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Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 1:07:27 AM

ARIES83

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I am interested in hearing what an average
day in the life, is like for you stay at home
subs/slaves.

When the cats away does the mouse play?
Are you slaving away to get the house clean?
Does your day revolve around listening for
the icecream truck?
Soccer mom duty?
Locked in a dank dungeon??

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 1:30:04 AM

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It's not all that exciting really.

We have a baby so most of my day I am multitasking keeping the baby entertained as I do other things.

Get up at 6.30
Shower
Get everyone ready to leave the house
Make my husband's lunch for work
Drive my husband to work at 7.30 - Most days I stay with him for the first hour or so to tidy the office, make people breastfast/tea, serve a few customers (it's a family business so this isn't as odd as it might sound).
On the way home I'll do any errands that need doing - usually some combination of grocery shopping, picking up prescriptions, posting or picking up packages, or sometimes doing errands for the business.
Get home - do housework. Most days I do laundry, dishes, make the beds, vacuum and mop, clean windows, wash bathrooms, clean the kitchen.
If possible, baby and I will go to a class or group.
During naptimes I do my assigned exercises and start dinner. I'll usually also bake some fresh bread or make some babyfood since he likes everyone to have healthy home cooked food.
Pick him up from work at the end of the day.
Get home - he usually has an hour with the baby and does bathtime while I finish dinner and do any jobs I didn't get finished earlier.
Put baby to bed.
Then in the evening we just relax together. He's a gaming nerd so my 'duties' might often include playing certain games with him, otherwise I might sit by his feet and read or knit or browse the forums. I make sure to keep his drink topped up and tend to any other needs that might arise. If there's going to be sexy-funtime (or not-so-sexy not-so-fun time every now and again if I've done something wrong) this is when it will happen. We don't generally do anything elaborate though since we have a kid who might need tending to, so that stuff is saved for when we have a babysitter.

I also have other jobs which don't come up every day like keeping baby's medical appointments, paying the bills, cutting husband's hair and so on. Up until very recently I was studying but I just finished my degree and can't decide which Masters course to enroll in.

This is our routine 6 days a week. Sunday is chilling out day. He isn't too demanding with what he asks for me.

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 3:27:26 AM

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I really like that post, I think it demonstrates something that I have always thought. That submission, it is a state of mind. Not any physical act, merely your attitude and reasoning :)

oh and congratulations on the degree!

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 3:31:48 AM

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yep, what PS said!!

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 5:11:11 AM

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Thanks guys. I wasn't a housewife until recently, until 6 months ago I actually worked two jobs, so the degree has been hard to fit in. I have to give my husband a lot of the credit because he kept me focused when studying was just another chore on the list. He values self-improvement so you might say that's one of my responsibilities also.

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 6:41:49 AM

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I have to agree with him there, I love learning.

Best of luck choosing the Masters course!

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 7:05:23 AM

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I own my own business and work from home. So, while I am home all day, I am not a housewife. What happens during the day is dependent on how busy I am with the business.

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 7:36:13 AM

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My day is basically very similar as AthenaSurrenders', except that I don't have a baby to take care, my husband works from home, and I currently don't drive.

I get up, take care of stuff, take care of him, take care of me, and then we either scene or hang out until bed time.

Because he works from home there is a lot of BDSM mixed in with my day. We both enjoy doing that to the point that there are days where I'm doing all my chores at least in some form of restraints; but that's a perk of him being home, and not defining to actual structure of my actual day.

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 7:42:40 AM

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This is completely off-topic, but you have an epic signature!

Rammstein, a teenage phase I just never quite came out of

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 7:47:52 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission

This is completely off-topic, but you have an epic signature!

Rammstein, a teenage phase I just never quite came out of

With Till being a masochist himself, and specially considering the lyrics to that song, I just thought it was appropriate.

I saw them life in Denver with my husband not too long ago. It was his first time. They're still as epic as I remembered them. Too bad Till is rumored to retire next year.

