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Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 6:33:06 PM

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I usually enjoy seeing all the mini profile pics when I log off. There's always some interesting pic or beauty worth a hover-click. But today, my eyes saw something I just don't want to freakin see. A full frontal male nude. Now, I'm not into penis or the male form, and don't particularly want to see that; but, it's not a biggie.

But this man was tucking and trying to appear to be a woman. It's hard to describe. It weirded me out a bit because I especially just don't want to see that, and not shoved in my face - I had simply logged off, and I had not gone looking for it. Believe me, I'm all for acceptance and tolerance of others in doing WIITWD. And I'm pro-gay, fine with cross-dressers, and think it's great for them if it makes them happy. Trust me, I'm not homophobic or anything phobic in this realm. In fact, I've even complimented cross-dressers on their profile pics.

But for some reason, this was over the top for me, and for that reason (a naked man trying to look like a woman). So my question is, does this bother you too? I presume some types of raw nudity in profiles is looked down upon, and you can certainly expand on that if you want. But I'm more interested in the added dynamic of how who is naked and how seems to matter for me, and I presume, for all of us.

Don't you give the person more of the break if it's an attractive woman with decent shots, versus some hairy man with a boner? And would you have more of a visceral reaction (as I did) if it was a man trying to appear as a woman, but naked.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 7:03:38 PM

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Yes, you are being a prude.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 7:21:23 PM

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Yes, you are being a prude.

Yup.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 7:22:31 PM

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yup

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 7:30:58 PM

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I certainly don't like random cock shots, but if this guy didn't actually have anything showing... that's seems like a weird reaction. It's not like you have to look at it.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 7:35:37 PM

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I don't like seeing anyone at all naked but when it's online, I just click off it or don't look at it and it doesn't concern me. If it's in an email or profile of someone emailing me, they immediately get deleted.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 7:51:07 PM

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I'm pretty equal in terms of what I don't want to see, regardless of gender. I don't like pictures that I deem vulgar (cock shorts, spread pussy shots, pictures of cocks in pussies etc.). I will also admit that I judge a person based off what pictures they have up. I've found those who prefer vanilla pictures or more subtle sexual pictures, tend to have temperaments that click with my personality more. When I see images that future that sort of nudity, it grosses me out most of the time and leaves me with the impression that their primary interest is purely sexual. Even with service submissives, I desire basic connectivity on an emotional level.

I let people have their pictures. And if they message me, I'll tell them why I don't think we're compatible, as friends, lovers, Dom and submissive, etc., then I'll let them know, but it's not something I'll go out of my way to state. I'm highly adverse to messaging people and complaining about their profiles. I've had a person do that to me. It's just stirring the pot for the sake of it.

If he didn't have anything showing though...I don't entirely understand your disgust. It seems off to me, as well as unwarranted.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 7:56:01 PM

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thanks for your insights and opinions so far. perhaps it is weird, that what bothered me was him tucking. i just thought, no no no!

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 7:59:37 PM

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Yepper. Prude. 'Sall good.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 8:02:03 PM

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grins altho I said yup. we all have our squicks:) weird to me or not, I saw a pic of a chap defecating and it almost made me puke, I reported it because, it was clearly against TOS , I dont like gaping pussy shots either, but thats just my pov and I cut most fem profiles out (im stricktly dickly but even so. dick shots mainly make me think the person sporting a dick is just a dick...but to each his own.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 8:30:13 PM

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Dude, this is a kink website. C'mon.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 8:58:18 PM

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Yes, you are being a prude.

No, it doesn't bother me anymore than other pictures do.

No, I do not give an attractive woman a break. In fact I am commonly harder on women, no matter what they look like, than I am men. I expect better of my own gender.

As for that tucking thing....would I have a visceral reaction....Nope, I'm a domme momme and I make a lot of pretty boys into pretty girls. I find it amusing.

Did you by any chance think this person was a girl when the picture was small then get upset when you made it big and found out it was a boy?

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 9:04:46 PM

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Or was it the fact that until you figured out he was hung better than you, you got a woody from his picture? lol..... Remember the Crying Game?

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 9:06:02 PM

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They can't all be midget strippers that hang around in the mens bathroom. You're being a tad prudish ya' think?

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 10:39:46 PM

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They can't all be midget strippers that hang around in the mens bathroom. You're being a tad prudish ya' think?

I would so hang out with them. They just look like fun people.

On topic. How the fuck can you bitch about seeing nudity on a site like this? It's like going to Popeyes and complaining because they gave you chicken.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 10:45:24 PM

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Better in than out.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/13/2012 11:49:31 PM

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I don't like seeing blatant full-frontal nudity, but I'm not going to get bent about it. lol I'd rather not see cocks or gaping pussies being right out there and the same goes for anyone's asshole too. But for crying out loud, it's a kink site, so what do you expect? I don't have any control over whether those things are main pics on profiles that pop up on my home page, but if they show up in my Inbox, it's just BLOCK! DELETE!! NEXT!!!

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/14/2012 12:56:16 AM

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Don't you give the person more of the break if it's an attractive woman with decent shots, versus some hairy man with a boner?

I have put a few people on Hide for having a nude avatar or profile photograph. But if the avatar has some artistic qualities or is of an appealing female, I might not click the Hide button.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/14/2012 1:44:00 AM

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It was the tucking that bothered you? I'm not going to call you a prude, but hon, just where do you think they are stashing the package when in drag? If they are going to have that smooth look in the front, it's got to go somewhere.

Yes, I actually am harder on chicks. I have absolutely NO desire to have pussy shots in My face. I know a lot of men aren't bright enough to get the concept that I want to meet your face before being introduced to your junk, but like MIP, I honestly believe that women should know better. I'm a big fan of the report button for genital shots.

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RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? - 6/14/2012 4:31:10 AM

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I saw a pic of a chap defecating and it almost made me puke

Hmm. I have to say, such a picture wouldn't greatly help my appetite for breakfast, either.

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