie -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 9:48:56 PM)

We're all fat in some way or another. Without it, we cannot survive.




MistressDarkArt -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 10:46:22 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Secondly, the chubby chasers have been around long before the word Rubenesque was used to describe large sexy women.

Good luck.



There, fixed it for ya RS. Peter Paul Rubens was the Flemish artist who painted the cuddly ladies.

Welcome, OP and good luck with your endeavor! A good friend of mine is a plus-sized pro-domme in her 50s. Despite healthy diet and exercise, she will always be a big girl. Her raison d'etre for entering the biz was to be desired and respected exactly as she was. She takes fitness, wellness, and femininity very seriously and is still ALWAYS in demand after 30 years as a domme. She even met (and married) the love of her life who adores every inch of her, inside and out. She couldn't be happier.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 11:11:47 PM)

Lots of market for larger ladies. If you are on facebook, check out Voluptuous Vixens, lots of great (vanilla) sexy hints and pics.





NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 11:41:01 PM)

SilkBlossom, I just want to say here that you are very pretty.

Most of the sub guys that write to me love my BBWness(is that a word? I think I just made that up, lol) and I make no secret of it in the pictures on my profile. I don't try to hide it. I've never had anyone write to me with rude ass comments, so there are definitely guys out there that prefer us plus-sized gals. [;)]

NBMG




LadyConstanze -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/23/2012 11:53:40 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt


quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Secondly, the chubby chasers have been around long before the word Rubenesque was used to describe large sexy women.

Good luck.



There, fixed it for ya RS. Peter Paul Rubens was the Flemish artist who painted the cuddly ladies.

Welcome, OP and good luck with your endeavor! A good friend of mine is a plus-sized pro-domme in her 50s. Despite healthy diet and exercise, she will always be a big girl. Her raison d'etre for entering the biz was to be desired and respected exactly as she was. She takes fitness, wellness, and femininity very seriously and is still ALWAYS in demand after 30 years as a domme. She even met (and married) the love of her life who adores every inch of her, inside and out. She couldn't be happier.


Actually the ladies Rubens painted aren't that much different than the average woman today, their proportions are fine, they carry a bit much weight if you use the media standards of today but they are not quite obese. As long as the proportions work (and with the OP they do judging from her avatar) it's beauty, if the chest, waist and hip ratio doesn't work anymore, that's when somebody looks grossly out of shape, and that can be a skinny person too!




MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/24/2012 2:49:20 AM)

Who cares what ´most people´ think, SilkBlossom, you´re very pretty and your confidence comes through from your photos. So go for it.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/24/2012 5:08:35 AM)

The idea that skinny is sexy is a modern phenomena; not that long ago being skinny meant starving for food, which translated for men into being not prosperous and therefore not good husband material, and for women into being not healthy enough to bear children, so poor wife material.

Many years back (over 30) I read a study in which men were presented with various images of women. Almost universally, they found the more Rubenesque female images to be more arousing then their less hefty counterparts. The study concluded with the suggestion that many men were so bought into the new cultural norm that finding larger women sexy and arousing was a deep dark secret. They *said* they preferred skinny women, but their bodies said otherwise.

As far as entering into the porn industry, well that is a totally different topic to me. Some people handle the industry well, that is, with their ego intact, and others don't.

You said: "but I honestly don't want to go and degrade myself if this is not true" which leads me to believe you *might* have some self esteem issues with your size. If you have any at all, I don't think it's a good idea to pursue this option, no matter how much money is involved.

If you are quite sure that won't arise as an issue, they by all means go for it. You can always start small (pun intended) and quit if you find it's really NOT your cup of tea.

Best, CP





SilkBlossom -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/24/2012 11:52:39 AM)

Thank you all for your comments, opinions and information :)
It was very helpful. I'm going to look into it more too now.




thursdays -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/24/2012 12:59:36 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

35 years? Hell, back a few hundred years ago, women with a few extra pounds were prized. Look at the paintings from that era.


I'm talking about what's happened in MY lifetime, Steven. I wouldn't make a guess about all that you have seen in your numerous years.


Waiter, waiter!

A saucer of milk for peppermint please!




thursdays -> RE: Fat Fetish??? Info Please (5/24/2012 1:01:47 PM)

First - you're gorgeous!

Second - yes, there are quite a few people out there for whom bbw are a fetish, and there are a few for whom size simply isn't important.





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