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Scarletsilk -> New sub wants anal (6/25/2012 7:46:32 PM)
Hi! I'm hoping an experienced master can help me. I was recently collared for the first time. And while I'm very excited and happy about it, I know my master will eventually expect me to be a good anal slut for him. I want more than anything to please him but the truth is that I'm scared of being hurt. I know a good sub is supposed to bear pain for her master's pleasure, and I do find that to be a turn-on, but I'm worried it will be really painful and I won't be able to do it. Do you have any advice for me about how to anally please my master and learn to take his cock in my ass and actually enjoy it? Any and all input will be appreciated. Thank you very much!

MistressDarkArt -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/25/2012 7:49:56 PM)
Welcome to the boards. Please try using the search feature. There have been a million discussions about this here, some quite recent. Good luck and enjoy the journey.

poise -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/25/2012 8:09:57 PM)
I would think the best master to help you with this is the one attached to the cock that's going to be doing all the pillaging. Here is a link that may be helpful to you. Good luck! http://www.collarchat.com/m_4005165/mpage_1/tm.htm

DarkSteven -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/25/2012 8:32:58 PM)
First off, slow down. You were complaining a little over a month ago about how hard it is to find an unattached Dom, and on 6/20, you got collared. By the first Dom you ever met, which is like getting engaged to the first guy who ever asked you out, six weeks after you met him. It's called sub frenzy. I collared my sub after about four months of being together, and that was ridiculously fast. As far as anal goes (or anything else for that matter), you're not in control. That's the POINT. So, at the point you accepted his collar, you did it because you had full faith that he knew what he was doing, and that he cared for you. I've introduced several women to anal and in one case, it never happened because I never felt right about it. If he is so brutal that he hurts you, then you picked very badly.

wittynamehere -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/25/2012 8:35:08 PM)
Agreed with the 3 posts above.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/25/2012 8:36:09 PM)
Jeeebus palomino. IT'S JUST FUCKING. ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE HAVE ANAL SEX. Relax, and have fun.

Kana -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/25/2012 10:50:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Scarletsilk Hi! I'm hoping an experienced master can help me. I was recently collared for the first time. And while I'm very excited and happy about it, I know my master will eventually expect me to be a good anal slut for him. I want more than anything to please him but the truth is that I'm scared of being hurt. I know a good sub is supposed to bear pain for her master's pleasure, and I do find that to be a turn-on, but I'm worried it will be really painful and I won't be able to do it. Do you have any advice for me about how to anally please my master and learn to take his cock in my ass and actually enjoy it? Any and all input will be appreciated. Thank you very much! Ask him to spit on your brownie before he slams home.

ARIES83 -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/25/2012 11:12:09 PM)
+1 to what ladyH said, go read a few anal sex Articles, and kiss your ass goodbye, heh -ARIES

LadyHibiscus -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/26/2012 7:23:08 AM)
I swear I did not date any of those ^^ guys!! [;)]

LadyPact -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/26/2012 7:29:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Jeeebus palomino. IT'S JUST FUCKING. ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE HAVE ANAL SEX. Relax, and have fun. That. ^^^ Any person with a brain knows how to tease you properly.

OsideGirl -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/26/2012 7:52:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven First off, slow down. You were complaining a little over a month ago about how hard it is to find an unattached Dom, and on 6/20, you got collared. By the first Dom you ever met, which is like getting engaged to the first guy who ever asked you out, six weeks after you met him. It's called sub frenzy. I collared my sub after about four months of being together, and that was ridiculously fast. Yeah, at this point, your biggest worry should not be whether anal sex hurts......it should be "when I take my genitals out of the equation, do I actually like this person?" quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Jeeebus palomino. IT'S JUST FUCKING. ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE HAVE ANAL SEX. Relax, and have fun. That. ^^^ Any person with a brain knows how to tease you properly. True. But then again, it's a "Dominant" that collared some one less than month. The brain thing could be argued.

kalikshama -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/26/2012 8:48:36 AM)
Anal sex has never hurt me when there's been enough foreplay and enough lube. [image]http://cdn2.mamapop.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/sex-youre-doing-it-wrong.jpg[/image]

amaidiamond -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/26/2012 2:12:28 PM)
Lube Lube and Lube and take it slow

CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/26/2012 3:47:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: amaidiamond Lube Lube and Lube and take it slow Lube? I knew I had been doing something wrong, shrug...walks away shaking my head in confusion.

Endivius -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/26/2012 5:14:13 PM)
Around here the choice of lubricant is Louisianne hot sauce or Mint tooth paste.

SWDesertDom -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/26/2012 8:52:22 PM)
quote: Around here the choice of lubricant is Louisianne hot sauce... Yeaaaaahiiiiiiiiii (in a Jimmy C. Newman voice)

amaidiamond -> RE: New sub wants anal (6/27/2012 8:25:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CRYPTICLXVI quote: ORIGINAL: amaidiamond Lube Lube and Lube and take it slow Lube? I knew I had been doing something wrong, shrug...walks away shaking my head in confusion. LOL for first time and scared lube is FTW For the rather experienced and liking it rough on the other hand.... -smirks- That said, in all seriousness I do think lube whilst at least getting used to anal is best, I got quite badly ripped by some jackass that just forced it on in despite my body being tighter than a vice...

Sublooking12 -> RE: New sub wants anal (7/1/2012 9:14:46 AM)
I for one love anal play and anal sex. The area is senisitive so all activity is hightened but I was introduced by an ass lover that basically made love to my hole until I was begging him to take me. The full feeling along with the taboo nature will put me over the edge any time.

JanahX -> RE: New sub wants anal (7/1/2012 9:44:34 AM)
Heres a tip - just make sure you eat a HUGE ASS BOWL of CHILLI about three to four hours before the special event. He'll love you all the more -

JeffBC -> RE: New sub wants anal (7/1/2012 4:20:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven First off, slow down. You were complaining a little over a month ago about how hard it is to find an unattached Dom, and on 6/20, you got collared. By the first Dom you ever met, which is like getting engaged to the first guy who ever asked you out, six weeks after you met him. It's called sub frenzy. I collared my sub after about four months of being together, and that was ridiculously fast. ^ \| An experienced master is trying to help you. I doubt he's going to succeed. Look OP. You either trust your master or you do not. If you do trust him then you'll let him have his way with your ass. If he hurts you then you'll have to decide if you misplaced your trust in him or not. There is no reason that anal needs to be painful. I introduced Carol to it and now it's an automatic orgasm for her. She's not a masochist at all.

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