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ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MALE S... - 7/3/2012 9:09:53 PM

nakedplaything

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iv always wondered about this. porn is generally considered something that mainly men indulge in, but recently iv heard more and more about women watching porn.so do femdoms get anything from these videos? do you think they are made for femdoms or male subs?

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/3/2012 10:11:34 PM

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You skipped a step or two. If women indeed are watching porn more, what types of women (Domme, sub, etc.), and what kind of porn? You kinda assumed they'd be Dommes watching femdom porn, and I'm not sure that's a legit assumption.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/3/2012 10:34:51 PM

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OP, the type of porn you are describing is marketed towards male submissives. These folks aren't exactly stupid. The make the films that will target the demographic that is most likely to buy the porn in the first place. By far, that demographic is male.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 4:17:31 AM

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The only thing I "get" from these videos is a plethora of annoying cmails from men who believe femdom porn is a true-to-life documentary on the lifestyle.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 6:30:09 AM

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OP
I do watch some BDSM porn but most of it is very boring...

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 8:56:24 AM

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The vast majority of porn is produced for men (by men), and although that is changing, porn produced for women (or by women) is still in the minority. There are a few FemDom videos out there that are decent, but I can always find something in them that makes me go "Ickickickick". In fact my pickyness about porn is why I used to have a sub find it for me. It was his job to sort through all the crap and send me the sort of thing that I might actually enjoy. I found him quite useful lol.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 9:23:10 AM

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There are a lot of amature BDSM videos done my woman. So if you are looking for female produced BDSM porn, look in the amature section.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 9:35:28 AM

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Most bdsm porn is just ghastly, but I am a technique snob. It's easier to rerun memories.

Gay porn, now... a whole other story.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 9:36:32 AM

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Are you offering to direct?

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 9:39:22 AM

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You know some gay guys who are exhibitionists? And I mean GAY, not that forced bi stuff. And they have to be seriously built. Because Ideas, I have them.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 9:42:04 AM

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Force her mouth open to check her tonsils. Slap her face like it's a piece of paper. Call her a slut. Make her thank you. Okay. That's a wrap. We got us a movie!

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Most bdsm porn is just ghastly, but I am a technique snob. It's easier to rerun memories.

Gay porn, now... a whole other story.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 9:45:52 AM

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I cannot help you with the gay thingy. I just haven't moved in those circles

Though I do have a well equipped dungeon if you need a place to shoot the video

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 11:37:03 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: masmiss

The only thing I "get" from these videos is a plethora of annoying cmails from men who believe femdom porn is a true-to-life documentary on the lifestyle.

QFT.

On the extremely rare (as in, once a year at most) occasions I watch porn vids, they are always lesbian hentai. I do not watch porn involving men or living humans. Both either bore me or squick me.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 11:48:44 AM

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HENTAI!! Totally loving the hentai. Lulz is Bible Black subbed in French!

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 12:22:45 PM

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I love porn..probably as much as any guy does. I seriously have a porn collection. No BDSM porn though. Hubs and I talked about that, we might start buying some,

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/4/2012 5:32:10 PM

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When I first got my strap-on stuff, I watched some strap-on porn on xhamster.com to see how it's done. Well, it's kind of obvious 'how" really, so maybe I did just watch it for the hell of it. It does kind of get me hot.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/5/2012 5:14:28 AM

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Have to agree with the posters above, I find a LOT of the femdom porn out there just holds zero interest for me. It often just comes across as angry or really cold to me and doesn't spark my imagination in any way. Lesbian hentai on the other hand definitely runs the gamut a bit more (there are of course some pretty crazy/far out examples of this too that don't do it for me) and has some things that are much more style and fitting of my personality.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/5/2012 7:41:56 AM

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I totally expect lesbian hentai sites to see a sudden increase in traffic, LOL.

(If there's a sudden run on lesbian hentai-themed HNG CMail, do not blame me.)

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/6/2012 8:10:50 AM

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Can someone recommend a video that is more realistic to how things really are? I have watched several now and am starting to realize these videos aren't what a real life sub/dom relationship looks like. Thanks.

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RE: ARE FEMDOM VIDEOS MADE FOR/WATCHED BY FEMDOMS OR MA... - 7/6/2012 8:23:19 AM

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quote:

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Can someone recommend a video that is more realistic to how things really are? I have watched several now and am starting to realize these videos aren't what a real life sub/dom relationship looks like. Thanks.

I am not aware of any.

But you know...no matter what you are "in to", 99% of life is vanilla. The clothes need to be washed, the dog walked, the garage cleaned out, money must be made...these things don't magically go away just because you are kinky. A real life sub/dom relationship looks much like any vanilla relationship - except that there is usually a core D/s or M/s dynamic that forms the foundation of the relationship, and within all of those commonplace, vanilla activities of life - kinky things happen.

Porn makes you believe that it is going to be naked and cages and collars and total excitement 24/7. Naked and cages and collars and total excitement happen, but they are notes of spice among the necessary mundanity of life.

This is why it is important to be a person first, and kinky second when you are searching. People have to get along and be compatible in a vanilla setting first before much kinky stuff is ever gong to happen.

< Message edited by OttersSwim -- 7/6/2012 8:24:09 AM >

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