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Breast Punching

I LIKE IT

10% (3)

SHE likes it

3% (1)

WE like it

16% (5)

MEH

43% (13)

degrading and gross

26% (8)

Total Votes : 30

(last vote on : 10/8/2012 5:07:08 PM)
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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 2:16:17 PM

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 3:50:04 PM

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I had mastitis when I was breast feeding my daugter. I was given some kind of meds and it went away about a week later.

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 5:14:58 PM

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I don't know anything about your posting history and the bees in the bonnets here it seems to have created but....taking your question at face value.....I don't care so much for punching but, like some others have said, I do love them being slapped (and pinched, bound, flogged, etc, etc.). Just because I don't care for it personally, however, I'm not gonna hysterically scream "abuse, abuse." I call bullshit on that. It's no more abusive than any other pain any of us regularly consent to. Just because you don't like doesn't make it abuse. Not in the least........luci

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 5:23:43 PM

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I don't know anything about your posting history and the bees in the bonnets here it seems to have created but

He made a post claiming that he punched and kicked his GF for nine hours and was looking for stories similar to his.

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 5:31:53 PM

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No one, I mean no one is punching my breasts.........not unless they want their ball sack used as like a speed bag. LOL.

Thats really dangerous. I see those pictures of bondage with the boobs all red and blown up like dead bloated flesh......ohhhhhhhh I hurt thinking of that.

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 5:49:25 PM

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quote:

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I don't know anything about your posting history and the bees in the bonnets here it seems to have created but

He made a post claiming that he punched and kicked his GF for nine hours and was looking for stories similar to his.

The fact that out of 15 posts he only has 3 in showing in his posting history says a lot.

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 6:05:24 PM

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I think it would be fairly dangerous. Breast tissue isn't like other muscle or fat within the body and probably shouldn't be exposed to repetitive inflammatory responses. Not to mention, how is a woman suppose to determine the difference between hardened scar tissue and a cancerous growth during her self checks?

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 6:55:24 PM

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I had one of those puppies catch me with a vicious right hook once. And breasts look so innocent!

Not to mention their potential for quiet but deadly smothering....

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 7:04:05 PM

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No one, I mean no one is punching my breasts.........not unless they want their ball sack used as like a speed bag. LOL.

Thats really dangerous. I see those pictures of bondage with the boobs all red and blown up like dead bloated flesh......ohhhhhhhh I hurt thinking of that.

Don't look at Master's then when he posts them.

As for this guy's posts, I personally didn't see them as him saying he was being abusive. I just saw another guy who was trying to show off what he and his wife or girlfriend did and wanted to show everyone how good he is at beating a sub for 9 hours and just what kind of damage he could do to her in that time (consensually I'm betting. I think he was trying to make it look like it wasn't just to get a rise out of people), In reality though, what he showed us was at the best, laughable to boast about because most of us just saw a lot of words written in lipstick and a couple of bruises that most of us get from doing hard work or being clumsy.

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 8:13:29 PM

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I had mastitis when I was breast feeding my daugter. I was given some kind of meds and it went away about a week later.

That is the most painful experience. Uggg.

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 8:52:12 PM

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Yeah it did hurt but thankfully it cleared up quickly. But admit the pain of gallstones a week later was the worst pain ever, even worse than childbirth I think.

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 9:37:30 PM

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I appreciate the feedback and input. Yes everything we do together is consensual, and to be honest is suprising. Long term damage is an issue we have discussed/continue to, and we actually only punch quite soft. It is the quick slapping in a downward motion that gives the best results. It hurts her less, and leaves broken blood vessels.
I did come to this forum to find like minded people.
My partner and I respect each other, I suppose i'm stumbling around this site, and im not sure where, or how exactly, I can share and relate our experiences, and not confuse fantasy (and the bedroom) with reality or how we really feel.
I am rough with her because she demands it, I am actually serving her...So does that make her the Dom?

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 10:03:35 PM

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yeah, there is definitely a technique to it. If its consensual then it sounds like fun!

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 10:33:37 PM

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It makes you whatever you two wanna call yourselves. Personally if I saw you both and you were to say that I would call you a top/bottom or kinky fetishists.

