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I don't know where to start - 6/2/2012 9:00:50 AM

Burlychaser

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Hello Everyone.

I've been browsing this website for quit a while and just decided to join up today

I've always been fascinated by the idea of dominating someone but I don't know where to begin.

Middle aged men just drive me nuts

I've done few webcam session with few people but my overall experience in this matter is really limited.

I would appreciate few pointer from anyone who is willing to help.

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RE: I don't know where to start - 6/2/2012 9:27:20 AM

Baroana

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Have you been browsing the forums or just the personals? If you have been reading the forums, then you already know where to find your answers. If you have not been reading the forums, then start. Your questions have been addressed many times over in preceding posts.

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RE: I don't know where to start - 6/2/2012 10:44:45 AM

kalikshama

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Here's a booklist: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

Read the descriptions on Amazon and get the ones that resonate with you.

Be cognizant that there is a difference between cyber BDSM and in-the-flesh BDSM.

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RE: I don't know where to start - 6/2/2012 6:04:34 PM

DesFIP

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Look up munches in your area and go meet real people who do this. See how it works out in real life, not porn.
TNG are for you younger folks, although why you object to middle aged men leaves me confused.

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RE: I don't know where to start - 6/3/2012 2:12:51 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Look up munches in your area and go meet real people who do this. See how it works out in real life, not porn.
TNG are for you younger folks, although why you object to middle aged men leaves me confused.

I took the middle aged men comment to mean he was particularly excited by them.

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RE: I don't know where to start - 6/3/2012 3:28:19 AM

Burlychaser

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Thank you all for replying.

I would have done a sensible thing and searched the forum first but excitement is known to cause men to do irrational things

I'm sorry if I gave any of you wrong impression about my attitude towards middle aged men.

What I meant to say was that I absolutely love them.

Thanks again for all the suggestions and hope everyone is having a fantastic day.

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RE: I don't know where to start - 6/5/2012 4:49:48 AM

fldrkhorse

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Learn who you are.
Understand who you are.
Accept who you are.
Only then will you begin to explore what you need.

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Namaste, I honor the divine in you

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