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ARIES83 -> Name the Kink (6/15/2012 3:53:08 AM)
Name the kink I thought It would be interesting to have a kind of quiz and see what comments people came up with. If a person had the following type of traits and behaviours, what would you say that person was. (or what condition do they have, haha) Also if you relate to a certain behaviour, or have had it inflicted on you, I would be interested to hear, any thoughts and feelings about it. #1. You commonly like to torment and frustrate your sex partner, withholding or decreasing stimulation for amusement. #2. You frequently demand humiliating and degrading acts from your partner during sex, like begging e.c.t. for them to continue to receive pleasure. #3. You have In the past forced your sex partner to admit their most vulnerable thoughts and feelings for your own interest/amusement. #4. You make sexual demands on your partner with little regard as to time or place and receive greater satisfaction if your choice of time/place is inconvenient for them. Example, 3am in the morning, or out in public. #5. You have used positive/negative reinforcement in order to encourage/discourage behaviours in your partner. This is just a topic starter, not a survey... (though it does read a bit like one) Name the Kink! - ARIES

RemoteUser -> RE: Name the Kink (6/15/2012 7:57:12 AM)
Dacryphelia? (It sounds better when read with a whiny tone.)

mnottertail -> RE: Name the Kink (6/15/2012 8:18:06 AM)
Diverticulitis?

RemoteUser -> RE: Name the Kink (6/15/2012 9:25:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Diverticulitis? That's the cause of a kink, not the kink itself. Now, cervicalgia...!

ARIES83 -> RE: Name the Kink (6/15/2012 6:52:45 PM)
At first this sounded made up to me, Da-Cry-Philia.. I just looked it up on wikipedia, great comment. I personaly don't enjoy seeing girls cry, though I dont not like it either haha. Im sure their are a lot of people who can relate to this kink, I pasted the wiki discription here for the benifit of those like me who hadn't heard of this before. -ARIES dacryphilia: may be a form of humiliation in the 'pain/restriction/servitude/humiliation' spectrum of BDSM; for example, a dominant may verbally abuse the submissive in order to elicit a tearful response. In contrast, a Dominant may physically torture the submissive to draw tears in a pain scene. In this way, dacryphilia is a form of sadism. The psychological aspects of dacryphilia are that the causative entity displays the power to control the psychological response from the receiver. This form of power-play therefore brings pleasure, and for some, sexual arousal. Passive dacryphilia involves a third party who also achieves pleasure in watching someone in emotional distress, usually caused by the scening Dominant, though the reason does not restrict the pleasure - a person may enjoy the tears of others, whatever the cause.[3] -Wikipedia

DesFIP -> RE: Name the Kink (6/15/2012 8:44:34 PM)
Why do you assume begging is by definition degrading? Many people enjoy doing it and don't find it humiliating, but instead empowering.

ARIES83 -> RE: Name the Kink (6/15/2012 9:33:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Why do you assume begging is by definition degrading? Many people enjoy doing it and don't find it humiliating, but instead empowering. Hmm couldn't say why I look on it like that, but I'd be interested hearing what type of feelings being made to beg for something triggers in you. Do you feel empowered by begging? If you don't get what you were begging for how do you feel? All my questions haha, must make a bad conversation. I can tell you that from my personal experience, I suppose I like the feeling of... Control? Power? Being the centre of Attention haha, I don't do it often but sometimes making Someone beg, adds a little flavour that i like. -ARIES

RemoteUser -> RE: Name the Kink (6/16/2012 1:28:13 PM)
Questions are always welcome in any form, OP; the hard part for most people, is learning from the answers. Do that and you'll be good. I'll venture another guess: emotional sadism. Controlling a person through their feelings can be a touchy thing for some, but it comes down to intent and result. If you both gain from it, then it isn't different from any other variant of sadism.

kiwisub12 -> RE: Name the Kink (6/16/2012 2:56:25 PM)
Marriage?

ARIES83 -> RE: Name the Kink (6/16/2012 11:09:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RemoteUser Questions are always welcome in any form, OP; the hard part for most people, is learning from the answers. Do that and you'll be good. I'll venture another guess: emotional sadism. Controlling a person through their feelings can be a touchy thing for some, but it comes down to intent and result. If you both gain from it, then it isn't different from any other variant of sadism. Whats OP stand for? Another new concept for me, sadism having a spectrum of different types. Very interesting, I suppose you could apply it to alot of things? Maybe you could call those goddess people that want to be sent money Financial Sadists? -ARIES

RemoteUser -> RE: Name the Kink (6/17/2012 5:21:07 PM)
Sorry, it's a short form for Original Poster - in other words, the person who started the thread/conversation. Interesting take on fin doms. I suppose you could perceive it that way, but I think sadism might be too strong a word, since the money isn't taken as an affliction, but rather as a gift. Certainly, a fin dom could control a sub through his money if she wanted to (and if he let her), but it seems too equal a playing field for sadism to apply.

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