Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme?

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OzFetishDomme -> Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/3/2012 8:10:27 PM)
Hi, I have come here to find a man willing to come into the bedroom and be told what to do in the way I like it. I am married and my husband is cuckold as much as he is a MFM person. We have had MFM meets but the men just show up for the sex, not the fetishes (Watersports, feet, panties, sniffing, serving, obeying etc) so I was directed here as I was told I am looking for a Sub? I love role play, wearing masks, blindflods, chasity outfits, public etc and want a man to serve me sexually including my fantasies and fetishes but does this make me a Domme? I like a man to sniff me through my panties and slowly masturbate me with his nose till I'm wet before he starts to give me oral. Now the men we have been meeting want me to rub them to get them hard and then they want to go straight into oral? Is it me or am I asking too much. Am I a Domme because I just want sex without kissing in a MFM situation. My pussy is between my legs and I don't want to see your face higher than my breasts. Just fuck me the way I want it and afterwards you can do what you want but just make me cum first, thats why you have been invited into my bed?

LadyPact -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/3/2012 8:27:48 PM)
It doesn't necessarily make you a Domme. It just means you're kinky like the rest of us. Welcome to the forums.

Karmastic -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/3/2012 8:36:41 PM)
sounds fine, not asking too much. love the black dot effect.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/3/2012 10:24:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OzFetishDomme Is it me or am I asking too much. Nope. You can have it EXACTLY your way, since what you are offering is in GREAT demand. Call the shots how you like them, and enjoy yourself!

subbyinlosangele -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/3/2012 11:06:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OzFetishDomme Hi, I have come here to find a man willing to come into the bedroom and be told what to do in the way I like it. I am married and my husband is cuckold as much as he is a MFM person. We have had MFM meets but the men just show up for the sex, not the fetishes (Watersports, feet, panties, sniffing, serving, obeying etc) so I was directed here as I was told I am looking for a Sub? I love role play, wearing masks, blindflods, chasity outfits, public etc and want a man to serve me sexually including my fantasies and fetishes but does this make me a Domme? I like a man to sniff me through my panties and slowly masturbate me with his nose till I'm wet before he starts to give me oral. Now the men we have been meeting want me to rub them to get them hard and then they want to go straight into oral? Is it me or am I asking too much. Am I a Domme because I just want sex without kissing in a MFM situation. My pussy is between my legs and I don't want to see your face higher than my breasts. Just fuck me the way I want it and afterwards you can do what you want but just make me cum first, thats why you have been invited into my bed? According to your profile you are a HWP youngish female who lives in a major city. You are married and complaining you can't find a man willing to engage in kinky activities with no obligation other than to engage in kinky activities? Bottom line: you are either a fake or one of the biggest losers in the world's sourthen hemisphere, because if you are real then finding what you want is about as difficult as finding lint on a carpet.

SoulAlloy -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/3/2012 11:43:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subbyinlosangele quote: ORIGINAL: OzFetishDomme Hi, I have come here to find a man willing to come into the bedroom and be told what to do in the way I like it. I am married and my husband is cuckold as much as he is a MFM person. We have had MFM meets but the men just show up for the sex, not the fetishes (Watersports, feet, panties, sniffing, serving, obeying etc) so I was directed here as I was told I am looking for a Sub? I love role play, wearing masks, blindflods, chasity outfits, public etc and want a man to serve me sexually including my fantasies and fetishes but does this make me a Domme? I like a man to sniff me through my panties and slowly masturbate me with his nose till I'm wet before he starts to give me oral. Now the men we have been meeting want me to rub them to get them hard and then they want to go straight into oral? Is it me or am I asking too much. Am I a Domme because I just want sex without kissing in a MFM situation. My pussy is between my legs and I don't want to see your face higher than my breasts. Just fuck me the way I want it and afterwards you can do what you want but just make me cum first, thats why you have been invited into my bed? According to your profile you are a HWP youngish female who lives in a major city. You are married and complaining you can't find a man willing to engage in kinky activities with no obligation other than to engage in kinky activities? Bottom line: you are either a fake or one of the biggest losers in the world's sourthen hemisphere, because if you are real then finding what you want is about as difficult as finding lint on a carpet. Bit of a leap there... Add whether people click, the fact she wants to videotape all encounters, mutual attraction, and the fact that not all men are after casual kinky sex with no commitment or intimacy then it does pile up the odds To the OP good luck in your search

MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 2:47:23 AM)
I see you list the standard disclaimer on your profile - ´You DO NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or photos in any form, manner. or forum´. How can a participant in your games, even if he wears a mask, be sure that YOu won´t make public the videos you make? Well yeah, they can´t.

OzFetishDomme -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 4:58:35 AM)
Well what can one say to the above comments? It takes too much time finding people without sitting around trying to defend myself from people who don't even know me. Well after a ...................I am happy where I am in life, the road I am on. Yes I am in a good position and can understand some comments and I do feel for you. Good luck in the road you have chosen and hope you have as much happiness as me and doing what you really want If you didn't care what happened to me, And I didn't care for you, We would zig zag our way through the boredom and pain Occasionally glancing up through the rain. Wondering which of the buggars to blame And watching for pigs on the wing.

MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 5:11:50 AM)
True, we don´t know you, we only have what you have presented to us to go on. Some of the comments were actually quite positive, and you may indeed be able to find what you are looking for, as you are very clear on what you want from your encounters. But perhaps too clear for a discussion forum. And you should expect that, as this is a discussion forum, people will discuss what you say.

OzFetishDomme -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 5:53:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine True, we don´t know you, we only have what you have presented to us to go on. Some of the comments were actually quite positive, and you may indeed be able to find what you are looking for, as you are very clear on what you want from your encounters. But perhaps too clear for a discussion forum. And you should expect that, as this is a discussion forum, people will discuss what you say. Ok now offering "Aftercare" lol. Might seem a bit direct but not here to time waste and thought here was a good place to be direct and not have to offer bells and whistles.

MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 6:08:56 AM)
People here are also direct. I get what you mean about going straight to the point, but going quite that far to the point would probably be best left to your profile. Really, don´t take what you perceive as criticism so much to heart, but listen to advice given here; even if it is not what you expect, it may well help you achieve your aim. Men who might otherwise be interested may not be comfortable with being videoed, for example.

OzFetishDomme -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 6:25:08 AM)
I can understand and take posts with a pinch of salt and happy with the advice. Yes the videoing is a stopper but we love to have sex and watch it in our home. Guess everything has a price and videoing it is mine. Thats why we tell people they can wear a mask if they want but would never let anyones face be seen in the video. My hubby is a master of Abode Premiere and enjoys editing the vids. As to comments about being a fake, I can say I am 100% real and my profile is 100% correct. The pics I posted are from Fridays last MFM so are only days old. Maybe this site needs a validation process where you can hold a sign up or something to get a REAL stamp on your profile. Not a face pic but maybe body parts or blocked faces?

MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 6:32:17 AM)
Accusations that someone is a ´fake´ are very common, ignore them and any messages you get along those lines.

LadyPact -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 9:31:23 AM)
I didn't really think the comment with which I replied required anyone to have a defense. Maybe you just need a better explanation. I don't really consider telling someone how you prefer your foreplay to be Dominant. That's just good communication in an attempt to get the most out of your encounter as possible. Saying I prefer a, b, and c to x, y, and z isn't necessarily an authority gig. Vanilla people do that, too. Well, they do if they want good sex and want to make their preferences clear. The same goes when you say you think you are looking for a sub. You're really just looking for someone who is a bottom or somebody who likes certain fetishes. It's just a terminology issue. Woman to woman, I honestly don't think it's that hard to get a man who wants to have sex with you to do what you want in bed. It doesn't require a person with a submissive personality. It just takes dealing with a man who is smart enough to do things the way you like them. As for videotaping, I didn't see that in the original post, but that probably is a hang-up. I'm into some of the same kinks as you are, but I don't record them. That's a lot of trust to be handing over to someone over a casual encounter. I also tend to find that it can be harder to find the right companion the more kinks/fetishes that you specifically want, so you do have to put some effort into your selection process. You can definitely find them. You just have to work it like an interview process and select the best person to maximize the potential.

kalikshama -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 10:29:27 AM)
I think your profile does a great job explaining what you want. If you end up not having any luck on this site, try Adult Friend Finder - AFF.com. (Let me know if it's a good site for Aussies.) Perhaps you should consider acquiring a mask for guests if that turns out to be the hangup. Welcome! KK

TNDommeK -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 12:32:16 PM)
Yes to what Karm said and it might not hurt to explain that to them as soon as you mention recording them. It tells them what you want, then sets them at ease right after. It shouldn't be hard to find what you want though.

OzFetishDomme -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 5:28:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK Yes to what Karm said and it might not hurt to explain that to them as soon as you mention recording them. It tells them what you want, then sets them at ease right after. It shouldn't be hard to find what you want though. Already on AFF and my profile got 13,000 hits the first month. I have upload our MFM vids on there and of cause with discreet editing. Most people I have chatted with all do videos and take pics and using common sense we all edit the pics so it's just bodies that can be seen. I am a closet MFM and not a hardcore swinger and respect other peoples need to stay anonymous as I don't want my fellow workers knowing I get men off the net to have MFM and let them drink my pee etc. It was a freind on AFF that told me to come here as they thought we needed a sub more than a fuck buddy? Thanks for all the comments and guidance as it does help.

OzFetishDomme -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 8:46:17 PM)
After reading a few posts I see people are quick to attack other people with negativity? I have posted this pic because within seconds, after those nice people posted, I was being called a fake or loser? Hate to say I am 100% real and no loser so I guess these few may be jealous and they can't believe people like me are real? Or they just can't fuck us! I know a lot of fakes do live on this site but go easy on people, lifes too short! Why attack? Just pass by. Thanks to all the nice people anyway :-) I Love You <img src="http://www.collarme.com/photos/1569893p04.jpg"/>

OzFetishDomme -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 8:49:01 PM)
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Karmastic -> RE: Aussie MFM Girl Converting to Domme? (6/4/2012 8:54:22 PM)
fr- oh honey, don't let some anonymous fuck on the internet goad you into feeling the need to prove yourself. nice tits btw, assuming that's you (just kiddddddding!)

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