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LadyConstanze -> RE: Seeing a Collar person on a standard dating website (7/25/2012 8:55:14 AM)
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ORIGINAL: hardcybermaster
A friends only option eh? Interesting, let me think about that for......a millisecond. What about every other option? Of course there are people here not looking for dates but the majority are. Infact quite a few of the friends only profiles will say that they are not looking as they found their partner here, how fucking lucky was that given that CM isn't a dating site?
Look at the numbers on either side.
I am pretty sure I have seen you post about how many people join this site every week in response to a "can't find a Dom/Domme/sub" whine so don't be daft, you know as well as everyone that CM is primarily a dating site. Just 'cos you don't need it to be that doesn't mean it isn't does it?
If you put a vase on top of your TV it's still a TV, it may have an extra function but it's main job is being a TV and that's how 99% of people will see it (weird analogy, lol)
I haven't met my other half here, I actually met him on a geek site, does that mean the geek site stopped being related to programming and is now a dating site? After all I met a guy there and became seriously involved with him...
A lot of people meet their spouses in pubs or bars or even at work, so does that mean that once I am involved with somebody, I can't go to pubs anymore, or heaven forbid work?
Because a lot of people want this to be a dating site doesn't make it one. Seriously, I stare at my Volvo quite often and want it to be a nice classic 911, unfortunately the Volvo doesn't magically change. Both are cars though... Just like on any site or place where there is a community, people are bound to meet and hook up, it doesn't turn my local pub into a singles bar!
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