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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

Dude, really what makes you think that just because the women here are kinky, they are into fucking everything walking?  The reality is that a high percentage of women here are interested in a kinky, MONOGAMOUS relationship. 

The pictures you have in your photo are a representation of you and what you want?  Really?  Because here is what they show: 

A.  A wimpy guy who enjoys jerking off while his girlfriend gets it on with everyone but him.
B.  A guy whose primary interest is seeing his "girlfriend" with black men, probably because of the myth about black dicks.

Your posts so far do NOT show you as have the traits of a "healthy, desirable male."  They show you to be immature, looking for a fantasy based on porn and a serious lack of knowledge about BDSM, which incidentally is what this site is about.

So good luck finding what you are looking for, but don't be surprised if it turns out not to be what you really want.  Regardless, you are not alone in your desire and belief that the "hot girls" will flock to you, and I'm sure you, like some others here, will enjoy looking at all the photos of the "hot chicks" here.  I'm also pretty sure it won't be too long before you are back complaining about the fakes.

But regardless, welcome to CM.

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Being nice and polite doesn't mean you aren't a doormat. It means you are less likely to be a dick.

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ORIGINAL: Livestrong7

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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

Dude, really what makes you think that just because the women here are kinky, they are into fucking everything walking?  The reality is that a high percentage of women here are interested in a kinky, MONOGAMOUS relationship. 

The pictures you have in your photo are a representation of you and what you want?  Really?  Because here is what they show: 

A.  A wimpy guy who enjoys jerking off while his girlfriend gets it on with everyone but him.
B.  A guy whose primary interest is seeing his "girlfriend" with black men, probably because of the myth about black dicks.

Your posts so far do NOT show you as have the traits of a "healthy, desirable male."  They show you to be immature, looking for a fantasy based on porn and a serious lack of knowledge about BDSM, which incidentally is what this site is about.

So good luck finding what you are looking for, but don't be surprised if it turns out not to be what you really want.  Regardless, you are not alone in your desire and belief that the "hot girls" will flock to you, and I'm sure you, like some others here, will enjoy looking at all the photos of the "hot chicks" here.  I'm also pretty sure it won't be too long before you are back complaining about the fakes.

But regardless, welcome to CM.

I don't care for BDSM and not everyone here revolves around it. I don’t think women will flock to me. Please tell me why you think I’m acting immature. By the way an alpha male get turn on by his girlfriend sleeping around. It's what turns me on, so why should I seek anything else on this site? You do know I had a girlfriend who was promiscuous in a open relationship? So tell me what is so fantasy base about it?

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If you "don't care for BDSM" it was really silly of you to joing a BDSM site.  No, most alpha males do NOT get turned on by their girlfriend sleeping around, just another sign of you behaving immaturely and speaking about something you don't know about, only what YOU, thinking you are an alpha male, feels.

Everyone has told you, repeatedly, feel free to seek what you want and list it in your profile.  You having "had" a girlfriend who was promiscuous is not the least surprising.  You thinking that "lots" of women are looking for this is the fantasy.  Your immaturity is based on your behavior, acting like a whiny child throwing a temper tantrum because everyone didn't jump up and down telling you that women would line up for what you want.

You can continue to behave any way you want.  We will all continue to behave based on your behavior.  It's really that simple; act like a dick, you will be treated like a dick.

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ORIGINAL: Livestrong7

I don't care how you act, I'm just responding back. All I ever said to the guy is" Thanks but I don't need your opinion" I only expressed my disapproval to his comment.

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

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ORIGINAL: Livestrong7

I don't care how you act, I'm just responding back. All I ever said to the guy is" Thanks but I don't need your opinion" I only expressed my disapproval to his comment.

No, you didn't only express disapproval to his comment; you peed in the community pool.
It was the first comment you made to someone who welcomed you.

There was no need for you to 'challenge' him; except to try and prove how "alpha" you were.

Just because you have read a book that has convinced you that nice guys finish last does not make it true.
It is true that some women like 'bad' boys and some women can't tolerate being treated well.


[my] Master IS a "nice guy" although He prefers the term gentleman rogue.
He opens my car door, pulls out my seat and this past Monday, surprised me while I was in the shower by presenting me with a bouquet of wildflowers that He picked.

And amidst all that mushy stuff, I am His slave.
He is an exquisite leader and lover and it is my joy to serve Him by giving Him anything He asks.

I have never, ever thought of Him as a doormat or a pushover, but I respect Him because He has earned it.

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

This.^^ There is a way to act here, we all are civilized or try to be. But hey, you be you..don't be surprised if you are you...alone.

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

No, understand, we are ganging up because you entered into a forum and was a dick to an established member. What part of that do you not understand? You could have easily ignored his advice or simply said "thanks but no thanks". Instead you chose a dick route, and just like you don't care about our community, we don't give two fucks about your opinions of us.

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Um, no it is no where near what you said to him, and everyone else took it exactly how I took it as well. And newsflash, this is where I come daily, you are the noob here...maybe you should leave since you feel we are ganging up and bashing you.

Bless your heart.