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Lockit -> RE: Correct protocol in meeting people (6/23/2012 3:18:50 PM)
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ORIGINAL: UsableSexSlave
Hey, I didn't dress anything up and you will find I have posted comments that I dont even know what we are or never claimed it.
I have said we are new and never tried to hide I am cuckold or what I want.
Yes I want someone to meet up with us, take my wife and abuse her while I watch and join in. I want her punished, restrained, forced to do what the hardline Dom wants. See her crawl across the floor and then beg to suck his cock and take objects etc. After she has been finished with and presented back to me more than abused then she is to preform for me. Maybe not textbook BDSM but seems to come under BDSM?
I also want her trained in Sensory Deprivation etc and do not have the knowledge so if I get someone in and watch how a well knowledge Dom can get the most out of her then we are well on our way.
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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex
OP, its a tough crowd because what you are doing is using ideas about "training" that come out of an erotic novel, where the Queen summons a male slave to train Beauty in how to fuck or something.
In other words, you are bullshitting folks who live this stuff.
What you want, it seems, is the erotic pleasure of watching your wife get spanked and fucked by other guys, while you watch or join in.
Great! Lots of people are into this. Why not just say so?
What you will find is when you take ordinary sexual desires, and dress them up in the fancy clothes of some mysterious "training" and "pushing boundaries" you sound like the other 45,587 guys who strut around these parts hiding their horny desires behind the veil of exotic romance.
In your first post of this thread, you said your wife was your sub.
You may not know what you're talking about or titles. That's okay, you really don't have to be a title. However, when you use words that you don't understand or try to say something in the manner you are phrasing them in, without coming straight out and saying what you mean... don't be upset when people don't understand you.
You want to be a cuck. You want someone to train her and do it all to turn you on or for the high. Okay... a cuck doesn't normally come by way of being a dominant... but I have seen it. You want someone to train her as a slave... so she will act like one. Okay... that tends to come by way of her dominant and therefore she isn't your sub if you want someone else to make her a slave so she will act right. Do you see the conflict here? It shouldn't take two pages of a thread to get to the real story if you wish to get positive assistance.
Bottom line, you decide how you will interact with prospects, whether they be dominant or submissive. Until they mean something to you, how you meet people has nothing to do with anyone but you and your wife. Forget others protocol or romancing the lifestyle. Seek what you want and you determine how you accomplish that.
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