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The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 5:41:27 AM   
Pyramus


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Status: offline 		I energize on the feeling of 'ownership' of another human being. Do you?
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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 5:44:29 AM   
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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 5:53:08 AM   
Deliena


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Status: offline 		tbf not for me, but being owned felt wonderful. I hope that one day when I find the right partner it will be again. ;)

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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 6:31:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		Personally, and without wishing to harsh the buzz of anyone who does dig this kinda thing, the very term "ownership" makes me shudder.

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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 7:59:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		I look askance at anyone who just wants to own another human being as opposed to deepening a relationship with the right human being over time to this level.

Frankly, someone who wants this from the getgo isn't someone who should have this, imo.

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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 8:01:20 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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These days I am more into synergy.

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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 8:11:07 AM   
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*looks both ways before loving*



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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 8:23:26 AM   
MsKittyValentine


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Status: offline 		No, in actual fact, it is one of the mysteries of bdsm as far as I am concerned.

I have always instinctively felt that I could never 'own' another person, although strangely I demand deep submission akin 'being owned' within my D/s relationship.

There is just something which means for me, the idea, the concept, of saying I 'own' someone which creates unreality in my mind where it should create certainty.

This is an entirely personal qualm and so am fully supportive of those who do 'own' their sub/slave/pet.



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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 8:29:41 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: RemoteUser

Do they own me too?

*looks both ways before loving*




Yes, they do. shhhh...

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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 8:46:59 AM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I'm pretty sure Master does and I get the same feeling of being owned by him. I'm his property. He likes having me as his property.


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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 9:49:24 AM   
RemoteUser


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: RemoteUser

Do they own me too?

*looks both ways before loving*




Yes, they do. shhhh...


Shhhhe knows. I pointed it out, in fact.



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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 10:55:51 AM   
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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 12:31:00 PM   
CynthiaWVirginia


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ORIGINAL: Pyramus

I energize on the feeling of 'ownership' of another human being. Do you?


Ownership of just any human being? No. Ownership over a specific human being, yes, I feel energized. It takes time, though.

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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 2:16:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		Your thread inspired me to start a different thread. I had trouble answering you without explaining what ownership means to me, because it means something different to a lot of people. That would have derailed your OP. My very long answer in is here:

-=Morals & limits in ownership, M/s, TPE � where's the love?=-

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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 3:15:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Pyramus

I energize on the feeling of 'ownership' of another human being. Do you?


My D/s relationships are founded on an ownership dynamic where the girl is essentially my property to do with as I will. So the simple answer to your simple question is "yes".

That said, my "ownership" is totally within the bounds of a committed, monogamous relationship that's also founded on traditional values of mutual friendship, love, care, respect etc. I'm not interested in owning that which I don't deeply care for, FIRST.

Focus.

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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 3:39:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Pyramus

I energize on the feeling of 'ownership' of another human being. Do you?


I can't say I become energize on a feeling of ownership. I am energized by the action of owning!

Even though Human Beings are created to be equal they are however also created to be unique from each other. I can say I would only be energized by owning the right human being(s) for me! Others not so much.

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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 4:47:27 PM   
Notausername


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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 4:50:43 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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the thought of being owned freaks me out.


Yeah well, it's either that or, you get a 30 year mortgage and then you're totally fucked.

Better to be cared for and provided for by someone who knows how to treat you like the sub you are, with a lifestyle accustomed to your needs.

(It's what I'm looking for....someone to take care of me in the lifestyle I've become accustomed to).

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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 4:53:57 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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I energize on the feeling of 'ownership' of another human being. Do you?


Fuuuuuck no.

If I were to become a Dom, she better damn well have really incredible medical coverage on me because after I have a fucking heart attack laughing my ass off trying to dominate her, she better damn well be able to cover me medically for the cracked ribs I get from laughing so hard when they haul me off in the ambulance.

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RE: The wonderful world of 'ownership' - 6/6/2012 8:15:56 PM   
Karmastic


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ORIGINAL: Pyramus

I energize on the feeling of 'ownership' of another human being. Do you?

i prefer to lease

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