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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 12:33:21 PM   
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I've read this thread with interest. Face it, what man doesn't want to know what the feminine half of the world is thinking? I've seen some enlightening answers and a few that were even honest LOL. One thing that stuck was the preponderance (not majority but significant percentage) of women who said "Short". I fully understand that if you're at your corner pub and see a guy who is short, you don't want to act like some chick in an AXE commercial and run over, cram your tongue down his throat in front of everyone and drag him home to ride him like a rented mule but seriously Short = ugly?

I think it would be interesting to see a thread about what a man finds UGLY in women.

The first 2 words off my keyboard would be "Shallow" and "entitled"


One side of my family tends to be tall. My grandfather was 6'5". At 5'6" I'm one of the shortest granchildren. Even the girls tend to be closer to 6'. I thought that was normal and thought my 5'9" father was the oddity, not the other way around.

I prefer tall men but I've never said no because someone was not. I have said no when people lied about it before meeting. Telling me that you're tall when you're 5'7" pretty much means that there won't be a second meeting.


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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 1:04:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are few things that I find really ugly, other than attitudes.

Preferences are another thing. Men who shave their chests freak me out. Men are sposed to be fuzzy.

No matter what the package is, the eyes are what get me.

It is amazing to me how some folks who are "attractive" can get uglier the more you get to know them, and some that are "plain" can get hotter the more you know them.

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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 1:05:53 PM   
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I've realised, I have no idea. What is the least attractive thing you can think of about the worst men that you've come across?





Probably what you men find least attractive about a women is what women find least attractive about a man. There will always be personal preferences for certain features, but the general - hygiene, breath, dressed appropriately, etc. - are probably across the board.

It's a tough question, you know? Truth is, as LadyHib said straightaway, it really, really, really is what a man is on the inside that determines whether he is "ugly." That's not avoiding the question. That simply is the answer. Just because I am not attracted to slim men with angular features doesn't mean they're "ugly." It just means I don't want to fuck them.

Jittery and eager-to-please is a turnoff. I'm not fond of blonde hair. And I hate it when a man tries to put more Doritos in his mouth than the laws of physics would allow. Invariably some fluorescent orange crap flies out of his mouth and straight onto me. Not cool. Not cool at all.



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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 1:14:37 PM   
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And I hate it when a man tries to put more Doritos in his mouth than the laws of physics would allow. Invariably some fluorescent orange crap flies out of his mouth and straight onto me. Not cool. Not cool at all.
That cracked me up and made me think of this, for some reason.






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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 1:25:54 PM   
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Preferences are another thing. Men who shave their chests freak me out. Men are sposed to be fuzzy.




I had a roommate that had posed for playgirl and thought he was God's gift to women. He kept himself waxed to within an inch of his life. I think the only places he had hair were his eyebrows and the top of his head. Truly, it's kind of bizarre to see a guy with no body hair at all.


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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 1:29:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		hmmmm....well, I have to say that the first thing that will turn me off is the whole bad hygiene thing. Sweaty is sexy only if you've worked it up having sex or doing a session.....gym stink, working outside stink, too lazy to shower today stink.....all gross to me. Same with a person's clothing....I'm not talking GQ, Lord, I'm strictly jeans and t's myself, but I like my men to look neat.

Physically, I've dated all sorts of men, from what's considered drop dead gorgeous to the average male. I don't really have a physical type....the thing that will turn me off is his voice. I'm a very aural person, call it a side effect of my career.....if I can't stand the sound of your voice, I don't care if you are the most handsome male in the world, you're outta there.

I look more at a person's attitudes, morals, a sense of humor, how they treat waitresses and animals.....not the shallow stuff. Looks fade, but you can't fix stupid! I need to make a connection on a physical, emotional and mental level with someone in order to interact with them on any basis. I have zero tolerance for bullshit, arrogance and stupidity.

Ugly isn't just the physical, some of the best looking guys I know are total jerks and assholes, and the most ordinary ones are the best friends and lovers I've ever had. They also seem to have less baggage.......

Just my .05 worth.

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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 1:59:55 PM   
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... seriously Short = ugly?


Short= less fuckable. I figured that's what the OP meant by "ugly": what physical characteristics are a turn off. I suspect many men are turned off by women taller than them.

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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 2:41:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		When I think ugly it is usually a personality trait.

When it comes to aesthetics the only judgement I make is if I am attracted to him or not. As in, do I find him sexually attractive. That is limited to when I'm seeking someone to enter into a relationship with, fuck, or engage with on an intimate level. I have very clear preferences and I am very blunt about it. Otherwise, how a man looks has little bearing on My interaction with him.


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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 3:40:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Some of these have cracked Me up. I loved the Doritos and Cheetos ones.

I may be the odd person out on this one, but the more I care about somebody, the more attractive they become to Me. I've heard other women say the same.

Oddly enough, MP and clip are quite different in height and build. MP is a bit greyer on the roof these days, but the only physical attributes that they have in common were hair and eye color. Blond and blue. Both of which have never really mattered to Me as far as having a particular preference.

