FrostedFlake -> RE: First Play Party Question (7/6/2012 10:37:01 PM)
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LadyPact As to the basic question, excuse My language, but fuck that noise! Why are you, as a top, beholden to play with somebody any more than a bottom would be? Heck,
It's great when you show up and the work is done! OK, safety meeting, then coffee break, then lunch. Work, work, work work work.
Kana -> RE: First Play Party Question (7/6/2012 11:24:30 PM)
I play when I want, where I want, and with who I want. And if anyone has a problem with that, well, they are about to have one more problem...
I think it's ludicrous to demand someone play with anyone, much less strangers, much less at their first party. That's absurd.
On the flip side, one piece of advice-don't go to your first party alone. No,no. Not for protection. Cuz you gonna be horny and wanna get it ooooooooooooon! Nothing is worse than being at a play party and all wound up and no one ready to blow :-)
xLaChienne -> RE: First Play Party Question (7/7/2012 12:08:43 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Kana On the flip side, one piece of advice-don't go to your first party alone. No,no. Not for protection. Cuz you gonna be horny and wanna get it ooooooooooooon! Nothing is worse than being at a play party and all wound up and no one ready to blow :-)
This made Me laugh because it mirrors My very first play party experience.
As a guest the only expectation a host should have of you is that you will have a good time and try to facilitate a safe and comfortable environment in which you can.
I agree with everyone else in this thread. Play when you want to play. Check into other local groups that don't have such ridiculous requirements.