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Hi :) - 5/31/2012 12:03:19 PM

PrincessLily91

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Ok, I guess I kind of skipped this step haha.

I am Lily (Princess Lily for loyal subbies) and am still decently new to this site. I am a little less new to the lifestyle, but still far from knowing the ropes completely. I will probably have lots of questions and I am sure I will probably step on some toes, intentionally or not, but in general I am only trying to learn and discuss and don't try and be a problem maker.

For those who are curious, I was introduced to this by a close friend of mine. I had known him for three years and he always seemed to cater to me and do things for me above and beyond what was normal or expected. I enjoyed it though and how i could continiously test his limits of what he would do. Then one day we were browsing craigslist ads and laughing at some and I saw one about guy offering to pay to suck a girl's toes. I made some remark about why some guy would pay to do that. My friend was explainig the mentality behind it and I kept asking questions only to realize...he seemed to know an awful lot about this "mentatlity" and "fetish". I realized he HAD to be into it. So being the brat I am, I called him out on it. He sheepishly tried to deny it at first, but he knew I had him. So I finally confessed that he was a submissive and and liked doing things like that and doing things for me. He seemed embarassed and thought it was going to be awkward...but I was intrigued. I asked more and more questions about him, the lifestyle, what he wants, and more. Then i asked if he imagined serving me as a "slave". He admitted it...we were quiet for a bit. Then I told him I would like to make that reality. And it's been amazing ever since. I told my best friend (Princess Jade) and we sort of co-own him toa degree and does everything he can to amke us happy.

But slave or not, I have learned a lot from him about this lifetyle. Most importantly that it is not about money. That under the kink there is certain force and mindset that drives it. That is about relationships, real people, the trust and respect from BOTH partners involved in an exchange of power.

I hope to take that and grow and learn more. We do a clipstore and would love to share what we do with others as well as explore new ideas. Thanks for reading and hope for many good conversations!

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RE: Hi :) - 5/31/2012 12:12:11 PM

BurntKitty

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Welcome Lily! I enjoy reading your posts, so please keep at 'em!

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RE: Hi :) - 5/31/2012 12:12:36 PM

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Hello and welcome.

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RE: Hi :) - 5/31/2012 12:28:14 PM

Delilya

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Pleased to meet you Lily. I have learned much from reading in these forums. May your stay be everything you need it to be.

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RE: Hi :) - 5/31/2012 1:47:42 PM

shaggydaddy

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hi lilly i am new to the site and new to the whole dom master world maybe if u want we can talk about it and learn a little bit from each other and maybe get better at all of this hope to hear from you have a nice day and welcome

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RE: Hi :) - 5/31/2012 2:12:31 PM

Scotch

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Hi Lily and welcome to CM!

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RE: Hi :) - 5/31/2012 5:38:25 PM

PrincessLily91

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Thanks all! :D

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RE: Hi :) - 6/1/2012 8:08:59 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome lil, clip store, yawn, well it's not my thing, though i'm sure the suckers will be falling over themselves to take advantage. No matter, i do quite enjoy your posts, keep it up, as it were.

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RE: Hi :) - 6/1/2012 8:19:39 AM

PrincessLily91

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Shaggy, feel free to message me :)

OohAah, thanks I think? haha. Glad you enjoy my posts.

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