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Painfulsadist2 -> Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 4:16:51 AM)

Okay, here is where I show My lack of knowledge. Can anyone tell Me what the Rose Ceremony is and what it signifies ? I had heard about it in passing in the past but never really found out much more about. Any information would greatly appreciated.


Sir Sadistic Russell




DarkSteven -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 5:12:48 AM)

And here is where I show my own lack of knowledge. I never heard of it and Google apparently hasn't either.




Deliena -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 5:24:30 AM)

The only Rose Ceremony I've ever heard of is the silly bit at the end of The Batchelor/Batchelorette where they give roses to the people that are staying for another week and those who don't get them go home. But then there are TONS of things in the world I don't know about [;)]




mnottertail -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 5:36:38 AM)

Bride and Groom exchange red rose buds.  Looks like you are out shopping rings whether you want to or not, hah?




Winterapple -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 6:05:51 AM)

I remember vaguely reading something about this online.

It was as best as I can remember some sort of commitment ceremony that doms and subs
went through sometimes in front of friends.
She gave him a rose or some such or they
exchanged roses and read things to each other.
A quasie mix of commitment ceremony and
a collaring ritual? The rose ceremony was part
of the collaring ritual?

All a little Castle Realmish. I don't know
anyone whose done it in real life
or witnessed it. But that doesn't mean
people aren't doing it or didn't in the
past.
I could be bungling it up with something
else.




lizi -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 6:19:22 AM)

I found something on a rose ceremony, from this site http://painfulpleazure.webs.com/alternativeceremonys.htm

"Rose Ceremony is an alternative wedding style performet for BDSM-D/s and other alternative style of live people." There is more on the site I posted, although full of spelling and grammar mistakes which doesn't give me a great feeling about it's veracity. It is posted with other alternative type bonding ceremonies such as hand-fasting and jumping the broom.

Here is another site http://www.deepwithinthesoul.me.uk/ceremonyoftheroses.html.

There were more entries in the computer search I did, I put "bdsm rose ceremony" into google.




OsideGirl -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 7:55:03 AM)

It's a Castlerealm type thing.

quote:

The submissive carries a single white rose, not quite in full bloom. The Dominant holds a single red rose that is opened almost fully. Both roses must have thorns on their stems and be freshly cut. To perform two other parts of this ritual, a 6-8 foot length of light chain is also required along with several candles or an alcohol burner (or other liquid fuel, such as a good serving dish might use).

The couple, along with one or two of their closest friends, stand facing each other. The submissive, wearing a simple dress, holds her single white rose. Her Dominant, holding his red rose, removes her collar. He passes it quickly through the flames of a small burner and returns it to her neck. As he fastens it securely, he makes a declaration to her that he will protect and guide her for all of eternity.

With a thorn on the stem of his red rose, he pricks her middle finger and lets two drops of blood fall on the white petals of her rose. She then offers the thorns of her rose to him and he pricks his own finger. He lets two drops fall to her rose, one alone and one on top of a drop of hers. The two then press their fingers together and make their vows to be joined by blood.

Their witnesses or friends take a length of light-weight chain and pass it quickly though the flame and wrap it around the couple. They again make their vows to be bound by their souls for eternity. The roses are touched together, letting the blood from hers kiss his, and are then exchanged. The chain is removed and wrapped carefully in a cloth to be given to the couple when the ceremony has ended. The roses are put into a single vase and will later be taken to their private chamber to remain as a reminder to them as they contemplate their new bond that night while joining their bodies.

In the morning, they share their hopes and dreams of being together for eternity and pluck the petals from the roses to place them in a container together. These petals are kept for the lifetime of the couple and a portion of them are buried with each in death. The chain is passed down in the family or given to an honored friend who will use it in their own bonding ceremony."




MercTech -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 8:16:40 AM)

And I was thinking of the Order of the Black Rose and their induction ceremony.




littlewonder -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 8:21:09 AM)

I remember quite a few couples doing this when I owned a munch/play space, mostly those who liked CastleRealm.




OsideGirl -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 8:28:00 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I remember quite a few couples doing this when I owned a munch/play space, mostly those who liked CastleRealm.



Yup, back when Castlerealm was worshipped by the fluffy, pirate shirt loving folks....we were invited to at least one of these a month. I particularly like the part about the rose petals being buried with the participants, considering how often the velcro collars fly on and off.




littlewonder -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 8:31:14 AM)

lol. Yup. I'd say every time we had a play party we had one of these and then the next time we'd see them they would have someone new. lol




ResidentSadist -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 8:32:10 AM)

The Rose Ceremony, the Bride and Groom give each other a red rose bud.

The BDSM Rose Ceremony, some asshat in Texas with 14 sock puppets at a website called Castle Realm fantasizes with himself online about sticking each other with thorns or shoving roses up each others' ass while riding a unicorn. . . or something like that.





OsideGirl -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 8:45:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

The BDSM Rose Ceremony, some asshat in Texas with 14 sock puppets at a website called Castle Realm fantasizes with himself online about sticking each other with thorns or shoving roses up each others' ass while riding a unicorn. . . or something like that.




Squirting coffee out my nose while I have a cold is nonconsentual sadism on your part!


Was it you that said you had some research that showed it was all fake?




AnimusRex -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 10:17:47 AM)

I remember it too, and my favorite part was the bit about how there were chains involved that "were passed down from generation to generation".
Um, yeah, right.

But its a useful reminder of how much BS was spread in the early days, about the "Old Houses of Europe" sort of BDSM mythology.




Delilya -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 10:54:46 AM)

Here's a sort of.

http://youtu.be/Mi5y-rJt0K0




DreamyLadySnow -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 12:26:52 PM)

I know people who have done it, but frankly I think roses are better for beating with




kalikshama -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 12:50:14 PM)

<---- wants these roses!

[image]http://www.detailstoys.com/images/2007/07roses350.jpg[/image]




Kana -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/16/2012 11:29:13 PM)

Points above.
Sighs.
Just like a sub. Wants all the roses, none of the thorns [:-]




SexyThoughts -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/17/2012 4:15:12 AM)

In the Vanilla world, it's when a boy turns up on a girls doorstep holding a bunch of roses in such a way as to hide his erection, so she thinks he's classy and sleeps with him.

It's a relationship milestone, similar to the "hole in the bottom of the popcorn tub, in his lap" ceremony.

When in doubt. If google doesn't have it and you're cute, then assume it's a made up thing to convince you to sex them afterwards. [:D]




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Rose Ceremony (6/17/2012 6:34:39 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

<---- wants these roses!

[image]http://www.detailstoys.com/images/2007/07roses350.jpg[/image]



Me too. I've had a big lust for those roses since I first saw them. I want to use them and I want Himself to use them on me.

[sm=mademyday.gif]




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