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daddy disappears.....hmmm - 6/27/2012 8:52:23 AM   
daddeesgurl1


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Since I put up my D/lg profile daddeesgurl (wouldn't let me log in under my own name for some reason) I've noticed when I do find someone of value, who doesn't talk about sex in the 1st 2nd email. Who asks what I need instead of telling me what he wants from me. And we finally get to that point to meet....everythings been going great, they disappear. Does this happen a lot? You can see they still come to the site...but no more contact. I do like to now smeones name prior to 1st meet, which some find off putting...but wth.
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RE: daddy disappears.....hmmm - 6/27/2012 8:55:42 AM   
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As far as disappearing Doms goes, People (not just doms or subs) disappear for all kinds of reasons. Frequently, that reason is a spouse LOL.
If you want to attract people, you might want to unhide your profile. Then folks can find you.



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RE: daddy disappears.....hmmm - 6/27/2012 8:57:49 AM   
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Like I said the message boards wouldn't let me sign in under my original name

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RE: daddy disappears.....hmmm - 6/27/2012 9:07:57 AM   
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You might have to switch over to this new profile as a fresh start.

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RE: daddy disappears.....hmmm - 6/27/2012 9:20:53 AM   
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I went to take a peek at your profile and got "Profile Not found". Anyways, some simply disappear for lord knows what ever reason(s) they have. It's not an orientation thing either. You can always, send them a quick message... telling them how much you enjoyed the message exchange with them.

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RE: daddy disappears.....hmmm - 6/27/2012 9:52:49 AM   
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When the past is wreckage, salvage the best fragments. They make sailing forward a better journey.


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RE: daddy disappears.....hmmm - 6/27/2012 10:12:08 AM   
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awesome post, RU

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RE: daddy disappears.....hmmm - 6/27/2012 12:51:48 PM   
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it's extremely common

next?


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RE: daddy disappears.....hmmm - 6/27/2012 3:02:25 PM   
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It happens, the good part is when they do it before you are too emotionally invested

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RE: daddy disappears.....hmmm - 6/29/2012 10:56:04 AM   
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Happens to us as well, do not let it get you down, the main problem is that the profiles do not belong to real people, they create a character and then it falls to bits when you ask to meet, I think it gives them a kind of power trip and makes them feel clever.

Chin up and happy searching.

Bill

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RE: daddy disappears.....hmmm - 6/29/2012 11:03:43 AM   
GreedyTop


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yanno how to avoid the "fakes", "time wasters", "players", etc?

trust your gut.


being kinky does NOT absolve you of using whatever teeny tiny bit of common sense you may possess.

btw, SBD, there are shitloads of folks on here that are "real and true". it's not OUR fault if folks let their fantasies override their common sense. Guess what? That supermodel (male or female) doesn't really have any interest in you (generic), and the sooner your (generic) common sense bitchslaps that tidbit into your (generic) brain, the better.

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