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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 7:55:10 PM

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Gosh! You are RIGHT Lady Hibiscus. To my chagrin I forgot that myself when I considered the question.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 7:57:15 PM

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I know stuff. Yep.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 12:17:19 AM

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very few questions regarding sexual habits are asked of male Dominants. I happen to believe the female ones deserve the same respect.

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I've found that very few men seem to consider what they want to do with us as actually INTIMATE. Sure, they want to lick us for hours, or be rogered with our largest silicone accessories, but the notion that those are sexual activities that we reserve for those that we feel a connection to? Doesn't cross their minds.

I sooooo totally agree with both of the quotes above. I have no problem answering questions about other stuff, but when it's about actual sexual practices between myself and another person, it's nobody's beeswax unless they are that person!! As for actual solo sex, that's nobody's beeswax but my own.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 6:48:28 AM

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I've found that very few men seem to consider what they want to do with us as actually INTIMATE. Sure, they want to lick us for hours, or be rogered with our largest silicone accessories, but the notion that those are sexual activities that we reserve for those that we feel a connection to? Doesn't cross their minds.

Wait! Are you saying that giving oral sex is an intimate act? No wonder I've been having no luck spamming Dommes with offers of oral sex. I thought there would be a long line of ladies waiting to have their private parts licked by a total stranger. Who knew that you ladies view that kind of thing as "intimate"?

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 7:26:17 AM

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I know, right, Roch? I mean, we let strangers give us pedicures!!

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 9:08:37 AM

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I know, right, Roch? I mean, we let strangers give us pedicures!!

And pedicures are very intimate. Anyone who has watched the movie "Pulp Fiction" knows that.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 9:23:41 AM

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That was a foot massage... totally different.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 10:29:04 AM

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That was a foot massage... totally different.

Darn! Now that you mention it, it WAS a foot massage. My mistake.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 11:13:11 AM

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Bring out the gimp!

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 1:33:39 PM

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Asked because have seen mistress ads stating accpeting strap-ons are a requirement. So far I have seen humiliation, enjoying subs fear and anxiety, mind-fuck, pure dominant power, and training. Don't understand training, training the man to ______________?

Take it like a bitch

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 2:27:33 PM

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For the record, FAQs has no direct replies to the OP's question, rather it just sends you to a link for "stapons" inserted into the search function. If you post a reply to one of those latent threads, moderators will berate you for bumping an old thread. Participants in those threads might not even be CM members anymore or active participants on the CMMB.

What this thread suggests is that the CMMB is not a good venue to ask such a question, a true but sad fact about the "Ask a Mistress" section here. (At this point anyway.) You are probably better off going onto Fetlife and pursuing answers there.

To throw one constructive bone into the ring, I will point out that some women enjoy the act of Penetration and the power and control that goes with it. Women also enjoy the vulnerability of the man who submits to strap-on play. The turn around act is forced orgasms, wherein the woman is tied down and subjected to a vibrator or magic wand. Neither the leading man or woman in these cases is experiencing direct stimulation, but there is high excitement generated by the submissive in each scenario.

Here's a little nugget in the other direction recently posted on the CMMB. It's a really funny read, and quite honest about why one women in particular doesn't like strap-on play:

sorry if i offend anyone.. i'm not homophobic i promise. but i only want to date men who are 100% heterosexual. it seems like most male subs are at least a little bi curous/bi sexual ? thats what ive noticed anyway. why do people put "straight" on their profile and then say they are looking for a transexual ? sorry but thats gay ... also i would never ever use a strap on a guy because thats gay too. just the thought makes me shudder. most submissive men don't seem to care about what the woman wants, ironically , its all about them and their fantasies and fetishes . maybe bdsm isn't right for me . all i want is a guy who i can boss around on *my terms * , is that possible?

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 2:39:06 PM

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Why do people who say that they refuse to answer bother to say that? Why don't they just not answer?

(1) Its easier to be negative than it is to be constructive.

(2) It would take more effort to skip this thread than to direct a pointed and satisfying arrow back at the OP.

(3) Hazing newbies & cherries is an established and beloved tradition by long term CMMB incumbents. If the an OP fights back in any way, a thread can turn into a runaway train.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 2:54:50 PM

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Did either of you critical men stop for one moment to think about the OP and any history there might be? Newer poster asking what could be an iffy question, where he wants answers or he really, really wants some answers to get his kink on. From posting history and things said... empty profile and new profile... sorry, not talking about the pussy. Okay with you guys? Hum?

