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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 6/29/2012 4:06:35 PM   
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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 6/29/2012 5:59:46 PM   
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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 6/29/2012 6:59:58 PM   
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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 6/29/2012 9:37:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Why do people think stuff like height really matters? From a realistic standpoint, it's somewhat shallow. Believe it or not, height isn't a discerning factor.





ROFL, about some comments after LP's ....

That said,

Let us take this, from a vanilla perspective ...

Two people like each other and meet in vanilla life.

What do they do?

Likewise, two people meet who are in the lifestyle.

What do they do?

Same thing as vanilla ..... 99% of the time.

The only difference with a Fem Dom, is is simply, you already agreed to roles and rules within the interaction (or relationship), if it develops.

She is in charge, and you say "Yes, my 'Lady, as you wish' ".

That said, you should look for mental match, emotional match, and non physical things.

Then you fall for Her .....

Damn ... now, I am going to have to get out an old phone number .... and debate whether i should call Her. ROFL b] :-)

Then too ... She has mine and has not used it for a couple years!


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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 7/2/2012 5:39:20 AM   
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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 7/6/2012 6:52:36 PM   
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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 7/7/2012 5:37:57 AM   
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I enjoy the fact that I am taller then most of My slave's and submissives's, I use it to My advantage.


Do you find it helps when you're trying to get a sub into a side head lock, Mistress R? I used to, when I was at school and bullying the younger kids.

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 7/7/2012 6:30:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		If we're going to talk in generalities, I think men are more visual than women when it comes to attraction. I think men will put up with far more if a woman appeals to them physically, hence the success of trophy wives. On the other hand I if a woman is with a man she thinks is the most gorgeous male she's ever seen, and she discovers that he's a jerk, she won't stay with him because he's so very good looking that she just can't resist.

Perhaps a better question would be: do submissive men prefer a taller Mistress? My guess is some yes some no. Yes, if the height inspires your submission; no if you get off on the fact that despite your height, someone smaller than you has total control over you. Then there's probably the middle ground guys who couldn't care less one way or the other.

(And yes, there are always exceptions of course.)

Namio art for example: for some it's a metaphor, and for others it's quite literal at a basic prima facie level.

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 7/9/2012 6:55:42 AM   
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Perhaps a better question would be: do submissive men prefer a taller Mistress? My guess is some yes some no. Yes, if the height inspires your submission; no if you get off on the fact that despite your height, someone smaller than you has total control over you. Then there's probably the middle ground guys who couldn't care less one way or the other.




I think you're exactly right. Some people will prefer taller, some people will prefer shorter, and some will prefer something in the middle.

Personally, I find that I relate most to the part that I bolded. There's something about being dominated by a petite woman that really turns me on. I enjoy something about the contrast of me being over 6'1", and yet being dominated by a 5'0" woman.

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 8/8/2012 11:37:08 PM   
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regression back to nanny in extreme cases ?

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 8/9/2012 12:29:41 AM   
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Given that I'm 6'3 in a nation of (and this is the technical term) "short-arses" there are very few people taller than me yet alone carrying teh ovaries.

But to actually relate this to the OP even a casual glance at any thread that begins "Does X prefer Y or.." the answer universally is some dae, some dinnae.

...unless the question was "Do Dommes prefer intimate moments with a partner while an extra terrestrial life form quotes passages from Corrinthians or without" but really that's just silly...

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 8/9/2012 12:33:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Why do people think stuff like height really matters? From a realistic standpoint, it's somewhat shallow. Believe it or not, height isn't a discerning factor.




Probably because of the fact that in both threads that have been on CM in the last month or so, where women where asked how much they cared about height, most women said it mattered a great deal to them. The majority said that they would not consider dating a man that didn't fit their specific height criteria (with most wanting a guy at least 5'10" and preferable taller).

Women in general just seem to care about height, and I bet men are well aware of that.

< Message edited by UllrsIshtar -- 8/9/2012 12:34:18 AM >

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 8/9/2012 1:25:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Correct Me if I'm wrong, Ishtarr. Isn't your husband roughly the same height as you?

The example that you are providing lacks detail. For somebody like Me who happens to be 5'2", height isn't going to matter. I'm not the only one who has said so on this thread for those of us who tend to be a bit shorter. On the other end of the scale, it might matter to those who are a bit taller.

The funny part about this is that height is not something that a potential partner can control. Take another area that can not be controlled or is destined by birth, such as penis size, and most women say they don't give a crap about that, either.

More often than not, it's males who are hung up on the idea that they are not tall enough. We actually have a semi-regular poster to these boards who has the hugest chip on his shoulder because of his height and how he thinks the rejection that he suffers is due to it. Reading what he has to say, I'd lay My odds any day of the week that it's because of his bad attitude, rather than his height. The height is just a more convenient excuse.


