Muttling -> RE: Domming your partner (6/10/2012 6:13:33 PM)
Talk to her about it and she if she's interested in this dynamic.
My second suggestion is a joint reading assignment. Both of you read Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns one chapter at a time. Each of you highlight or underline parts you find interesting then talk about them.
The best way to have a GREAT Ds relationship is to understand one another and to play upon each other's desires while understanding each other's limits n turn offs.
kalikshama -> RE: Domming your partner (6/10/2012 6:39:43 PM)
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Both of you read Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns one chapter at a time. Each of you highlight or underline parts you find interesting then talk about them.
Yes, this book definitely stimulated our imaginations when my (now ex) husband and I were newbs!