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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 10:32:05 AM

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Oh come on... if he has been talking about making the six hundred mile move... he ought to know already. What's funny is you have this online thing you are taking very seriously and this strong and demanding man needs you to exhibit some physical thing you can do to prove heart and commitment intent for a life time? And you fall for that?

If you are smart... you will put some boots on... in a very sexy manner, show him those boots... give him duck lips... maybe a little tongue, show him the boots again... and then walk out of the room.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 11:05:19 AM

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Side note: I've encountered the same thing from female subs (with cam involved, they were certainly girls with girly parts!). Just wanted to make note that this HNG issue isn't gender, it's mindset. Might be easier if it were just guys but it's not.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 11:18:26 AM

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Let me get this straight, you live in Reno with DaddyLogan, and you're camming with some other dude who wants to be your new Daddy?

Do I have this right?

Have you even met this dude?

What does DaddyLogan think about all this? Or are you two broken up, and you haven't changed your profile or nick? (Major laziness there, and speaks of a lazy slave, *not* a selling point.)

The other option is that you are cheating on this Logan person. Again, not a great selling point.

Frankly, I don't give a shit whether you impress this person with your slaveliness or not. Like attracts like, which means there's a very good chance he's as lazy a/o morally bankrupt as you. Please continue to have all kinds of good fun with that.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 12:09:27 PM

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My guess is DaddyLogan is the guy she is camming with and that her finding a third is one of her "tasks".

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 12:15:00 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddyLogansgirl

i am looking for some advice on how to prove as a slave to my Dom that i truly want this life with Him. He currently lives like 600 miles away and is thinking of moving to where i am. He is very demanding and strong and he told me to show him in my own physical way to show him on cam i want him and this lifestyle permanently b4 he makes a big move....

ANY SUGGESTIONS?????

Personally, if a person I was interested in, and who professed to be interested in me, demanded that I PROVE my interest...I would tell the idiot to have fun with his hand because my interest would be gone.

I think he's looking for some easy porn from you, and has no intention of moving anywhere. Just my thoughts though.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 2:54:35 PM

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quote:

he told me to show him in my own physical way to show him on cam i want him and this lifestyle permanently b4 he makes a big move....

Meh, this sounds like a high school boy asking for a blow job to "prove your love."

I showed R that I was serious by discussing nearby job opportunities with him.

Have you two met in person? I would never cam for a guy I hadn't met. I've always thought that if I was in a committed relationship and we were separated due to work or whatever, I'd consider it, but M is going away for 10 days and I don't have the slightest urge to run out and buy a cam.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 3:04:33 PM

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Ok so everyone knows Daddy and i have met in person before and spent lots of time together this is about Him relocating to where i live giving up His life to join mine.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 3:06:03 PM

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Daddy is the man i am with in my profile on here also

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 3:07:17 PM

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No i live in reno DaddyLogan lives in vegas and is going to move here with me. DaddyLogan is the dom i am doing this for

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 3:09:19 PM

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Daddy Logan is the Dom i am with and who is going to move here my profile is correct and i am not lazy

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 3:19:16 PM

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Well then, is HE lazy? Why doesn't he just tell you what he wants you to do while you're on cam with him?

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 3:20:56 PM

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Since when was it six hundred miles from Reno to Las Vegas?

So I guess we are missing the point eh? He's giving it all up to come to you... already decided, so he doesn't need proof, right? So what is with the little game of prove yourself and why would you need help in knowing what to do for him on cam?

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 3:23:12 PM

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Ah ha . . . well, after the edits to your OP and your replies, I get the feeling this isn't just a variation of "prove you not a man, show me your pussy on cam" scam and he isn't the only one waving red flags. Hell, I thought they were a bonded pair by the false information in the profile.

Dom/sub couple that lives in Reno NV. . . . you left out the part where he is 600 miles away and this all just your cyber kink so far.

"We/we take the lifestyle seriously and live it everyday." . . . you left out the "live it online" part.

"We/we are looking for a submissive female who want to play and have fun." . . . you left out the "fun online" part.

"someone who isn't afraid to meet quickly and have a good time." . . . you left out, "meet just one of us quickly because we live 600 miles apart, but I am sure he will be glad to let you prove yourself submission on cam".

