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johnnyjoe28 -> chating (7/8/2012 9:44:11 PM)

so how do u find ppl and chat with them



smartsub10 -> RE: chating (7/8/2012 10:18:04 PM)

Johnny, Johnny, Johnny. Start out by learning to spell "chatting" correctly.

Ok, next, send messages to people who interest you on this site.

Find local munches. I don't know if there are any in Delaware, maybe in Wilmington. Otherwise, Philly is your town. Google Philadelphia munch.

Welcome and good luck.



DarkSteven -> RE: chating (7/8/2012 10:21:17 PM)

Your profile being hidden isn't helping. Is that deliberate, or an oversight?



smartsub10 -> RE: chating (7/8/2012 10:25:10 PM)

His profile is there. But not much in it except that he lives in Delaware. That's why I suggested Wilmington and Philly as towns to find munches.



Dresproperty -> RE: chating (7/8/2012 10:26:47 PM)

How do you find and chat with people on other sites??? Use the search option and send a message to someone who peaks your interest. I suggest a message that is more than a few lines, is sincere, not crude and not pushy.

Welcome to Collarchat :-)



peppermint -> RE: chating (7/8/2012 10:46:47 PM)

You could always go to the chat rooms.



MsLadySue -> RE: chating (7/8/2012 10:55:45 PM)

First you will have better luck by knocking off the text abbreviations ... most people find it annoying. Proper spelling and punctuation are a plus.

Fill out your profile ... "i wana play in every way" is not going to garner you much interest. Tell people a bit about yourself, hobbies, interests other
than 'play time'. Make your profile something others will want to read.

Put up an up-to-date picture (yours is 4 years old) with less clutter behind you.



kalikshama -> RE: chating (7/9/2012 3:43:25 AM)

Be advised that many women are annoyed to receive a chat request from someone who has not yet sent them an email and gotten to know them a bit first. I turned off the Chat feature on the collarme side of the site. Once I know and like someone well enough to chat, I'll give them my gchat.



OohAahMrs -> RE: chating (7/9/2012 5:23:21 AM)

Pardon?



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: chating (7/9/2012 5:28:06 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: johnnyjoe28

so how do u find ppl and chat with them


How do you find people to talk to in real time? The same basics apply. Try (very hard) not to be a total dick, idiot, or creep while you engage someone is casual conversation so you can get to know them.

In this format, text speaks says you are a lazy git !! So stop that.

You've been on this site ONE WHOLE DAY. Patience is a virtue johnboy.

Oh, and welcome to the discussion side of CM.



DehumanizesYou -> RE: chating (7/9/2012 5:50:20 AM)

I happen to be from the Southern NJ and Philadelphia area myself, and I can let you know if I received a message that was written in text speak as the OP has, I wouldn't have responded or if I did it wouldn't have gone too far. The easiest way to get to know someone is to message them a well thought out message, of course having information about yourself upon the profile is helpful too.



ashjor911 -> RE: chating (7/9/2012 7:22:37 AM)

Welcome



Killerangel -> RE: chating (7/9/2012 9:49:08 AM)

I can understand the push you feel to get the ball rolling, good luck with things.

Finding someone to chat with could happen in a chat room or by sending an email. The suggestion to flesh out the profile was a good one since lots of women will look at that when they hear from you to see if they are interested and yours has not a whole lot in it. I guess you must have changed your one sentence in the profile from wanting to play to now asking a potential to tell you what to do....yeah, that's not working so well either. Do you want up to people at a party and say "Ask me anything", or "Tell me what to do". You wanted to know how to find a chat partner, well, give them something to chat with you about.



BurntKitty -> RE: chating (7/9/2012 10:24:51 AM)

quote:

Tell me what you want me to do.


1. Finish filling out your profile. What are your non kink interests? Do you have any hobbies, like to dance, cook, play or watch any sports?
2. Take a better picture. Put on a clean shirt, tidy up the place & use the self timer on your camera. Or, take a photography class and have a classmate take a picture. It can be of you, your dog or cat (if you have a pet) or scenery.
3. Do some volunteer work at an animal shelter. (This has nothing to do with anything other than shelters can always use more volunteers.)
4. Look for local TNG (the next generation) munches &/or events local to you. FetLife or google it.
5. Read the various boards, check out the archives for more info.
6. Repeat after me "I, Johnny Joe, will never ever use text speak in messages, chat rooms or forum discussions again."


Welcome to CM's discussion boards.

Grab a cold one & enjoy.

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Delilya -> RE: chating (7/9/2012 11:09:19 AM)

good luck



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