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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 6/15/2012 10:32:30 AM   
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FR - I feel that for some of them they see it as a badge of honor or something. Or maybe they just don't want to let get? I don't know. I do know that I had to report my ex Dom (not on here) after we broke up because I asked him to remove my picture from his profile and he flat out refused. Giving me some mumbo jumbo about how I loved that night and I didn't really want the pic taken down.

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 6/15/2012 12:02:35 PM   
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Yeah, I got an email from some guy with a women's picture in his profile and I mentioned that as being more than slightly tacky, and he said that he's always gotten positive comments on it from other women before. I should have asked if he was sure the positive responders were indeed women and not men pretending to be women but with the comment of how everyone else was on board with it so I must be the weird one, I never wrote back.

So yes, submissive women must like these pictures a lot
Where are they though on this thread telling everyone how much they like seeing pictures of other women on men's profiles?




Well that was the funny thing too because one of his journal entries was that he had not spoken with one real woman that night and said that they were all men pretending to be women ..... ummmm dude here is the brick wall ive been talking to


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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 6/15/2012 12:14:23 PM   
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probably because it is not a conquest, just a pic he found off the internet



Point taken........ I didn't think of that.

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 6/15/2012 6:18:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Deliena

psml RS that was amazingly funny. I thought about this topic and realised I have a picture of my ex on my profile still, it's from a nightclub we went to and we're just arm in arm smiling. It's there from when we were together and he knows it's there, if it ever bothered him or he wanted it removed I'd happily take it down because that's his right. I've left it up because I personally like that picture... perhaps I should rethink that?

I think you should leave it up. It's cute because you're listed as bisexual and there is a pic of you kissing on a girl and hugging a boy.

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 6/15/2012 8:06:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Master has me as his main photo but he's not looking for anything though and he's proud of his work.


I haven't done anything spectacular in my photo but I guess I'm a little proud. Anywho that's my husband in my profile picture (which submissive males think it's me anyway, even with the hairy legs!).

I did have a vanilla picture of me up but when I uploaded my husbands picture it went away I have no idea why and I'm too lazy to put another one up.

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 6/15/2012 8:56:39 PM   
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What on earth makes so many Male Doms think that a profile picture of a female submissive is going to be of interest to a prospective female sub?

Even worse there are countless Male Dom profiles where this is the ONLY picture on the profile, or the main profile pic.


I've run into photographers and riggers over on fetlife who's profile pics consist of their work, I can understand that sort of bragging. I've seen profile pics where it's a pic of the Doms significant other, it's a touch weird but if they're not looking *shrug* why not brag like that.

What I don't get are the guys that use porn pics they've gotten off the internet. I can't say I understand the thought process behind it. I'm also confused by the women around here that use some other womans picture.

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 6/16/2012 3:59:46 AM   
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OK thank you for the input RS I'm leaving it up unless he wants it removed then. I just felt that I was commenting and reading this thread whilst sort of stood in a glass house :)

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 6/16/2012 7:33:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel

I've run into photographers and riggers over on fetlife who's profile pics consist of their work, I can understand that sort of bragging. I've seen profile pics where it's a pic of the Doms significant other, it's a touch weird but if they're not looking *shrug* why not brag like that.

What I don't get are the guys that use porn pics they've gotten off the internet. I can't say I understand the thought process behind it. I'm also confused by the women around here that use some other womans picture.


I can see the photographers and riggers posting pics, that's of their work, not necessarily of the women involved- the woman in the photo is incidental to a certain point. The intent behind the posting is different to my mind. I also think posting a pic of the SO is understandable, especially in a couple profile but even if it's not, it seems to belong. What doesn't seem to belong is the pics of people from your past or people you don't even know. That goes for women's pics too if they're posting of another woman, I pretty much don't get that either, although I 'll say in that case it's generally not a raunchy nude.

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 6/16/2012 7:46:31 AM   
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I have such a pic because it shows what a bad ass bitch I am.


