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chelita30 -> RE: Beyond the sex (6/16/2012 4:28:04 PM)
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Adding to the above, the relationship between kink and sex is something I find interesting. On the one hand, I've had fantasies involving kidnapping, restraints, humiliation and pain since the age of five. Yes, five. They had nothing to do with sex yet created feeling of sexual pleasure. On the other hand, on discovering sex (waaaaaayy later!) it fitted so well into my fantasies that I found I couldn't separate the two. For a while my fantasies centred around rape and I experimented with rough sex, light bondage and rape-play. Now that I have identified as a 'submissive' and am exploring kink, I have learned once again to savour these fantasies without the need for sex. Not to say I've stopped wanting sex, I am a slut after all! [sm=sex.gif]
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