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Newbie. - 5/27/2012 9:28:34 PM

Redhead39

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Hi :)
I'm new to the site, and the lifestyle...
I'm a unsure sub, curvy, redhead

I have joined the site in hopes that I find that special Dom that will be willing to work with a beginner.

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RE: Newbie. - 5/27/2012 9:49:41 PM

Delilya

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good luck

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RE: Newbie. - 5/27/2012 10:24:58 PM

Redhead39

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Thanks, I am sure it is not going to be easy finding a Dom.

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RE: Newbie. - 5/27/2012 10:42:22 PM

Ilayda

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It'll be VERY easy to find a Dom.

The challenge is finding one that's both worth your time/energy and is compatible with you. ;)

Welcome to CM, and good luck!

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RE: Newbie. - 5/28/2012 1:20:45 AM

DarkSteven

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Welcome to collarme.

As Ilayda says, you will have no trouble finding men who claim to be Doms. So, what are you looking for? Just saying he has to be male and under 50 doesn't narrow it down.

I'd suggest adding in something about him being in control of his own life. Employed, etc. Perhaps something about smoking, drinking, and drugs if that's important to you.

To be honest, I would recommend against online to meet people. Instead of that, look up local munches and groups. Ten minutes with Google will suffice - Florida has lots of kink activity. When you contact the munch/party host/ess, let them know if you feel nervous coming solo and they will keep an eye out for you.

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RE: Newbie. - 5/28/2012 4:03:00 AM

OohAahMrs

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Hey red, you could help your case with a profile pic, or is there something you're hiding?

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RE: Newbie. - 5/28/2012 4:53:25 AM

ashjor911

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Welcome

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RE: Newbie. - 5/28/2012 1:45:54 PM

TNDommeK

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Also I will say a lot of women aren't willing to relocate. I haven't looked at your profile but if you are willing, then your chances have just gotten a lot greater to finding one.

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RE: Newbie. - 5/28/2012 2:03:21 PM

OsideGirl

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You'll have no problem, just stick to what you want, take your time and don't settle.

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RE: Newbie. - 5/28/2012 2:11:53 PM

BurntKitty

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Welcome to CM, fellow Floridian. Not sure where you are, but I'm in SE Fla, Broward county. We have great events & munches to meet others in a no pressure, easy going atmosphere. (Usually a casual restaurant or coffee shop.) No playing, no fetish attire, just kinky people getting together to chat and have a nosh.

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RE: Newbie. - 5/31/2012 2:34:51 PM

Scotch

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Welcome to CM!

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RE: Newbie. - 5/31/2012 5:47:42 PM

shaggydaddy

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hello im new here to i am looking for wat you are a new girl willing to learn but also im looking to learn to if you are interested please feel free to inbox me so we can talk more about it thank you and welcome

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