OK, so we have a girl that has created a fake profile seeking more pussy for a fake show-me-your-pussy-cam-Dom by pretending they both live together. Then she comes here asking us to craft ideas for their online mutual masturbation sessions. Seriously, it doesn't speak well for the OP or her cam freak boyfriend. Sorry kid, but you and your guy are full of shit.

Why should I craft and script your kinky cam sessions if I'm not getting anything out of it? Go get a dog or a small pony, a gallon of lube and call me then. I might be open to watching something like that as mild lunch hour entertainment while I eat, but only call me on my lunch hour. I don't have the time nor the inclination for that BS at any other point in the day.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 3:42:08 PM

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quote:

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i am not lazy

I disagree. You are expecting a room full of strangers to give you ideas based on a relationship
we know nothing about, and then you are going to pass them off to DaddyWhatsHisFace as your own.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 5:17:45 PM

LafayetteLady

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddyLogansgirl

Ok so everyone knows Daddy and i have met in person before and spent lots of time together this is about Him relocating to where i live giving up His life to join mine.

Giving up his life? Is that his description or yours? Moving forward for a relationship is not "giving up your life," it is taking the necessary steps towards a better life.

You have spent "lots of time together" yet you need to prove to him that you want to be with him? Are you truly that desperate or that naive?

Ask yourself this question....If this were a vanilla relationship, would you feel him asking you to "prove yourself" to him was appropriate? Because that kind of game playing isn't specific to BDSM. As kali said, it is like the guy in high school who wants his girl to give him a BJ to "prove" her love for him. Complete bullshit.

You are 38, not a kid. If you can't figure this stuff out for yourself, or are desperate enough to do it, then I would suggest you prove it to him, but showing him the bill for your first session with a therapist.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 5:23:09 PM

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He's full of shit. A charlatan, a fraud, and definitely a horny net geek.

As for you.... I'm trying to figure out how to state the obvious truth without breaking any of the rules here. You are, shall we say, "susceptible" enough to fall for his act.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 5:38:40 PM

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Why should I craft and script your kinky cam sessions if I'm not getting anything out of it? Go get a gallon of lube and call me then. I might be open to watching something like that as mild lunch hour entertainment while I eat, but only call me on my lunch hour. I don't have the time nor the inclination for that BS at any other point in the day.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 6:11:28 PM

ChatteParfaitt

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Ah ha . . . well, after the edits to your OP and your replies, I get the feeling this isn't just a variation of "prove you not a man, show me your pussy on cam" scam and he isn't the only one waving red flags. Hell, I thought they were a bonded pair by the false information in the profile.

Dom/sub couple that lives in Reno NV. . . . you left out the part where he is 600 miles away and this all just your cyber kink so far.

"We/we take the lifestyle seriously and live it everyday." . . . you left out the "live it online" part.

"We/we are looking for a submissive female who want to play and have fun." . . . you left out the "fun online" part.

"someone who isn't afraid to meet quickly and have a good time." . . . you left out, "meet just one of us quickly because we live 600 miles apart, but I am sure he will be glad to let you prove yourself submission on cam".

OK, so we have a girl that has created a fake profile seeking more pussy for a fake show-me-your-pussy-cam-Dom by pretending they both live together. Then she comes here asking us to craft ideas for their online mutual masturbation sessions. Seriously, it doesn't speak well for the OP or her cam freak boyfriend. Sorry kid, but you and your guy are full of shit.

Why should I craft and script your kinky cam sessions if I'm not getting anything out of it? Go get a dog or a small pony, a gallon of lube and call me then. I might be open to watching something like that as mild lunch hour entertainment while I eat, but only call me on my lunch hour. I don't have the time nor the inclination for that BS at any other point in the day.

After the new info from the OP I was going to draft another reply but RS beat me to it, and said everything I intended (and more).

Yes, this does make me a big meanie with little patience for online bull crap. Ah well.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 7:54:35 PM

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I dont know why so many people here think the rules of meeting, of taking the next step, and of being in a relationship are so different from the so called "vanilla" life. It seems like one of the "rules" are that you leave your common sense elsewhere, and you fall for a pack of lies, half truths, and deceptions. If someone is serious about you, he gets off his ass and he meets you. You go on cam if the distance does not allow for easy meeting, and you keep your f-king clothes on unless you want to provide him with free x rated entertainment.

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RE: how to prove - 5/30/2012 7:56:26 PM

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This is a mind stunning situation and thread, after having read everything.

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