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Tired of looking? - 6/7/2006 9:56:47 PM

michaelGA2

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i am wondering if i'm the only one here that is getting tired of looking. it seems that this is a neverending game for most people. when does it end...if ever?

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/7/2006 10:00:12 PM

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Stop looking. That's always when it happens.

It just takes time. Good luck to you.

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/7/2006 10:00:30 PM

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i am wondering if i'm the only one here that is getting tired of looking. it seems that this is a neverending game for most people. when does it end...if ever?

Check the old threads you started about this same topic... our answers will likely be about the same now as they were then.

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/7/2006 10:03:05 PM

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I get tired, take a break but i always come back. I just can't seem to give up completely. I did give up once and married nilla. Oh dear god don't do that. bad bad idea.

Looking for a good match takes time and online is EXTREMELY fustrating and alot of time it's a waste of time but then again you could meet the person of your dreams tomorrow. You just never know.

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/7/2006 10:05:46 PM

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I'm thinking of putting some bait in my profile in an attempt to lure more people to me. Does anyone know the HTML code to imbed a plate of nachos into text?

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/7/2006 10:33:12 PM

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Micheal... I see you're back to feeling sorry for yourself again....
Previous advice........ turn off the pc.. walk out the door... and go meet people.. Wait... I forgot... no car... ok..walk your ass to town... hitch a ride... you manage to go other places and get other things when needed.

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/7/2006 10:34:23 PM

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lol to all, happens when one least expects it and unfortunately never fails have to decide what flavor one wants cause it runneth over then. Nachos would have worked giggles so might be a great idea. Need to change profile to not really looking but if it happens it happens. akisha i too gave up and married nilla and again right dear god don't do that! Love my nilla but love future Master more.

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/7/2006 11:39:27 PM

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Yup. We get tired.

So we stop for a while. :) Remind each other why we like each other a lot. Have -especially- kinky sex ;)

Then go and place another personal ad, or host an event and meet people again.

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 1:25:27 AM

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I registered here and met the man who I now call Master about 8 days later at a club. We flirted, exchanged some innuendo and were shocked as hell to find that we had this in common as well as so much more.

Like they say, you find what you're looking for when you stop looking.

I have yet to drag him here, thinking I'll have to soon...work my submissive powers on him and all

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 2:51:16 AM

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You have been on Collarme Boards for quite some time now. You are the most negative person I have ever seen post.I would think that most around here have seen theses posts and or know of your negative history of most everything in your life. . Maybe try to change your style be more open to things and have a more positive attitude. Stop making excuses for why you cannot get out and meet people do this or that. If you want some thing bad enough you will Work hard for it.

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 2:55:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Pavel

I'm thinking of putting some bait in my profile in an attempt to lure more people to me. Does anyone know the HTML code to imbed a plate of nachos into text?

LOL Pavel......maybe this will help.... here, print this out, and pin it to your shirt for maximum effect.

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 3:04:44 AM

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I don't look, that way lies frustration.

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 3:08:10 AM

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I don't look, I hope. Except I'm at a point right now where I think...ewwwww. I need a reminder of why it is I think I need a man in my life.

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 3:14:13 AM

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i am wondering if i'm the only one here that is getting tired of looking. it seems that this is a neverending game for most people. when does it end...if ever?

It ends when you Quit.
Think about it Michael would you be any happier if you did?
You would still probably be here pissing off about the same thing "how lonely you are".
Who know's even if you found someone, you still might come here and express your dismay?
Maybe you need to find yourself first?

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 3:15:24 AM

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Get out of the "Feeling sorry for yourself" mode and go do something fun....Don't worry too much about "The search", keep out there and open to possibilitys.

My girl came onto CM one day to take down her profile.... but happened to check through her mail first and noticed a mail that caught her attention..... So she put off taking down the profile and wrote back....... she now wears my collar. If I had put off writting that mail for 24 hours, it wouldn't have happened! She wouldn't have been here to read it!

It happens and often when you least expect it.... but you have to be in the right place, open to possibilitys, open to still taking a chance and not so down on yourself that you look like someone with nothing to offer!

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 3:41:51 AM

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I think I have found someone, lets all hope it works out!!!!

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 3:43:25 AM

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I think I have found someone, lets all hope it works out!!!!

Good luck sweetie

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 3:48:16 AM

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I think I have found someone, lets all hope it works out!!!!

WOW! thats great cuddles... all the best...

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 3:50:44 AM

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I stopped looking, I was so into my work and not paying any attention, then he emailed me here. The harder you look, the less you find!

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RE: Tired of looking? - 6/8/2006 4:01:44 AM

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I'm thinking of putting some bait in my profile in an attempt to lure more people to me. Does anyone know the HTML code to imbed a plate of nachos into text?

LOL Pavel......maybe this will help.... here, print this out, and pin it to your shirt for maximum effect.

roflmao

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