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OneKinkyArtist -> mind (fuck) over matter (6/21/2012 8:28:40 PM)

I need a slut...not just any slut. I don't care if you like it rough up the cunt or firm up the butt.

ok rhyme time is over.

this is for the male/female submissives of the message boards...what do you seek in an owner?

is it more than just sexual for you?

to the male/female dominates...what do you seek in a partner in crime...?

is it more than sexual for you




littlewonder -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/21/2012 8:32:38 PM)

Yes it's more sexual. Master and I have a long long term committed relationship and he is the one in power in our relationship in everything, not just sex.




BurntKitty -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/21/2012 8:42:27 PM)

From a non d/s perspective, it's way more than sex, as we're discussing when I'll be moving north to be with him. We're partners outside of the bedroom as well as in. We're very compatible in our mutual interests. (Sports, leisurely drives, yard/garage sales, cooking, did I mention sports?) I like the fact that he's not into d/s, but we're both into s & m. Hell I love pain play & he's a carpenter by trade. He can make furniture, paddles, and can adapt damn near anything to make things kinky. By the way, he has a sailboat. Lots of opportunities for rope play. *sigh* He like to do mean, ebil things to me. I like the mean things he does. We're very happy.




OneKinkyArtist -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/21/2012 8:45:34 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BurntKitty

From a non d/s perspective, it's way more than sex, as we're discussing when I'll be moving north to be with him. We're partners outside of the bedroom as well as in. We're very compatible in our mutual interests. (Sports, leisurely drives, yard/garage sales, cooking, did I mention sports?) I like the fact that he's not into d/s, but we're both into s & m. Hell I love pain play & he's a carpenter by trade. He can make furniture, paddles, and can adapt damn near anything to make things kinky. By the way, he has a sailboat. Lots of opportunities for rope play. *sigh* He like to do mean, ebil things to me. I like the mean things he does. We're very happy.




Oh to tie a wench to the mast !!




Hillwilliam -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/21/2012 9:18:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: OneKinkyArtist


quote:

ORIGINAL: BurntKitty

From a non d/s perspective, it's way more than sex, as we're discussing when I'll be moving north to be with him. We're partners outside of the bedroom as well as in. We're very compatible in our mutual interests. (Sports, leisurely drives, yard/garage sales, cooking, did I mention sports?) I like the fact that he's not into d/s, but we're both into s & m. Hell I love pain play & he's a carpenter by trade. He can make furniture, paddles, and can adapt damn near anything to make things kinky. By the way, he has a sailboat. Lots of opportunities for rope play. *sigh* He like to do mean, ebil things to me. I like the mean things he does. We're very happy.




Oh to tie a wench to the mast !!

I was thinking more in terms of a shibari figurehead.




OneKinkyArtist -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/21/2012 10:09:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


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ORIGINAL: OneKinkyArtist


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ORIGINAL: BurntKitty

From a non d/s perspective, it's way more than sex, as we're discussing when I'll be moving north to be with him. We're partners outside of the bedroom as well as in. We're very compatible in our mutual interests. (Sports, leisurely drives, yard/garage sales, cooking, did I mention sports?) I like the fact that he's not into d/s, but we're both into s & m. Hell I love pain play & he's a carpenter by trade. He can make furniture, paddles, and can adapt damn near anything to make things kinky. By the way, he has a sailboat. Lots of opportunities for rope play. *sigh* He like to do mean, ebil things to me. I like the mean things he does. We're very happy.




Oh to tie a wench to the mast !!

I was thinking more in terms of a shibari figurehead.



bow ornament




RaspberryLemon -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 5:50:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: OneKinkyArtist
this is for the male/female submissives of the message boards...what do you seek in an owner?
A compatible life partner who is loving, trustworthy, respectable, and interested in being very close and working as a team. I have found this in my Master.

quote:


is it more than just sexual for you?
Absolutely. My Master is in charge of all aspects of our lives, not just sexually. That is how things work between us. Our relationship is based on mutual love, respect, trust, and dedication (loyalty.)




