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slave4feetamor -> not getting messages (5/25/2012 10:45:50 PM)

Im not getting any messages or people veiwing my profile, im assuming theres something wrong with it. could anyone advise any help or tips for me . also how do i locate a local dungeon or people to talk to about getting into the lifestyle



DarkSteven -> RE: not getting messages (5/26/2012 3:53:46 AM)

1. Why would no views and no messages indicate a problem with your profile? Anyhow, I just viewed and messaged your profile - see if you notice them.
2. Google "BDSM Richmond" and see what comes up. Alternatively, go to Fetlife and do a search for events near you.



Wantstocontrolu -> RE: not getting messages (5/26/2012 7:18:10 AM)

I agree Fetlife and look for a group that is local to you.
Munches tho are starting to fade out due to increased use of sites like Fetlife and other "Social networking" places.
You just joined here, be patient. we were "here" for three years before we stopped looking.
(not due to lack of responses, but lack of honesty and earnestness in the respondees.)

If it will happen, it will.



Kana -> RE: not getting messages (5/26/2012 7:26:10 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: slave4feetamor
Im not getting any messages or people veiwing my profile, im assuming theres something wrong with it.


Is it the shoes?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Abr_LU822rQ



DesFIP -> RE: not getting messages (5/26/2012 11:12:58 AM)

Male subs rarely get any messages.



LadyPact -> RE: not getting messages (5/26/2012 11:37:40 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Wantstocontrolu

I agree Fetlife and look for a group that is local to you.
Munches tho are starting to fade out due to increased use of sites like Fetlife and other "Social networking" places.

If it will happen, it will.

Really?  Since when?



mummyman321 -> RE: not getting messages (5/26/2012 11:46:44 AM)

Most sub males do not get messaged. You will need to initiate contact. The more tactful you are, the better chance of getting a response. One line emails will not work.


As far as BDSM groups, google is your friend. So if Fet Life and even on CM in forums in the "Up Coming Events" forum. Lousiville has a good scene.
http://www.louisvillemunch.com/



BurntKitty -> RE: not getting messages (5/27/2012 10:50:31 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wantstocontrolu

I agree Fetlife and look for a group that is local to you.
Munches tho are starting to fade out due to increased use of sites like Fetlife and other "Social networking" places.


Fetlife has increased the popularity of munches and ease of locating them. Well, at least here in South Florida.



peppermint -> RE: not getting messages (5/29/2012 6:51:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wantstocontrolu

Munches tho are starting to fade out due to increased use of sites like Fetlife and other "Social networking" places.


That's a strange thing to say. Many of the fetlife groups are munch groups and they let people know when the next munch is happening. All three munches I attend regularly are on Fetlife and advertise when they are having munch. Rather than replacing munches, fetlife seems to have made more people aware of munches and attendance is growing monthly.



SoulAlloy -> RE: not getting messages (5/29/2012 10:55:53 PM)

Very rare I get a message, lots of views though...

Good advice above about finding a local munch, have to agree with the other posters though about the number of munches...

5 years ago my area had 1 munch locally, around 4 in Manchester.

Now there are 4 others closer to me and 2 in Liverpool... All advertised through Fetlife



littlecherie -> RE: not getting messages (5/30/2012 8:44:08 AM)

I don't get messages at all - might be because I"m taken, and just looking for females. Blah.



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