Besides that... personally I have found when I do talk about certain things... they always... ALWAYS end up in my email box.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 3:41:06 PM

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personally I have found when I do talk about certain things... they always... ALWAYS end up in my email box.

Yeah, this. ^^^^

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 4:11:33 PM

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quote:

Here's a little nugget in the other direction recently posted on the CMMB. It's a really funny read, and quite honest about why one women in particular doesn't like strap-on play:

sorry if i offend anyone.. i'm not homophobic i promise. but i only want to date men who are 100% heterosexual. it seems like most male subs are at least a little bi curous/bi sexual ? thats what ive noticed anyway. why do people put "straight" on their profile and then say they are looking for a transexual ? sorry but thats gay ... also i would never ever use a strap on a guy because thats gay too. just the thought makes me shudder. most submissive men don't seem to care about what the woman wants, ironically , its all about them and their fantasies and fetishes . maybe bdsm isn't right for me . all i want is a guy who i can boss around on *my terms * , is that possible?

For the record, this poster is NOT representative of the regulars here and was pilloried.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 4:31:34 PM

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DianeB269 has been the best read on this subject since I've been reading the CMMB:

I like to train guys to take thicker and longer rubber cocks...

For me it's not play, it's training...

Timid??? Once I put my strapon on , you better be ready to take it until my legs give out...

Watching my strapon going in his ass and knowing I'm the one in total control does it for me...
The Nexus with the right harness is also lots of fun...

The look on a guys face is priceless when I say "I'm going to have a orgasm don't fucking move"

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 4:56:14 PM

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What enjoyment do women get using a strap on on men? Is it humiliating the man? How does it make you feel?

Well I just have to take the other side of this question. Why the hell wouldn't they like it? Just asking.....

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 5:28:53 PM

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Due to some weird formatting thing, I can't quote today. I was hoping cloudboy could help Me with this one.

Since you could pull up a thread to find a comment from a poster regarding strap-on play, I was wondering if you would do Me a favor? Could you please pull up the last post where you wrote a response to any version of the question that shows your answer to any post here related to how you like to fuck? It could be any random thing you like. What size toys you like putting up your ass, what your favorite way is to receive a strap-on, a post maybe where you talked about the size of circumference the toy is, how many times you've had orgasms from anal play...... I'll even settle for the things your Mistress tells you to say when you are begging for her cock or any mantra she has you recite when you jack off.

When you can show Me that you are also happy to answer these types of questions, you can bitch that we don't.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 5:38:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Due to some weird formatting thing, I can't quote today. I was hoping cloudboy could help Me with this one.

Since you could pull up a thread to find a comment from a poster regarding strap-on play, I was wondering if you would do Me a favor? Could you please pull up the last post where you wrote a response to any version of the question that shows your answer to any post here related to how you like to fuck? It could be any random thing you like. What size toys you like putting up your ass, what your favorite way is to receive a strap-on, a post maybe where you talked about the size of circumference the toy is, how many times you've had orgasms from anal play...... I'll even settle for the things your Mistress tells you to say when you are begging for her cock or any mantra she has you recite when you jack off.

When you can show Me that you are also happy to answer these types of questions, you can bitch that we don't.

That sounds good to me too. I especially want to know all about his mistress. If we should give details... I am sure it would be no problem to share some of her details with a way to email her or see her picture. While he's searching for things... it might be nice if he could find his last post that wasn't bashing the women here.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 5:48:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I've found that very few men seem to consider what they want to do with us as actually INTIMATE. Sure, they want to lick us for hours, or be rogered with our largest silicone accessories, but the notion that those are sexual activities that we reserve for those that we feel a connection to? Doesn't cross their minds.

In the words of Monty Python!

Sit on my face and tell me that you love me
I'll sit on your face and tell you I love you too
I love to hear you oralize When I'm between your thighs
You blow me away

Sit on my face and let my lips embrace you
I'll sit on your face and then I'll love you
TrulyLife can be fine if we both sixty nine
If we sit on our faces in all sorts of places
And play till we're blown away

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