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Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? - 6/15/2012 4:30:26 AM   
littlemissbossy


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Status: offline 		sorry if i offend anyone.. i'm not homophobic i promise. but i only want to date men who are 100% heterosexual. it seems like most male subs are at least a little bi curous/bi sexual ? thats what ive noticed anyway. why do people put "straight" on their profile and then say they are looking for a transexual ? sorry but thats gay ... also i would never ever use a strap on a guy because thats gay too. just the thought makes me shudder. most submissive men don't seem to care about what the woman wants, ironically , its all about them and their fantasies and fetishes . maybe bdsm isn't right for me . all i want is a guy who i can boss around on *my terms * , is that possible?
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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 4:40:26 AM   
Curiousrestricti


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Status: offline 		There are submissive men out there who arent into anal. But did you know most gay men arent into anal but almost all of them are into oral, does that make oral gay too? You seem pretty preoccupied with your ignorance for someone on an alternative lifestyles site.

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 4:45:02 AM   
sunilmathur


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Status: offline 		Dear Madam,
If you are looking for a submissive guy who is not a homosexual, I am one. In fact, I am right now going through a phase of disappointment at being rejected by a mistress when I submitted to her that whereas I would be delighted to treated by her in any way she liked, I did not feel comfortable with her proposal of having her male slaves interact with each other in a sexual manner. I would love to do anything to obey my mistress' commands and fulfilling all her desires and fantasies (rather than my own). I am from India and am 61 years old, having recently retired from service. I am sincere, refined and sober. If I am in a position to serve you in any manner I would be delighted.
Sunil Mathur

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 4:53:30 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: littlemissbossy

sorry if i offend anyone.. i'm not homophobic i promise. but i only want to date men who are 100% heterosexual. it seems like most male subs are at least a little bi curous/bi sexual ? thats what ive noticed anyway. why do people put "straight" on their profile and then say they are looking for a transexual ? sorry but thats gay ... also i would never ever use a strap on a guy because thats gay too. just the thought makes me shudder. most submissive men don't seem to care about what the woman wants, ironically , its all about them and their fantasies and fetishes . maybe bdsm isn't right for me . all i want is a guy who i can boss around on *my terms * , is that possible?



First, I disagree with you regarding what is gay and not. However, that's not an issue - there are enough sub men out there that you should be able to find what you want. Just leave off the stuff about what's gay and not and say you want a man who is not bi or bi curious, has no inclination toward trans people, and doesn't want strap on play. And make your profile visible so people are aware of that.


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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 8:03:01 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: littlemissbossy

sorry if i offend anyone.. i'm not homophobic i promise.



You're offensive, but not because you're homophobic. Your ignorance and generalization is offensive.


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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 8:07:17 AM   
poise


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Status: offline 		It's kind of hard to determine why you might be attracting men that you
aren't compatible with, since your profile can't be found.

Perhaps this was just a drive by rant by an anonymous poster, in which case,
all I can say is I hope you feel better now.

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 8:20:23 AM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		Yes, it is possible and you don't necessarily need a submissive for that. Plenty of straight, hen-pecked husbands to be had in the vanilla world.

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 8:35:00 AM   
LanaDeVille


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ORIGINAL: littlemissbossy

sorry if i offend anyone.. i'm not homophobic i promise. but i only want to date men who are 100% heterosexual. it seems like most male subs are at least a little bi curous/bi sexual ? thats what ive noticed anyway. why do people put "straight" on their profile and then say they are looking for a transexual ? sorry but thats gay ... also i would never ever use a strap on a guy because thats gay too. just the thought makes me shudder. most submissive men don't seem to care about what the woman wants, ironically , its all about them and their fantasies and fetishes . maybe bdsm isn't right for me . all i want is a guy who i can boss around on *my terms * , is that possible?



That sounds kinda homophobic...the fact that a guy likes anal stimulation makes you shudder? And it's gay?

< Message edited by LanaDeVille -- 6/15/2012 8:36:59 AM >

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 9:13:06 AM   
ProlificNeeds


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Just throwing it out there but Bi men increase your odds of one day having a great sandiwch, with you as the filling.... just saying.


