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kiwisub12 -> RE: how far can I make my sub go?? (7/26/2012 5:52:07 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Brutalessons
Kiwi, that was one of the points I made in My "glib" response but you do hit on a key aspect, but under a bit of a flawed analogy. It is Me that Guides, so the Limits of that become My own limitations. However, as far as she can go can rarely be conceived at the onset of a relationship rather it is a leasning curve for both Dom and sub, regardless of experience levels. Entering in to this life, limited by Ones oen imagination or under the delusion that "Here" is the blueprint, and here is the end result will almost certainly end in disappointment for both as Both are capable of so much more.
I have yet to meet someone in this Life from whom I have not learned something from, and My eduction continues, hopefully right until I draw My last breath. Lordokahi, the OP is just beginning down this path and I do envy him the view from his fresh outlook.
Please note that in All My postings and ramblings these are My own musings and should be taken as such and not as the definitive answer, for which i doubt One exists.
I think there is a certain amount of trepidation on the part of doms whilst taking on new subs who aren't new to the whole situation of BDSM. The idea that the sub may know more than the dom is intimidating, so you get profiles of doms who want people who have no other relationship to compare to.
the dom wants to be the one to bring up new things and the the Master and Commander. Pity that, because the dom looses a precious resource - a knowlegable sub.
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