MP says to say that it's just a different shade of blond now.



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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 3:53:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		LadyP, I don't think you are odd at all.

Every person I've loved in a romantic or sexual way has look hugely different from the others. Age, hair colour, eye colour, height, skin tone, even different temperaments. Hell, One woman even has a lot of tattoos and I pretty much hate tattoos.

But there are qualities that are important to me that they all share/d, at some point in time. Even the ex-husband was a decent guy aside from the booze, drugs, and personal demons. Before they took over.

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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 6:05:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I've read this thread with interest. Face it, what man doesn't want to know what the feminine half of the world is thinking? I've seen some enlightening answers and a few that were even honest LOL. One thing that stuck was the preponderance (not majority but significant percentage) of women who said "Short". I fully understand that if you're at your corner pub and see a guy who is short, you don't want to act like some chick in an AXE commercial and run over, cram your tongue down his throat in front of everyone and drag him home to ride him like a rented mule but seriously Short = ugly?

I think it would be interesting to see a thread about what a man finds UGLY in women.

The first 2 words off my keyboard would be "Shallow" and "entitled"


OK. I'm beginning to wonder, just a teensy bit, whether it was a good idea to start this thread. People have their corns, myself no exception.


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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 6:11:58 PM   
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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 7:01:21 PM   
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I've realised, I have no idea. What is the least attractive thing you can think of about the worst men that you've come across?

Please, throw all propriety aside. For once, don't BS us males. If it's a superficial thing, then go with superficial with my blessing. Open a new profile to answer this question if you're that timid about saying 'big conky noses' or 'bad breath' and are that terrified of looking like a vapid ninny. Please give the question some *bollocks* and don't be namby pamby about it.

Perhaps I'm reading OP wrong but if not its interesting that most of the answers focused on personality rather than the physical, which seemed to be the main focus of said OP.

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A lot of things I take for granted about the opposite sex, or more particularly my relationship with them. I find myself radically questioning such things, frequently, and despite the fact that I'm no longer a callow youth. Even the most simple things. Actually, *especially* the most simple things.

Peon, I think you've shown yourself to be an ebil sexist beast... Mind you I suspect many men question what women truly want, and don't always come to pleasant conclusions.

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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/8/2012 7:14:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam
I've read this thread with interest. Face it, what man doesn't want to know what the feminine half of the world is thinking? I've seen some enlightening answers and a few that were even honest LOL. One thing that stuck was the preponderance (not majority but significant percentage) of women who said "Short". I fully understand that if you're at your corner pub and see a guy who is short, you don't want to act like some chick in an AXE commercial and run over, cram your tongue down his throat in front of everyone and drag him home to ride him like a rented mule but seriously Short = ugly?

I used to scan personal ads (purely for research... honest), and two things were striking. The one physical attribute women's adverts frequently mentioned was height, and by a large margin. Other than that, very often they stated that appearance was not important. A couple would often mention being of smart appearance, not being over weight/unfit etc.

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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/9/2012 9:43:09 AM   
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but seriously Short = ugly?

For me, lol, yes, seriously. I don't know why, but men who are the same height or shorter than me I find to be very unattractive and unappealing.

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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/9/2012 9:46:47 AM   
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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/9/2012 9:49:56 AM   
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Whatshisname could rest his chin on the top of my head, and that amused me.

LOL

Needless to say, at almost 6 feet, it is practically impossible to find someone taller than I am

Thankfully, neither of the girls have this hangup ( they both are over 6 feet )

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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/9/2012 9:58:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe that's part of the thing, tall women want tall men? I am the tallest woman in my family, at 5'5". EVERYONE is taller than me, pretty much! And if they are too tall, it's just awkward.

All y'all are some SHALLOW.

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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/9/2012 10:37:44 AM   
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OK. I'm beginning to wonder, just a teensy bit, whether it was a good idea to start this thread...



I thought ugly was a particularly stong word choice.

The thing that floats my boat the most is an accent and the packaging around that accent has varied tremendously in my life. But personally, I've never thought that my not being physically attracted to somebody for whatever reason relegates them into the "ugly " category.

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RE: To Women: What is an ugly man? - 7/9/2012 10:49:47 AM   
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Whatshisname could rest his chin on the top of my head, and that amused me.

LOL

Needless to say, at almost 6 feet, it is practically impossible to find someone taller than I am



Really? I'm a little over 5'10" and I've never had any problems finding men that are taller than me.

In fact, despite the fact that height is not something I select for at all, and I really don't care about a man's height, I've never dated anybody who was actually shorter than me.
It's not because I select for it, but short men somehow don't seem attracted to me, or at the very least, never make a move.

It may have something to do with the fact that despite me being as tall as I already am, I frequently wear high heel stilettos and platforms that easily put me over 6'2" or more.
Considering that men don't have the option of helping their height a little, I can understand a 5'8" guy feeling awkward next to me at that height, even if I personally don't care.

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