(And it also acts as one helluva litmus test :-p)

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 6/22/2012 6:38:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lizi
What doesn't seem to belong is the pics of people from your past or people you don't even know. That goes for women's pics too if they're posting of another woman, I pretty much don't get that either, although I 'll say in that case it's generally not a raunchy nude.


I don't know, I know several female profiles around here who are noticeably using canned tit or ass shots.

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 6/22/2012 7:01:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

I have such a pic because it shows what a bad ass bitch I am.


(And it also acts as one helluva litmus test :-p)

damn near made me pass out!!!! Did I pass for not passing out or fail for almost passing out? lol

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 7/12/2012 3:06:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: femslut4u
What on earth makes so many Male Doms think that a profile picture of a female submissive is going to be of interest to a prospective female sub?

Uh... I didn't think that. I wasn't trying to attract anyone. I just liked the photo so I used it. As it turns out, I've gotten A LOT of compliments on it... largely from female subs. Go figure.

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Mind you, I'm voraciously bi and LOVE the female form, but that form has virtually no place as the primary picture on a straight male profile. Save the hot sexy female pics for your dorm room walls and computer wallpaper boys.

How about you let me worry about what pics I wish to post, eh?

quote:

How many female submissive profiles do you see with a shirtless picture of Brad Pitt as the profile pic? Heck, how many with a picture of any solitary male figure other than perhaps their Owner if the woman in question happens to be attached.

Dunno, I don't really tend to look at the pictures that much barring the rare example like poise.

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If you want to come across as a MAN and attract real life women, we expect to see YOU as the primary profile picture, not your favorite female stroke inspiring ideal. :)

Well then, conveniently enough for me I'm all set. I don't care if I come across as a man. Problem solved.


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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 7/12/2012 4:33:02 PM   
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Has my brain been misinterpreting the left side of your picture all this time or is that in fact a male figure, making that a picture of a couple (which is not what's under discussion)?

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 7/12/2012 8:51:51 PM   
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Well subconsciously they wanna be girls of course, du-uh.

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 7/12/2012 9:58:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Has my brain been misinterpreting the left side of your picture all this time or is that in fact a male figure, making that a picture of a couple (which is not what's under discussion)?


I mean, he still has a point- it shouldn't matter if he cropped the image an extra ten or twenty pixels.

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 7/12/2012 11:35:07 PM   
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I find it ridiculous for a guy who is single and looking to post photos of other women, him with other women or canned photos of hot women stolen from the web.

I am not competitive with anyone, I am confident with what I have. Why on earth would I be interested in seeing other women when I click on your profile?

I think it smacks of insecurity and I too, have asked men why they do this and they all said, Oh, other women love seeing women in my profile.

Uh, ok....then talk to them.

I can just imagine if I posted every gorgeous guy I was with my profile. Just tacky.

Now couples are a different story; I actually like to see photos of both the man and woman in the profile; it is fun to see someone like Kana and littlewonder (even though it is scary!) :)

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 4/1/2013 10:13:01 AM   
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...wouldn't a picture in a profile tell the observer something about that person?...

Draw whatever conclusions you want and move on to the next...

It's better than a picture of a flower which seems to be a favorite for many a sub...=/

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 4/1/2013 10:26:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: JeffBC
Uh... I didn't think that. I wasn't trying to attract anyone. I just liked the photo so I used it. As it turns out, I've gotten A LOT of compliments on it... largely from female subs. Go figure.


You're so not counted. Attached doms can post as many picture of their submissive as they like, they are proud of their girl and wanna show her off, with her permission, that's usually cool.

It's the single doms looking for new subs that really shouldn't be posting pictures of their x-subs. I got to admit, one of my hard limits is nude photography, and I get really freak out when a dom posts naked pictures of their x-subs on their profile.

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 4/1/2013 10:43:41 AM   
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I cannot stand the animated porn shots. It just screams "I'm a horny net geek, show me your tits on camera!"

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RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? ... - 4/1/2013 2:52:32 PM   
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