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kindhrtitalian -> Attending a munch (5/24/2012 5:42:04 PM)

How do I find one in my area




DesFIP -> RE: Attending a munch (5/24/2012 5:43:12 PM)

Google bdsm boston and see what pops up.




LadyPact -> RE: Attending a munch (5/24/2012 6:07:28 PM)

In the FAQ sticky that is on the forum, there is a section titled, "Find munches/events in your area".  Have a look through those links and see what you find.




kindhrtitalian -> RE: Attending a munch (5/24/2012 6:18:33 PM)

I will now ty lady




OsideGirl -> RE: Attending a munch (5/24/2012 6:32:24 PM)

Also, if you do a search on Fet Life it will give you groups in your area.




Soyokaze -> RE: Attending a munch (5/24/2012 7:25:47 PM)

I recommend fet life as well. I've had a lot of luck finding events with it.




kalikshama -> RE: Attending a munch (5/25/2012 12:32:17 PM)

Although I thought we covered this a few weeks ago here: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4113808/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4113912

Try this: https://fetlife.com/search?q=boston




Salinedion -> RE: Attending a munch (5/25/2012 4:26:06 PM)

'Went to about 30 munches (all in major metro areas).

# of unattached women at the munches? Zero.

It's a feel good experience and great to be among the kindred, but I never heard of any dom guy finding a partner at one.




Soyokaze -> RE: Attending a munch (5/25/2012 4:55:38 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Salinedion

'Went to about 30 munches (all in major metro areas).

# of unattached women at the munches? Zero.

It's a feel good experience and great to be among the kindred, but I never heard of any dom guy finding a partner at one.


Thinking back, I don't recall seeing many unattached female subs. I'm purposefully unattached, but I'm also trans so I assume I don't count : p As you kind of say, it's more about socializing than hooking up with people.




ThundersCry -> RE: Attending a munch (5/25/2012 5:42:41 PM)

You need to come deep within the usa...
Munches, groups,etc....single girls were at least 2 to 1...
Life on the plains...
Screw it I`d find a native where your at and never look back!




BurntKitty -> RE: Attending a munch (5/25/2012 5:44:24 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Salinedion

'Went to about 30 munches (all in major metro areas).

# of unattached women at the munches? Zero.

It's a feel good experience and great to be among the kindred, but I never heard of any dom guy finding a partner at one.


My former top found his current wife at the South Florida Munch last year. They were married earlier this month.





Salinedion -> RE: Attending a munch (5/25/2012 5:49:51 PM)

Hey, glad to hear about your unicorn spotting experience in Florida, but 99% of all male munch goers will never even make it to a starbucks meet up with anyone at all -even another guy.




Soyokaze -> RE: Attending a munch (5/25/2012 6:14:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Salinedion

Hey, glad to hear about your unicorn spotting experience in Florida, but 99% of all male munch goers will never even make it to a starbucks meet up with anyone at all -even another guy.


I've been in one serious relationship, and had a few play partners through munches in male-mode.




kalikshama -> RE: Attending a munch (5/26/2012 12:13:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Salinedion

Hey, glad to hear about your unicorn spotting experience in Florida, but 99% of all male munch goers will never even make it to a starbucks meet up with anyone at all -even another guy.


Two of the munches near Boston are run by single women. Additionally, going to munches is a way to network. Once you're friends with Couples A, B, and C they'll introduce you to their single friends.




LadyPact -> RE: Attending a munch (5/26/2012 12:22:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Salinedion

'Went to about 30 munches (all in major metro areas).

# of unattached women at the munches? Zero.

It's a feel good experience and great to be among the kindred, but I never heard of any dom guy finding a partner at one.

Wow!  A whole 30?

Let's see.....

Co Spgs, Augusta, Atlanta, Charleston, Greensboro, Denver, (counting Thunder in the Mountains, there) Auburn, San Luis Obisbo, Fresno, Bakersfield, San Fran, (Folsom) LA, Anchorage, Fairbanks........

and frankly, you're full of it.




Salinedion -> RE: Attending a munch (5/26/2012 1:12:26 PM)

Nope, not 30 diff locations, 30 diff munches in like 4-5 locations total.

But still nada, zip, zero on the single females. If any other guy is getting unicorn-Florida lucky, it would be great to hear from him, or better yet, be him.

As Jesse Jackson used to wail, "keep hope aliiiive".




Karmastic -> RE: Attending a munch (5/26/2012 5:37:36 PM)

sorry, never mind




graceadieu -> RE: Attending a munch (5/26/2012 6:11:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Salinedion

'Went to about 30 munches (all in major metro areas).

# of unattached women at the munches? Zero.

It's a feel good experience and great to be among the kindred, but I never heard of any dom guy finding a partner at one.


Maybe get out of the major metro areas? The munch here (in the DC exurbs) usually has a couple single ladies, as well as some partnered poly ladies looking for/open to new partners.




kitkat105 -> RE: Attending a munch (5/26/2012 11:09:31 PM)

Last I checked this thread was about how to find a munch to go to, NOT if there are single ladies present.

And anyway, apart from PDA, how would you tell someone is apart of a couple? Maybe if you're walking up to women saying, "are you single?" they are just lying about their status anyway.




Endivius -> RE: Attending a munch (5/27/2012 4:56:02 AM)

If you are going to munches to meet women you are doing it wrong. You don't have to go to a munch to meet women. This is gonna sound totally insane, bear with me : Women are everywhere. That's right. I know it's nuts, but they are all around you, many of them happen to be single! I know it's a shocker. It really is. The good news for you padowan, is that you can convert the vanillas to the dark side of the farce. Yah that's right, most women have dark sexual fantasies. Some of them are really elaborate and detailed. And guess what? They are just waiting for the right villian to come along and show them how to explore those fantasies. Or you can keep going to the local meet and greet hoping that some single woman is gonna throw herself at your feet and beg for you to take her home so she can service you relentlessly because there are no single men available in the area...[8|]




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