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funtimefreddie -> Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 9:27:42 AM)

It seems to me that most dom female profile on here are either fake, financial doms or pro dommes.
So are their really so few genuinely dominant girls out there?
Jamie x



mnottertail -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 9:30:48 AM)

The notion of women's submission is wholly fantasy, they're just dominating from the long way 'round.

(and you can quote me)

And otherwise why aren't any of the types you mentioned dominant women?

And Hi, Welcome. 



OsideGirl -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 9:36:25 AM)


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ORIGINAL: funtimefreddie

It seems to me that most dom female profile on here are either fake, financial doms or pro dommes.
So are their really so few genuinely dominant girls out there?
Jamie x


So, you believe that all financial or pro Dommes aren't genuinely dominant?

Good lord, you're in London. One of the kink capitals of the world. Get out from behind your computer, go to events and meet people. And stop whining about people you don't consider genuine.

Welcome to the forums.



funtimefreddie -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 9:38:55 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: funtimefreddie

It seems to me that most dom female profile on here are either fake, financial doms or pro dommes.
So are their really so few genuinely dominant girls out there?
Jamie x


So, you believe that all financial or pro Dommes aren't genuinely dominant?

Good lord, you're in London. One of the kink capitals of the world. Get out from behind your computer, go to events and meet people. And stop whining about people you don't consider genuine.

Welcome to the forums.

Ha, fair enough




peppermint -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 9:40:34 AM)

First, don't call them girls.  They are women. 

Second, over 90% of those you meet online are not what or whom they say they are.  It's like that everywhere on the internet.  It is possible to meet someone here on Collarme.  There are people who met here and have married.  However, that means you will have to search long and carefully to find that perfect someone.

Third, to avoid the pitfalls of the internet, go to munches.  To find your local munches google munch and your city or state or country.  You could also join fetlife where munch groups advertise when the munches are happening. 

Complaining does nothing to make your more appealing to a Dominant WOMAN (not girl).   Your posts are part of your profile and complaining makes you look like a whiner. 

However, welcome to Collarme.  It is a great place to make friends and learn.  Hope you have learned something today.  Get around to filling out that profile.  An empty profile makes you appear not motivated or interested in finding a partner. 



GoddessB -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 10:07:34 AM)

There are a lot but I dont know where are they hiding, but frankly, being one of them and when I saw all those pro-dommes I felt that I dont belong here.. besides that the guys here are so selfish to a big extent, they are fake, they dont do what they say, so Im a Dominant and dont want money, but I never found what I want, so I stopped searching.



DarkSteven -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 11:04:29 AM)

Hi there, Freddie. The numbers aren't good - far fewer Dominant women than men chasing them. To compensate, you need to bring your A game and dazzle them.

You haven't even posted anything in your profile, and you've been here four months. A Domme will look at your profile, and go on to someone who did spend time on his profile, and shows he's willing to give.

One common attribute about women is that almost all of them LOVE good conversation. They have reason to believe that you dislike communicating, based on your profile.

There are genuine Dominant girls here. However they may not appreciate being called "girls", and they are able to be choosy.

With all that said, welcome to collarme.



amaidiamond -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 11:05:22 AM)

I know lots of Dominant women - and there are many of them in your area if you are in London. I have lots of Dominant friends...

But I didn't meet them here, I met them at munches and events...



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 11:08:08 AM)

There is a massive under-35's group in greater London. Full of the fun young people who seem quite genuine.



lazarus1983 -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 11:20:31 AM)

There are plenty of genuine ladies bounding about the forum and the other side. That you can't find them is simply god's way of saying he hates you.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 11:41:15 AM)


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ORIGINAL: lazarus1983

There are plenty of genuine ladies bounding about the forum and the other side. That you can't find them is simply god's way of saying he hates you.


Dude. I love you long time.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 12:02:20 PM)

Welcome to the discussion side of CM, Jamie.

I have been online in various BDSM chatrooms or forums since online began and have found so many wonderful genuine people. Many of those I have met in person, and with a few I have formed long term relationships.

You find what you seek. You appear to be looking for a good time only. For most females, it is pathetically easy to find a sex partner to have "fun" with. Young inexperience sub males will have a much harder time.

Since you live in one of the kink capitals of the world, you really have no excuse not to get yourself to a munch.

BTW: Calling dominant females "girls" might be the wrong approach. Just saying.



lazarus1983 -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 12:13:59 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: lazarus1983

There are plenty of genuine ladies bounding about the forum and the other side. That you can't find them is simply god's way of saying he hates you.


Dude. I love you long time.


I'll hold you to that!



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 12:19:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: lazarus1983


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: lazarus1983

There are plenty of genuine ladies bounding about the forum and the other side. That you can't find them is simply god's way of saying he hates you.


Dude. I love you long time.


I'll hold you to that!


Where do you live again? What are your feelings on middle aged fat broads?



OP--other than that Informed Consent site, check out Fetlife and join the many many local lists.



lazarus1983 -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 12:22:21 PM)

Western edge of Nebraska. However I'm on my last few days of my vacation back in Michigan, so I'd rather not think of that dry, arid place.

Edited to change Eastern to Western



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 12:24:52 PM)

WHERE IN MICHIGAN?



Delilya -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/7/2012 12:39:35 PM)

Welcome to CM



ashjor911 -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/8/2012 6:37:50 AM)

Welcome



mnottertail -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/8/2012 7:13:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

WHERE IN MICHIGAN?


Get a fuckin room, guys......



OohAahMrs -> RE: Hard to find anyone genuine (6/8/2012 7:42:50 AM)

Hey fred, make the best of it, like the rest of us! And welcome.



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