TOTALLY not projecting my own fantasies here... totally.

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 9:45:05 AM   
Deliena


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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 10:18:23 AM   
kalikshama


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... also i would never ever use a strap on a guy because thats gay too.


I'm female - if my gf uses a strapon on my ass does that make us gay men?

It's fine to not want to date bisexual men but it sounds like you do meet the definition of a homophobe:

Homophobia is a range of negative attitudes and feelings toward homosexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender (LGBT). Definitions refer variably to antipathy, contempt, prejudice, aversion, and irrational fear.



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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 10:22:14 AM   
Hillwilliam


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ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds

FR

Just throwing it out there but Bi men increase your odds of one day having a great sandiwch, with you as the filling.... just saying.


TOTALLY not projecting my own fantasies here... totally.

It's not necessary for the men to be bi to make a lady sammich. Just sayin'

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 10:30:33 AM   
Deliena


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


quote:

ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds

FR

Just throwing it out there but Bi men increase your odds of one day having a great sandiwch, with you as the filling.... just saying.


TOTALLY not projecting my own fantasies here... totally.

It's not necessary for the men to be bi to make a lady sammich. Just sayin'


True dat and if they no like each other they like the lady much more

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 10:42:41 AM   
Lockit


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How ironic. Anal is supposedly gay and that was the most anal post I have ever seen.



< Message edited by Lockit -- 6/15/2012 10:43:11 AM >

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 10:56:56 AM   
angelikaJ


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlemissbossy

sorry if i offend anyone.. i'm not homophobic i promise. but i only want to date men who are 100% heterosexual. it seems like most male subs are at least a little bi curous/bi sexual ? thats what ive noticed anyway. why do people put "straight" on their profile and then say they are looking for a transexual ? sorry but thats gay ... also i would never ever use a strap on a guy because thats gay too. just the thought makes me shudder. most submissive men don't seem to care about what the woman wants, ironically , its all about them and their fantasies and fetishes . maybe bdsm isn't right for me . all i want is a guy who i can boss around on *my terms * , is that possible?



Anal stimulation, liking it does not mean someone is gay. It just means they find that kind of stimulation pleasurable and since guys have prostate glands and since the anus it self is highly enervated, well some guys will find contact with either or both of those parts pleasurable.
It has to due with anatomy and not sexual preference.

It may be your preference not to engage in anal play of any kind, but you need to understand that while your preference is valid, your reasoning is not.




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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 11:03:23 AM   
MissImmortalPain


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Status: offline 		I haven't slept in a coulple of days(so someone is going to have to do the math for me) but if anal is gay what does that make women who are catchers?

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 11:09:36 AM   
Deliena


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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

I haven't slept in a coulple of days(so someone is going to have to do the math for me) but if anal is gay what does that make women who are catchers?


Men? I dunno I'm trying desperately not to post on this thread as I volunteer for a local LGBT group and I'll just snark with severe prejudice if I'm not careful

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 12:34:36 PM   
Rochsub2009


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Status: offline 		I'm a male sub who isn't gay. However, I don't submit to women who hide their profiles, and who write stupid posts that are full of inaccurate generalizations.

Frankly, your post makes you sound too stupid to dominate anyone (unless he's looking for an ignorant, homophobic Domme).

Others have already shown you some of the flaws in your logic, so I won't bother doing so.

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 12:48:07 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


quote:

ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds

FR

Just throwing it out there but Bi men increase your odds of one day having a great sandiwch, with you as the filling.... just saying.


TOTALLY not projecting my own fantasies here... totally.

It's not necessary for the men to be bi to make a lady sammich. Just sayin'


Prove it, Hilly!! I have quit trying to make that fantasy come true!

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RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT... - 6/15/2012 12:49:21 PM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

Frankly, your post makes you sound too stupid to dominate anyone (unless he's looking for an ignorant, homophobic Domme).



To be slightly more charitable, we could be looking here at a very, *very* young domme.

But either way: some very basic things needing to be learned.

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