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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 8/9/2012 2:02:37 PM   
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More often than not, it's males who are hung up on the idea that they are not tall enough. We actually have a semi-regular poster to these boards who has the hugest chip on his shoulder because of his height and how he thinks the rejection that he suffers is due to it. Reading what he has to say, I'd lay My odds any day of the week that it's because of his bad attitude, rather than his height. The height is just a more convenient excuse.



I'm a short gent, just 5'4''. I might have a Napoleonic chip from time to time, but I've grown to accept it. Witty Bambi. In the vanilla world it wasn't a chip, it is an appreciable demographic weakness. "Tall, dark, and handsome." It's the first one for a reason. But the vanilla world is still hung up on a male = dominant assumption. Some women don't care. Many want to feel small in his big arms or want to feel safe.

In femdom power exchange, everything is reversed. I've met Dommes who want an "I ride a big mighty tiger" vibe, and ergo go for the biggest baddest bulkiest macho man they can wrap a collar on. (Sometimes, I'm convinced its a child's belt, not a collar.) Other Dommes enjoy being able to lean forward and stare down their pet. In my experience, it has never come up as a benefit or a liability. I count myself lucky that most Dommes in my past are more like Lady Pact, NiceButMean, TNDommeK, MistressDarkArt, LittleMsMary, Lockit, et al.

(as a side not, I don't much like the word "Domme," but as we're discussing dominant females as they might differ from dominant males, I wanted to be clear)

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 8/9/2012 2:09:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		I just don't care. I understand that "wanting to feel safe" thing, but hell, don't men want that feeling too? It's all in our minds, anyway. I have ALWAYS seen myself in protector mode, since I was a little Enforcer Hib. If he's shorter than me and I want to put my head on his shoulder, I'll hunch down a little!!

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 8/9/2012 2:10:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Now me, I am a good height at 5'11"  but would dearly love to own an Amazon woman.  They get real short on their knees, or all fours. But that's just a kink. Height isn't a real 'problem'.  As LP points out, it's the attitudes the problem. 

Oh, yeah, and the second part.

My penis is big enough to satisfy me every time.  So that works out real well for me.

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 8/9/2012 3:43:16 PM   
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Correct Me if I'm wrong, Ishtarr. Isn't your husband roughly the same height as you?




He's about 2.5 inches taller than me, which usually results in him being a little shorter than me in practice, due to the heels I wear.

But I personally don't care about height.

I think you're right that a lot of times men are more hung up about height than women are, because I never get approached for dates by men shorter than myself (I'm 5'10" 1/2 without heels) even though I really don't care at all.

However, in both threads, an amazing amount of women said they wouldn't date short men at all. With a lot of them even having requirements of men being seriously over 6 feet to be considered datable, even if the women where rather short themselves. I would have never guessed that, I used to always think that this height obsession was just in guy's heads, but after seeing how many women came forwards and said they don't date guys they consider to be short... maybe men are so obsessed with height because they're used to having it quoted as the "why" they've been turned down.

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 8/13/2012 2:34:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: evesgrden

Perhaps a better question would be: do submissive men prefer a taller Mistress? My guess is some yes some no. Yes, if the height inspires your submission; no if you get off on the fact that despite your height, someone smaller than you has total control over you. Then there's probably the middle ground guys who couldn't care less one way or the other.




I think you're exactly right. Some people will prefer taller, some people will prefer shorter, and some will prefer something in the middle.

Personally, I find that I relate most to the part that I bolded. There's something about being dominated by a petite woman that really turns me on. I enjoy something about the contrast of me being over 6'1", and yet being dominated by a 5'0" woman.



I am 5'3 1/2 LOL...

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 8/14/2012 7:43:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Kaiel


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ORIGINAL: evesgrden

Perhaps a better question would be: do submissive men prefer a taller Mistress? My guess is some yes some no. Yes, if the height inspires your submission; no if you get off on the fact that despite your height, someone smaller than you has total control over you. Then there's probably the middle ground guys who couldn't care less one way or the other.




I think you're exactly right. Some people will prefer taller, some people will prefer shorter, and some will prefer something in the middle.

Personally, I find that I relate most to the part that I bolded. There's something about being dominated by a petite woman that really turns me on. I enjoy something about the contrast of me being over 6'1", and yet being dominated by a 5'0" woman.



I am 5'3 1/2 LOL...



Oops! i meant to say "i enjoy something about the contrast of me being over 6'1", and yet being dominated by a 5'3.5" woman". Sorry, Ma'am.

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RE: Taller Mistress Shorter Male sub - 8/14/2012 6:30:24 PM   
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Do Mistresses in here particularly enjoy dominating their male subs who are shorter/smaller than them?


No...sorry...Domme's hate shorter males. They only like me. It's a known fact.

(Sorry bud).

I really felt bad about divulging that to you....you seem like a decent fellow but....hey, truth is truth.

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