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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/5/2012 3:13:38 PM

CalifChick

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Master would seriously think I had lost my brains if I asked someone OUTSIDE of our relationship how I could make him happy.

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/5/2012 3:25:00 PM

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I would think you had lost your brains, too.

It's okay, it's a thing that goes around every summer.

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/5/2012 8:37:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Master would seriously think I had lost my brains if I asked someone OUTSIDE of our relationship how I could make him happy.

Cali

Same here. He'd be thinking I haven't been paying any attention to him whatsoever all these years lol. I mean I'm forgetful but I don't have dementia just yet!

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/6/2012 1:17:56 AM

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Damned easy question, really....

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/6/2012 3:17:06 AM

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Hmmm ideas to make Dom happy...
Click Here (your welcome)

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/6/2012 3:22:41 AM

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In 7 months surely you know his likes and dislikes. Without knowing how much he's trained you to his particular tastes, the true pinnacle for me is when my sub/slave knows me well enough to be able to anticipate my needs without needing my instruction. It's the sort of sympatico that makes things flow naturally. The best way to be able to do that is ask questions, lots and lots of questions. Learn all of his favorite things. Learn how he thinks about things. Learn how he prefers to do things. Then assimilate.

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/6/2012 3:40:06 AM

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Learn to make the perfect soufflé. One of the best-kept secrets in the BDSM world is that all Doms love soufflé. Also, take ballroom dance classes in secret and then surprise him by entering you both into a dance competition. Surely he will love that. Oh and one more thing - work on your upper body strength so you can have sex in the wheelbarrow position. If you do these three things, your dom will be pleased.

Seriously? How on earth would we know?

The two rules of 'obey and serve' and 'surprise and delight' already mentioned are excellent advice. Though I've heard some Doms say they don't like surprises at all, and they want their subs only to do as they are told. I guess the lesson is that we can't possibly guess for you.

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/6/2012 3:52:41 AM

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Wait.
You do deepthroat, don't you?
Cause if you don't, then there you have it.

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