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Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 10:28:26 AM   
kalthus


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Status: offline 		The system here allows you to select a certain number of hard limits, but it would e interesting to see what other things people would put on. here are a few of mine

Rib ticking (I can take anything but that, leaves me begging for mercy in seconds - even if I'm domming)
Drool or snot dribble when my partner is gagged. I have to clean that up straight away, no matter what role I'm playing.
Clothespegs for nipple torture. Just - so fucking low rent! Get some proper clamps you misberable cheapskate bastards.
UGG boots. When I ask my sub to put some boots on for sex play, this is not what I mean!!! Not even if we are doing Barbarian Princess and evil sorcerer, because barbarians did not wear fucking UGG boots!! And while I'm at it - Crocs, Scholls and see through plastic high heels - not sexy. Vile. No. Instant droop induction. Marshmallow and moneybox scenario.

So, what would other people add?
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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 10:37:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		none...then again I'm not looking and I have no limits with him except those ones he chooses.

Even when I was seeking, I had very very few. To me hard limits are those things that will kill me are illegal. Anything else is possible within discussion before committing myself to that person.


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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 11:04:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have sky diving and bowling as hard limits.

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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 11:12:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		IF I was looking, I would have to list bondage of any kind. I can not be restrained for any reason at any time.



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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 11:19:02 AM   
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Any movie with Mel Gibson.

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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 11:28:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ha, Ugg boots.

Not sure what I would pick...maybe B rated "horror" movies from the 80s. Not classics but ones that you just turn off during the movie. I love horror flicks, but they have to be good.


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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 11:48:49 AM   
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Not sure what I would pick...maybe B rated "horror" movies from the 80s.


The 80's? You mean you've not seen 'Sharktopus'?

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1619880/


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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 11:52:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		You haven't lived until you've seen Death Bed : The Bed That Eat's People.

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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 11:55:39 AM   
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Ha, Ugg boots.


Master calls them "Ugg-lee" boots.

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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 3:20:06 PM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		Putting clothespins on myself, such as for cybersex. That's HIS job; I am less than uninterested.

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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 3:38:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Drool is a given when gagged with a ball gag, can't help it, most Doms are turned on by it!!
But Uggs get real little sub they are no where a turn on.

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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 3:41:10 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I could see Master forcing me to wear Uggs just because he knows how ugly they are and it would embarrass me lol.

Thankfully he finds them just as ugly as I do so probably won't do it thankfully.


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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 4:48:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I actually have seen Death Bed,lol I haven't seen sharktopus. Omg those are def a hard limit. I actually liked deathbed because of how stupid it was.
Dead Birds is one I couldn't get through the first 15 minutes. I like more gore and blood.

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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 5:01:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Never heard of Ugg Boots so I looked them up. I don't understand the aversion to them, they don't seem that bad.



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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 5:05:39 PM   
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I have a pair like the ones Resident posted and I like them and they're really warm.

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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 5:17:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I actually picked up a pair of nice boots recently as part of my costume for the anime convention I attended last week:



Now as strange as it might seem, I'm really not a fan of high heels. I can say for certainty that they would be a hard limit if you tried to put them on my feet...






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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 5:56:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hard limits = Ugg boots? Pfft. I thought we were kinky, here.

I am in agreement with Little Wonder. It's really not my choice to have limits if I am in relationship.

Even my hardest limit is not really a hard limit...it's just that I would likely not be with someone that would demand it of me in the first place, knowing how strongly I feel about it. I have trouble thinking that I could be submissive to someone and have limits on what I am submissive to him for.

I list some hard limits on my profile, and I'm sure I've had them in the past dependent on the situation, but...live and learn. And change.

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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 6:11:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ugg boots remind me of overpriced Minnetonka boots... good warm shear-ling boots for wearing indoors when snowed in but never worn outside with the exception of hiking to the facilities at a campground. But, I've seen some of them that were really really hideous.. the olive drab green ones in particular. And, NOTHING SHOULD EVER BE WORN IN PINK CAMO!

For reference:
Minnetonka Mocassins, around for decades: http://www.moccasins.com/womens-moccasins/ankle-high-moccasin-boots/minnetonkawomensshortclassicpugbootsblacksheepskin.cfm
Uggs, from Australia: http://www.zappos.com/ugg-classic-short-chestnut~2?zfcTest=fw:1

Now, if you want a boot look for play... http://www.jaminleather.com/Ladies-Thigh-Highs-C2064.aspx

Crocs... those always remind me of the "people of wal-mart" website. http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/
Is there such a thing as "white trash chic"?

I agree that clothespins for nipple torture is so lacking in imagination.. rummage through the tool kit... alligator clamps, fahenstock clamps, even bulldog clamps show ore imagination. But how about some color.. you can get a whole jar of brightly colored small woodworking clamps for just a few dollars.... but, trust me, beware of mixing heat shrink tubing with wax play.

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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 6:18:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd rather have clothespins that have been really really loosened up lol. Then again, I absolutely hate nipple clamps of any kind whatsoever.

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RE: Other hard limits - 5/29/2012 7:12:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Absolutely positively NO sex on a bridge, or other similarly high places, while wearing Ugg Boots.
Unless of course Im blindfolded first and taken there unaware...

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