RE: A question on partnered Slaves

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littlecherie -> RE: A question on partnered Slaves (5/25/2012 11:33:32 AM)
I have no idea. Honestly.

JeffBC -> RE: A question on partnered Slaves (5/25/2012 11:35:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: niceguy88 Most male Doms seem 100% willing to take on submissives who are in a relationship or even married. That is certainly not my experience either in real life or in reading these forums. I readily admit I have no idea what goes on over on the other side. Generally in my head I think of the forums as the relationship side of CM and the profiles as the hot-hookup side. I certainly have no interest in anything other than ownership so I wouldn't personally be interested in someone who was already owned. quote: I was thinking it might be due to the ability of real female Doms to pick and choose from a large base of submissives and so can be much more critical. Or maybe there is something inherently more psychological about it all. I think it has to do with more men than women seeking a quick blowjob. In my own experience, top-shelf candidates always have a large base of potentials to choose from. Gender doesn't matter.

kalikshama -> RE: A question on partnered Slaves (5/25/2012 12:22:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Many dommes are okay with married or in relationship subs as long as they can meet the wife or gf and assure themselves that they are okay with it. Men are less likely to make sure that the sub's primary relationship won't be negatively impacted. Yes, I am absolutely happy to take on a married submissive, as I said. And as soon as I say to them, "When can I meet your spouse?" they vanish! Amazing, how it can go from "Oh, she's okay with it," to "DADT", to "Oh no!". [8\|] Ya, first it's "we're in an open relationship" then "she doesn't want to know about it" to "poof."

Muttling -> RE: A question on partnered Slaves (5/25/2012 3:19:40 PM)
As was mentioned before, what you see in online profiles is not an accurate representation of the community. MOST kinksters (male and female) who I know play with more than just one person who they're in an LTR with. The extent of that play varies widely and may be limited to impact play or go all the way to include sex.

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