BurntKitty -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 7:19:15 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OneKinkyArtist


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


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ORIGINAL: OneKinkyArtist


quote:

ORIGINAL: BurntKitty

From a non d/s perspective, it's way more than sex, as we're discussing when I'll be moving north to be with him. We're partners outside of the bedroom as well as in. We're very compatible in our mutual interests. (Sports, leisurely drives, yard/garage sales, cooking, did I mention sports?) I like the fact that he's not into d/s, but we're both into s & m. Hell I love pain play & he's a carpenter by trade. He can make furniture, paddles, and can adapt damn near anything to make things kinky. By the way, he has a sailboat. Lots of opportunities for rope play. *sigh* He like to do mean, ebil things to me. I like the mean things he does. We're very happy.




Oh to tie a wench to the mast !!

I was thinking more in terms of a shibari figurehead.



bow ornament


Yup, that's what he said. [:D]




OsideGirl -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 7:19:30 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OneKinkyArtist

I need a slut...not just any slut. I don't care if you like it rough up the cunt or firm up the butt.

ok rhyme time is over.

this is for the male/female submissives of the message boards...what do you seek in an owner?

is it more than just sexual for you?


You can't have sex for 24/7/365 for 12 years.....of course it has to be more than sexual.


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to the male/female dominates...what do you seek in a partner in crime...?
They probably seek someone that knows the difference between verb and an adjective.




OneKinkyArtist -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 9:09:33 AM)



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They probably seek someone that knows the difference between verb and an adjective.



is this one of your requirements




OsideGirl -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 9:58:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: OneKinkyArtist



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They probably seek someone that knows the difference between verb and an adjective.



is this one of your requirements


I'm neither a "dominate" or a Dominant, so why would I have a requirement for a submissive?




littlewonder -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 10:02:52 AM)

I admit that when I was seeking a partner, his grammar was very important to me. If he didn't know the difference between an adjective and a verb, the likelihood of me wanting to even converse with him was extremely small.




OsideGirl -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 10:04:37 AM)

I particularly like the ones who say "I'm an intelligent Dominate".




LaTigresse -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 11:53:52 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I particularly like the ones who say "I'm an intelligent Dominate".


Ya. Seeing that is definitely worth more than the price of admission.




tiemetight247 -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 11:59:13 AM)

It should be "I ARE an intelligent Dominate."




OneKinkyArtist -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 11:59:42 AM)

oh spare me..its a simple mistake...oh queen of the forum




GreedyTop -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 12:02:00 PM)

I don't want a dominate. I never have, even when I considered myself submittive.

I want a PARTNER whose sexual appetites and kink matched and complemented my own.

someone who, first and foremost was my friend and companion.

I want someone who I can happily sit next to, holding hands, when we are both at the old age home, and not want to wipe my hand off because he sweats too much...
ETA: OKA... if you want to be taken seriously and (kinda) accepted around here (to the extent that you won't be mocked by anyone but the newbies), I suggest you adjust your attitude towards LaT. SHE is respected and admired here. You have yet to do/show any reason why you should be. While this may not matter to you now, keep in mind that most of us also have a presence on FL and other places.




BurntKitty -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 12:07:06 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I don't want a dominate. I never have, even when I considered myself submittive.

I want a PARTNER whose sexual appetites and kink matched and complemented my own.

someone who, first and foremost was my friend and companion.

I want someone who I can happily sit next to, holding hands, when we are both at the old age home, and not want to wipe my hand off because he sweats too much...


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mnottertail -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 12:08:11 PM)

...and not want to wipe my hand off because he sweats too much...



You feckless whore.




Whenready -> RE: mind (fuck) over matter (6/22/2012 12:18:32 PM)

You can't have sex for 24/7/365 for 12 years.....of course it has to be more than sexual.

You can't? Darn.... and I only had 3 weeks to go....

Seriously however, sex is an important part of it, but only part of it - for me at least.




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