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zoey22 -> RE: anal play (6/9/2006 8:02:46 AM)
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I know I'm a bit young to speak on this (!) and I feel quite embarassed doing so, but: I think the first post should have come last! My first proper dom was very anally obssessed (!) but I think most doms are, as this seems to be a sort of taboo for them to break meaning that they feel greater pleasure and control if they have a female sub in particular who can engage in such activity. So even though fisting a girl anally can seem preposterous to some, it is possible even though this is practiced mostly in a gay-environment from what I know. But it depends on loads of factors, primarily on trust, patience and how much a sub is willing to indulge, limits and of course hygiene, absolutely (ALWAYS use enemas for any sort of anal activity + a good deal of decent lube!!). In short, it takes absolute ages to get a female especially (owing to the female anatomy) to be able to stretch that wide! I would say that trust and familiarity as well as good 'chemistry' between two partners play a crucial role, as well as of course how liberal they are and what limits they are willing to set or break. Personally, the most exciting thing in this lifestlye has been the challenge to break barriers and think farther. Perhaps it's just my revolutionary spirit which I've had since young. Hope this helps in some strange way!! z.
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