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The boyfriend question - 10/30/2004 1:23:06 PM

djargus

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I am curious if Dommes seek boyfriends in their slaves and what would be the qualities to strive myself for when showing a Domme how I really am. I wish to know is it how I act around Dommes at maybe a club that would attract a seeker of a boyfriend and then myself wanting to turn into maybe more then just a play partner try to show her how I feel? Hope this isn't too vague or meant for another thread.

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RE: The boyfriend question - 10/30/2004 1:52:12 PM

MistresKatamaura

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You find a dominant just how you find a vanilla girlfriends. There is no MAGICK formula. Every person on this earth is different.

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RE: The boyfriend question - 10/30/2004 2:12:30 PM

BeachMystress

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Some Domme want relationships with their subs, some want play partners. Personally, I will not play outside of a relationship. My sub is my boyfriend. You'd be surprised how few subs are interested in that. I guess I should say how few subs locally are looking for that. Most of them seem to be married and looking for kink on the side. You'd do better attracting a Domme seeking a relationship at a munch, I'd think. And of course I have links. I seem to have links for everything, LoL

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/CapitolCityMunch/
http://www.nefg.org/index.html
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NewJerseyBDSM/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/DE-MD-PA-NJ-BDSM/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BDSMofNewJersey/
http://www.phillyfetish.com/bts.htm

Good Hunting

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RE: The boyfriend question - 10/30/2004 7:13:38 PM

djargus

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Well thanks for the help from both of you.

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