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 8:16:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I own my own business and work from home. So, while I am home all day, I am not a housewife. What happens during the day is dependent on how busy I am with the business.

This, plus being a single father. (What? Ok, ok, I'm not a sub. I just like responding!)

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 8:19:08 AM

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrie-uaoUGI

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 9:33:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrie-uaoUGI

O-ho, I see you now!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bRdo7WXTVoM

HA!

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 10:32:14 AM

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While I'm not officially a housewife, yet, I am home now during the day. I have a list of a million things to keep me busy over the next few months to get things more organised around here to make life easier for my Sir & I.

So basically between daily/routine chores, attempting to complete some small things off the list, doing anything extra requested of me or that I think of. Also, among this, learn the area, try to do things for myself (eg. gym, classes, etc).

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 11:10:03 AM

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My life is quiet boring actually. I set the coffee maker up since he has to get up a 4 am to leave for work. Then I make his lunch before going to bed.

I get up make my coffee, make breakfast for the kids, clean up. Make lunch. Pay bills if I need to. Do some schoolwork with the kids start dinner. Give kisses and hugs when he comes home, serve dinner. Clean up watch TV, cuddle, put kids to bed, sometimes play, Rince. Repeat. LOL

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 11:47:30 AM

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I wanna respond toooo!!But also not a sub.

Wake up around 12 every afternoon,feed CoCo, fix first meal, (Hubs is usually already up with a client) check mail, start working (advert. co.) depending on what day it is depending on if I have a hair client or not. I usually save those for Tuesdays and Thursdays. If it is Friday or Saturday, I have to work My other job.

Very boring. But keeps Me busy. I hate to sit still.

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 2:35:40 PM

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At the moment I'm a stay at home slave.

Most of the day is pretty much quiet and I'm left to my own devices but with him always my priority. My day is usually filled with making sure the house is clean (which might take me an hour at the most lol. We're both pretty much clean and neat freaks), chores are run, making sure I've done everything required by Master for the day with any chores or details he needs done for the day. I make sure my appearance is kept up to his desires so I look good for him. I might try to come up with little surprises for him when he gets home, work on doing things for my own self that he would see as good for both of us such as learning something new that he would like.

Being that I my daughter is an adult on her own now and my college classes are online, my days are usually free to do whatever I want. He doesn't really have a lot of requirements or chores or anything like that for me. For the most part there are few protocols or rituals left for me. He requires me to be an adult and just make sure things are done and done correctly and if not to fix them and if not, that I tell him.

We lead a pretty much dull life by other people's standards, even by a "vanilla" standpoint lol.

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 6:40:43 PM

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Lots of laundry and run the dishwasher. And I cook extensively; if the weather drops to below 70 I'll be baking cookies and breads. I make my own jams. I can, but don't normally, make my own pasta. Long simmered sauces.

In addition, I'll run errands for him and with him. I go with him to his bowling leagues and keep the stats of what he's done so he can enter them into a spreadsheet when we return.

And I usually have to find out stuff for him because he doesn't have the patience for googling things and trying multiple keywords till you get what you want. I just now found out a bat removal service and read up on how to keep the bats from coming back. So when he sees the client tomorrow, he will be knowledgeable on what needs to be done to keep them out.

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/11/2012 8:16:35 PM

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speaking of jams. Knox changed their recipe and my last batch came out runnier then I am used to. >.<

But at least when I handed out some samples of the salsa I made from the garden I got a round of now that is what I call salsa.

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RE: Day in the life of a housewife sub/slave - 7/12/2012 1:11:14 PM

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We woke up and snuggled in bed for a while.
I got a blow job
We got out of bed, drank coffee and generally woke up
She cooked breakfast and as we ate we discussed what needed to get done today.
Now we're working on various things interspersed with her reading art sites and me reading relationship sites.
Next up we'll be going out to a nursery to get some shade grass seed.

Honestly... the rest of the day is going to be like that also. There's really nothing to see of interest. The "M/s" components of our life look something like me saying, "40 minutes on the elliptical today mine."

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