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str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 6:29:57 AM   
jt88atl


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Status: offline 		I am looking to use my first straight male sub, I think roleplay is something we are both interested in, and Im looking for suggestions since I havent been with another male alone. I dont think either of us are intrested in men, but both are curious about trying this. Any other str8 masters have any experiences they care to share? Thanks JT
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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 6:33:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 6:45:32 AM   
jt88atl


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Status: offline 		huh? what word? i abbreviated straight with str8 to fit the subject line.. or r u talking about master/sub.. sorry its my first post, still learning the lingo..

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 6:47:09 AM   
jt88atl


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Status: offline 		huh? what word? i abbreviated straight with str8 to fit the subject line.. or r u talking about master/sub/dominate.. sorry its my first post, still learning the lingo..

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:13:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		Question. Do you plan on fucking this guy? If so I wouldn't see you as straight but possibly bi-curious until you find out if you are going to pick a side. Personally I don't get the whole thing that you're doing but have fun. What kind of tips do you need? Do what makes you both happy and use your own imagination. If I decided to play with someone and I found out he had to go and ask others for tips on what to do with me, I'd think he had no imagination and not a single clue on what he's doing.



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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:34:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Your profile says your looking for fun so... kink is kink... genderless.... what are his fantasies... what are yours... discuss... set up the boundries ... do a search on cbt...there are lots of threads...educate yourself...I would say look to your local community take in a few demos..but as that doesnt seem possibe for you...I would say be careful...and start off slowly...

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:35:35 AM   
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Your profile says your looking for fun so... kink is kink... genderless.... what are his fantasies... what are yours... discuss... set up the boundries ... do a search on cbt...there are lots of threads...educate yourself...I would say look to your local community take in a few demos..but as that doesnt seem possibe for you...I would say be careful...and start off slowly...



yep.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:39:29 AM   
jt88atl


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Status: offline 		u r right littlewonder..
and there will be no fucking, we have both discussed that. We have discussed a few things, I was just wondering if there was something exciting out there that I hadnt thought of.. we are discussing some possible cuckold play. below is the one we talked about..

he likes exhibition, humiliation and public play.. I like the idea of meeting him somewhere for a drink, sitting at a crowded bar, i tell you to go into the mens room, and remove his underware and then return.. wearing thin pants.. We then continue to discuss what all is going to happen to him until his dick is rock hard, and dripping so much precum that the front of his pants are soaked. I then tell him its time to go, I make him get up and walk out in front of everyone, boned and wet. (btw... we both enjoy roleplay too)

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:41:52 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		what are you planning to do about his hard dick, though?

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:44:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: jt88atl

u r right littlewonder..
and there will be no fucking, we have both discussed that. We have discussed a few things, I was just wondering if there was something exciting out there that I hadnt thought of.. we are discussing some possible cuckold play. below is the one we talked about..

he likes exhibition, humiliation and public play.. I like the idea of meeting him somewhere for a drink, sitting at a crowded bar, i tell you to go into the mens room, and remove his underware and then return.. wearing thin pants.. We then continue to discuss what all is going to happen to him until his dick is rock hard, and dripping so much precum that the front of his pants are soaked. I then tell him its time to go, I make him get up and walk out in front of everyone, boned and wet. (btw... we both enjoy roleplay too)


You claim that no sex will be involved and then you tell us how you will sexually excite him. there isn't a single thing wrong with bisexual activity but don't claim you're going to be totally straight and then describe how you're going to turn another dude on.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:45:10 AM   
poise


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Status: offline 		You beat me to it, Greedy!
(the question, not the hard dick)

There are lots of things you can do with a cock without having to have sex with it.
Being that you have a cock of your very own, play around with it, imagine it in different scenarios, and go from there.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:45:22 AM   
jt88atl


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Status: offline 		i dont know yet.. i can come up with a lot of humiliation and exhibition things for him to do, but they all end up with him boned and worked up. I guess the next step is the part im having issues with.. what would you do?

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:47:09 AM   
jt88atl


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Status: offline 		i have googled some stuff, but must not be hitting the right sites.. Its new for us both so we will def go slow and carefule, we want it to be enjoyable for both without getting too extreme.. thanks for the tip..

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:48:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

Awesome Princess Bride reference.

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ORIGINAL: jt88atl
huh? what word? i abbreviated straight with str8 to fit the subject line.. or r u talking about master/sub.. sorry its my first post, still learning the lingo..


I believe his point is that the label straight doesn't apply to men who engage in bdsm with men according to what straight is generally considered to mean.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:54:54 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		I dunno, GS... a former top (and still dear friend) of mine was absolutely het when it came to sexual activity.

As a TOP, though, he didnt gender discriminate. As he said to me, guys have fun bits to hurt as much a women do.

OP: if this guy you're talking to has any maso tendencies, think about what would hurt YOU. Then discuss it with him. That won't guarantee he won't get a hard-on, but I have known some male bottoms who literally get off on painful stuff applied to their bits. No sex/ no worries ;)

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:57:16 AM   
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i have googled some stuff, but must not be hitting the right sites.. Its new for us both so we will def go slow and carefule, we want it to be enjoyable for both without getting too extreme.. thanks for the tip..


Well being that you got him to have a boner and you said no sex will be involved....I don't know really. Let him suffer with it? Put him in chastity? I mean, unless you two are going to fuck even though you state you are straight, I'm not sure why you would want him to get his cock hard. Does it excite you to see it hard? Then you're not straight dude. Ain't a thing wrong with it but be honest about it. You'll find it makes the wheel of life go around much more smoothly.


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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:57:29 AM   
jt88atl


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Status: offline 		ok maybe there is a little curiosity on both our parts, I dont think its sexual as much as its having the control to make another man do what I say, or for him having to obey what another man orders him to do. I know he has given a few force bi blowjobs, and I can see that happening. He enjoys a some cbt, which I dont get at all.. but would work with him that. Watersports is also something I think were both curious about.. I think Im just a little nervous becuase its the first time with a guy.. and there is a slight age difference. im a very mature go with the flow 25yo guy, he is 40yo strong alpha type in his everyday life. Im just on here lookin for ideas is all.. thanks for ur reply

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:00:23 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		So have him blow ya ;) have him lick your feet. etc etc.

(and please, hon. STOP with the txtspk??)

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:00:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		OK, you're exploring. That's good. As he is into cbt (I understand totally your aversion to that I prefer CBtlc myself) maybe a few of the Dommes around here can give you some ideas.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:05:11 AM   
jt88atl


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Status: offline 		its not his hard cock that would excite me.. it was the exhibition part.. getting him hard in a public bar full of people.. making him walk out in fornt of them all.. I alwasy considered myself very open minded, but it seems most think i should use the term bi.. im ok with either i guess.. thanks

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