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 11:01:20 PM

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Our relationship certainly is fun...exciting, rewarding, nurturing, caring, and all the other adjectives that a loving couple uses when describing the best relationship either of us has ever had.
Our sex lives are constantly evolving, and this intrest in BDSM has grown naturally from light spanking onward.
Perhaps we will be onto something else in a few months, its really up to how our mutual desires/wants/rights dictate.
Being creative (in the sack, and in life) allows one (or a couple) to not limit someone necessarily to a "chosen" lifestyle.
Just because one is identifying with a particular group at one point, it doesn't mean we are stuck here. That's just as boring as "vanilla" sex.
I chose this topic for a poll because it is challenging. I do want to find out people's opinions, especially in the BDSM community, because WE ARE identifying with what I thought was a community open to alternative choices in the sack.
Perhaps that is my ignorance, as in my real world community, I am lucky enough to have surrounded my self with open minded, discussion based, debate and understanding people.
Perhaps I expect people to empathise and have discourse. But again, that's probably my ignorance to the ways of this particular board.
I look forward to reading, discussing, and posting on topics of mutual interest within the BDSM forum.
Onward and upward!

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/28/2012 11:12:54 PM

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Thank you.
"Bullshit" claim awknowledged.
I appreciate a non "knee-jerk" reaction.

Believe me, to eventually, actually, have as fun(rough/concerned for one's limits) sex as we do, it did not begin in a fit of rage, or any other angst based reaction and/or feeling.
We actually talk/discuss and have discourse all during our sessions. As I would hope all partners do. Vanilla/Rough/whatthehellever kinda sex you both consent to and enjoy.

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/29/2012 7:46:19 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HFXMasterDaddy
I suppose i'm stumbling around this site, and im not sure where, or how exactly, I can share and relate our experiences, and not confuse fantasy (and the bedroom) with reality or how we really feel.

Take down as a kink is a very small part of community and some others will allow their own feelings towards it color their reactions. (As evidenced by the people that said they would use your ball sack as a punching bag.)

I admit it, I don't get it. (I have a friend into this) But, as long as you're doing it in a risk aware manner and you're both happy, no one else should care.

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I am rough with her because she demands it, I am actually serving her...So does that make her the Dom?

You're whatever you decide you are. When Master does something I enjoy, he's getting just as much out of it as I am.......

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/29/2012 7:57:37 AM

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Yeah, I know when Master does things for me, most of the time he's enjoying it also but there are times he's just humoring me to be nice. lol
But I would never demand it of him. For one, it would mean getting punished and I soooo don't want that <cringe> and it would simply be disrespectful to him for us and that's why I would not call them M/s or D/s but like I said, that's me personally. Call yourselves whatever you wish. It's your relationship.

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/29/2012 8:35:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: HFXMasterDaddy

I appreciate the feedback and input. Yes everything we do together is consensual, and to be honest is suprising. Long term damage is an issue we have discussed/continue to, and we actually only punch quite soft. It is the quick slapping in a downward motion that gives the best results. It hurts her less, and leaves broken blood vessels.
I did come to this forum to find like minded people.
My partner and I respect each other, I suppose i'm stumbling around this site, and im not sure where, or how exactly, I can share and relate our experiences, and not confuse fantasy (and the bedroom) with reality or how we really feel.
I am rough with her because she demands it, I am actually serving her...So does that make her the Dom?

The technique is not something you mention nor do you mention mutual awareness of possible consequences and trying to mitigate such.
It is not a condemnation of you, but there are people who simply do not have an awareness of such things.
We have had new and inexperienced people to breast play who have had long term damage: a submissive male had damage to the nerves in his nipples from clamps left on too long and a brand new F sub ended up with needing surgery to remove necrotic breast tissue because she didn't know what was normal and what wasn't and she trusted the guy she was with because he was "very experienced" in breast bondage.

It is bad enough when accidents happen between consenting adults, but when preventable injuries occur from ignorance or negligence
... and without you providing information, there is no way to know that you are informed.

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RE: Breast Punching - 6/29/2012 12:48:41 PM

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