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Butt Plug - 6/8/2012 8:41:32 PM   
Bill41


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Status: offline 		my Mistress wants me to use a butt plug starting a week before our first session. an hour day 1 and increase by 2 hours for 5 days. i love the idea of anal play and have told Her this. Any advice on what size to get She wont respond to this question .She tole me She has a 6 inch strap on for beginners but i have no clue on girth. She also told me how to clean myself and that she has the proper lubrication, i'm just a little excited.worried.

thanks for any advice
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RE: Butt Plug - 6/8/2012 8:43:33 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		If your 'Mistress' won't respond to a question about the particulars of equipment to be used on you, I would fire her and hire another who knows what she's doing.

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RE: Butt Plug - 6/8/2012 9:00:41 PM   
Endivius


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Status: offline 		For all you know her six in strap on is made of unsanded plywood. Get serious. Go masterbate a few dozen times until you return to sanity and then start asking her the questions you SHOULD have asked to begin with. If she isn't answering them, she doesn't have your best interests in mind. You know that old addage about safety first? That still applies even when you are doing kinky crap.

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RE: Butt Plug - 6/8/2012 9:36:27 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Status: offline 		Strap-on cocks come in different sizes just like real ones. I would ask her for specifics so you know what to prepare yourself for. If she won't tell you the dimensions, then I wouldn't let her get near you with it. As for butt plugs, I always thought a good idea was an Anal Training Kit with multiple sizes in it. That's what I purchased for mine to use when I had a sub.

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RE: Butt Plug - 6/8/2012 11:14:43 PM   
Bill41


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Status: offline 		i really like her i just think we have a communication break down. i will ask her specifics and look into that training kit. i have never heard of that thanks.

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RE: Butt Plug - 6/9/2012 5:46:50 AM   
Deliena


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Status: offline 		This http://www.bondara.co.uk/colt-anal-triple-butt-plug-training-kit is the sort of thing people are describing, the idea being you start small, work on duration and when comfortable move up in size to allow for ease of use. HOWEVER I totally agree with getting some more detail from your Domme, anal can be great but also has the capacity to be not just bloody uncomfortable but to be potentially dangerous when things aren't done right and as with most sexual activities there's work to be done on both sides

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RE: Butt Plug - 6/9/2012 6:27:30 AM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		Have you met this woman face to face yet, or has this all been online?  Or is she a pro you booked a session with?  If the former, I would suggest you meet her face to face for coffee and a chat so you can see if there really is a desire beyond on line chatting to get together.

It's rarely a good idea to follow instructions from someone you have never met in person.

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RE: Butt Plug - 6/9/2012 9:20:43 AM   
kalikshama


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RE: Butt Plug - 6/9/2012 9:51:17 AM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		Wooo HOOO!  I got a "like" from kali!


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RE: Butt Plug - 6/9/2012 12:53:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		If she wont alay your fears and discuss them I would head for the hills

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RE: Butt Plug - 6/9/2012 9:11:02 PM   
Bill41


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Status: offline 		Thanks we are going to meet at a Munch before the session. it seems to be my fault more than Hers. Meeting her before is a great idea.

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RE: Butt Plug - 6/16/2012 8:10:59 AM   
thedavezone


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Status: offline 		The plug should be...large enough to be uncomfortable - to stretch you. Only you can determine that.

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RE: Butt Plug - 6/18/2012 3:27:32 PM   
AnastasiaSteele


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Status: offline 		^5 Mistress DarkArt.. if you can't communicate with your sub on basic, then the sub needs to look elsewhere. Safety first

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