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OsideGirl -> RE: Previous submissives (6/18/2012 9:11:11 AM)
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
I admit there was a time when I was first dating Master and he would tell me about the previous women in his life At first I kinda cringed until he went on to explain them and I got to know him better and realize that he was not the same man he had described from those times with those women. It was a bit of a concern to me at first for awhile but I gave him the benefit of the doubt because of the other factors that made him so damn attractive to me. I also kept wondering if I was like those women from the past and made me examine myself because I started thinking of his track record and that I was just like them and that's why he found me attractive. In the end it all worked out though and I'm glad I gave him that benefit and that I was not as bad as his other women....weeeelll...not completely. [8D]
I was very cautious with Master at first. We had been friends for three years before we dated. So, I know who he dated and how many he dated. I had been with my previous Dominant for 6 years. The running joke was that he dated everyone, while I dated one. I had no interest in being a notch on his bedpost. We took it slow and he understood.
But, I'll also differentiate between dating for fun and a series of disastrous relationships because you've chosen the same person over and over.
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