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crazyml -> RE: To CAM or Voice that is the question (7/18/2012 4:31:23 AM)
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ORIGINAL: AnastasiaSteele
I sounds like Hamlet. But I find this to be a tricky area for me, maybe some of you as well.
I was talking to a Dom who was all inflated by his ego. He insisted that I call him Sir because of my D/s experience. Okay I had no problem with that. But when we started talking in general about bs stuff we wound up talking about what I like, which is very kink fuckery ala E L James.
Aww c'mon... calling an asshat stranger "Sir" because he insists isn't helping him come to terms with his ass-hattery, now is it?
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When I asked him what he was into he said you'll have to find out. SERIOUSLY- the man was not charming or smooth because my flew on the bullshit meter within the first 10 sec. I don't remember, but I am pretty sure that saying hello and having a light conversation doesn't constitute an act giving my submission.
So he pop off line and says he could always allow me to top him.. YEAH I laughed. I figured that was the end of conversation with Mr. God Gift to Domination. But he reared his misguided head again.
Ah... you'll do fine, your bullshit-o-meter seems to be functioning
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He asked why didn't I contact him when I seen he signed on.. My response was " I deleted your contact information because I felt we had nothing more to say. His response was he had to leave in a hurry "family emergency"(break the code) So then he asked me if I would voice and cam with him. I flatly said NO.
Excellent. I'm thinking you have this shit pretty much covered.
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He asked why, I said If I voice it would be non d/s and there definitely would be no cam.
His seemed outrage that I wouldn't cam. He said " it seems like you don't trust me" My mind is racing with though of is this guy the biggest tool here. my response was" Of course I don't trust you, I don't know you. I would never put myself in a position to have my image plaster on the web by some stranger, who can take 3 minutes to know me.. which included knowing each others name.
Sorted!
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So have you Cam or voice/cam with a stranger?
Ah... well it depends on what you mean by "stranger". Most of my interactions move to voice and then sometimes voice and cam if it looks like it's leading to a meeting. If an interaction doesn't look like it's leading to a meeting then nope.
The decision to cam/voice is yours, and if you're looking for the kinda chap who'd respect the fact that you won't cam/voice till you've at least got to know eachother, then in a way, the jackasses are doing you a favour by flying off the handle.
But... I get the impression that you know this... Seems to me that you've got a head on your shoulders, and a good sense for bullshit
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